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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys could you please let me know where i am going wrong i would like some constructive advice if you can.
On why im.not getting any meets please would be much appreciated thanks guys. |
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It's only been 2 months. A guy on here did some research to see how long on average it took a new guy to get a sex meet, so you're just gonna have to be a bit patient.
You've grown up in the Internet age of instant gratification. Real life is a sod, ain't it just? |
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"Thanks for the advice so.my profiile is okay "
It's your profile and you write it so it must have been thought good by you when you wrote it.
Think of yourself as a lady, looking for a young guy to have sex with. Would you choose you based on your profile? Yes? Leave it. No? Why not? |
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"Thanks for advice tweeked.it a little "
Tweak it more. When I read it, it reads as though you're trying to attract anyone irrespective of your preferences. Be choosy. If you try to appeal to everyone, you'll end up pleasing no one. Write a profile to attract the sort of person you fancy. |
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It's not easy, is it? So, make changes such as spell check and grammar and sentence construction to make sure they are all right (at the moment they are not) - check out the meets section and get your self to a social or a club an meet that woman in Blackpool!!! |
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The write up isn't too bad at all, just as has been mentioned spelling, grammar and sentence structure.
Pics fuzzy though ... New pics please
Good you are open about being married and playing away, however that will be one major reason people are put off. Don't hide the fact, it's just something you need to put up with.
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"The write up isn't too bad at all, just as has been mentioned spelling, grammar and sentence structure.
Pics fuzzy though ... New pics please
Good you are open about being married and playing away, however that will be one major reason people are put off. Don't hide the fact, it's just something you need to put up with.
Red x"
plenty people will meet attached guys so not a great worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A spell and grammar check would be advised.
Be upfront about why you can't accommodate.
Be less generic and more you.he did say he was married"
He has now. He didn't before. But good on the OP, it is better to be upfront. It will put some off, as opposed to putting more off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The write up isn't too bad at all, just as has been mentioned spelling, grammar and sentence structure.
Pics fuzzy though ... New pics please
Good you are open about being married and playing away, however that will be one major reason people are put off. Don't hide the fact, it's just something you need to put up with.
Red x"
What kind of pics would you like to see ? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A spell and grammar check would be advised.
Be upfront about why you can't accommodate.
Be less generic and more you.he did say he was married
He has now. He didn't before. But good on the OP, it is better to be upfront. It will put some off, as opposed to putting more off."
On my original profile I was upfront and put that I was married and playing away, and that she was unaware. That part's not on there now for two reasons, one I got absolutely lambasted playing away for via private messages from fellow fabbers and, two, someone local recognised an item in one of my pics in the background and cottoned on to who I am. SHE told my other half and the rest as they say is history. I am now be here with a clear conscience. I knew the woman was, and still is, on here as a single woman even though she is married, hubby hasn't a clue she's here, with 3 kids. I'd never take revenge and tell her hubby. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Good luck OP, you deserve some luck for being open and forthright  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A spell and grammar check would be advised.
Be upfront about why you can't accommodate.
Be less generic and more you.he did say he was married
He has now. He didn't before. But good on the OP, it is better to be upfront. It will put some off, as opposed to putting more off.
On my original profile I was upfront and put that I was married and playing away, and that she was unaware. That part's not on there now for two reasons, one I got absolutely lambasted playing away for via private messages from fellow fabbers and, two, someone local recognised an item in one of my pics in the background and cottoned on to who I am. SHE told my other half and the rest as they say is history. I am now be here with a clear conscience. I knew the woman was, and still is, on here as a single woman even though she is married, hubby hasn't a clue she's here, with 3 kids. I'd never take revenge and tell her hubby. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Good luck OP, you deserve some luck for being open and forthright "
And that is a pretty good verification summary, especially for a straight man.
I congratulate you. I just prefer someone who is willing to set out their true position. I think most women and couples prefer that, too. But that is not a put down. |
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I confess I didn't scroll all the replies
Did check your profile out.
It could still do with a grammar check and personally I'd rather see the married bit at the top not have to read it all before I find out :/
Pictures could be better but on the whole you have managed a fair distance in a short space of time!
Patience is a virtue on here though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Makes us laugh guys asking people about there profile so they change it to what others think is right rather than what the OP wants his profile to be like,be a leader man not a follower for God sake.....urm that's our advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys could you please let me know where i am going wrong i would like some constructive advice if you can.
On why im.not getting any meets please would be much appreciated thanks guys."
Firstly you haven't been on for very long.
Your married which will cancel out a large % of people and your a smoker which again will put off another % of people so your up against it from the off  |
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