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Going to my first sex party
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In nervous and excited about my first sex Party tonight. I assume there's a whole social aspect to it first, before the fun begins? How do people typically initiate sex.
What is a good time to arrive - it starts at 8?
Do people tend to walk around naked all the time? If so what do they do with their clothes and valuables? |
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Depends on the atmosphere, sometimes things start happening right away (so get there at 8) but other times there's a bit of hanging around until the first people make a move for the bedrooms. Some party organisers like to get everyone nude or in undies right from the start - we do at ours - and people usually stay nude until it's going home time.
Don't take too many valuables, leave them at home or in your car. Clothes and their contents usually stay where they're taken off and nobody interferes with them. It's always amusing to see women going around the house looking for their undies at the end of the party!  |
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I went to my first a few weeks ago but I knew 2 of the people anyway so I was first to strip and then people sort of gripes me as a starter. Generally speaking it was drinks with clothes on then stroking then drinks with clothes coming off then sex then drinks with no clothes on then sex.... |
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Is it a private, invite only party or a club party? If it's the firmer the best people to ask are the organisers, as all are different. Same if it's a club party - ask the organiser or club manager for the etiquette and ground rules. Relax and enjoy. |
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All the house parties we have been to follow a fairly similar pattern.
People turn up, and drop their drinks off in the kitchen, sometimes the host/ess will do a quick tour letting people know any out of bounds areas.
People chat downstairs, drink, and then some brave soul/s will disappear to change into something sexy.
A couple, or more than one, will usually take the plung upstairs, and that tends to be the signal to get things started lol.
Guys tend to end up wandering round either semi-dressed, or in boxers, ladies tend to be in underwear.
Party winds down as people start to head home, until the last couple of hardcore party animals finish at crazy o'clock, before heading home!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the house parties we have been to follow a fairly similar pattern.
People turn up, and drop their drinks off in the kitchen, sometimes the host/ess will do a quick tour letting people know any out of bounds areas.
People chat downstairs, drink, and then some brave soul/s will disappear to change into something sexy.
A couple, or more than one, will usually take the plung upstairs, and that tends to be the signal to get things started lol.
Guys tend to end up wandering round either semi-dressed, or in boxers, ladies tend to be in underwear.
Party winds down as people start to head home, until the last couple of hardcore party animals finish at crazy o'clock, before heading home! "
pretty much this - all chatting and getting along - then i went to loo and came back in lacy play dress - and strangely socks and shoes started to come off and the chat altered direction - and yes we went with the flow - first to get there and last to leave - was a blast  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've hosted loads....I always found a few games get things started...but opening the door in a mankind...and getting people laughing/relaxed always worked.... |
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The parties I attend in Sutton are very relaxed. My first time u was bricking it. The girls and Dave were fantastic and very laid back. I was made to feel very welcome. Just be yourself and see the ladies as exactly that and not a piece of meat. Relax to as that is why you are there. Enjoy |
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"Is it ok to ask to join in with people already having sex?"
Only been to two parties,and the hostess did a geat job with the people they invited,and after a few drinks,banter,and flirting you can tell that everyone is really up for this.you soon find out how excited everyone is.The party is the highlight of the week, month maybe for the year.No one was indifferent,everyone wanted a laugh,a drink,and crazy,heaped,entangled messy sweaty sex.not sure you can call it making love when your wife has two cocks in her mouth,and another in her pussy!Anyway i digress.you tend to find that you are being grabbed from all directions.i never oncve got asked can i join in by any woman!they took what they wanted from me |
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"I've hosted loads....I always found a few games get things started...but opening the door in a mankind...and getting people laughing/relaxed always worked...."
That should read mankini lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No
The ones I have been to start with everyone chatting in the.lounge about every subject under the sun! Then - depending on the chemistry - couples tend to play in another room between 1 and 2 hours, although I have been to parties where there is little atmosphere and nothing tends to happen! It can vary widely depending on the folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How does one go about getting an invite...? 
Be a well established couple.At each party we've been to there have been a single guy at each one.It was mainly couples,and then single women."
Or look for parties that invite single men. They do exist. |
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"How does one go about getting an invite...?
Be a well established couple.At each party we've been to there have been a single guy at each one.It was mainly couples,and then single women.
Or look for parties that invite single men. They do exist. "
Where does one need to look?  |
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