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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
St Ives bay area |
We do like anal sex mrs love a bit of anal play and on meets will sometime tell the man she is with to shuv it up her ass.
So say yes some say no.
Myself iv yet to have a meet when a women ask for me to shuv it in her bum or be happy with more then just a finger.
Are women shy about recieve anal sex when swinging or is there just a lot that willnt do anal?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm not keen on anal, don't even like a finger going up there either. only time i'll entertain it is for DP.
with an ex it was a birthday/special occasion thing coz he was really into it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do like anal sex mrs love a bit of anal play and on meets will sometime tell the man she is with to shuv it up her ass.
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I would never refuse an order like that...especially from her! |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
St Ives bay area |
We we meet a couple once and they said they both wanted an anal meet so we meet them mrs let him go in her ass.
I went to go in his wife ass an she said no but I put that down to me being a few more inches then him.
But that about as never as we have got to a fully anal swap.
Maybe it's just my mrs that like a bit of anal play.  x |
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Well you do have a bit of a tool there so it's gonna take a bit of stuffing in...which a woman may not like if they don't have a chance to take it slow.
Also i would guess that women would prefer to be "prepared" for bum sex.
I'd certainly never say no if a woman asked me...done it before...it's ok...nothing mind blowing.
Also find it limits the options after...would never ask a woman to atm and wouldn't put it near her vag either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not beyond the realms of possibility but I would have to feel comfortable with the guy, I'm not sure that's very likely if just meeting someone for the first time.
I think it's quite unlikely that anyone expressing a desire to 'shove it up my bum' would make me feel comfortable enough to be in the mood. |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Hmmmmmm, very passionate and romantic.......shove it up me ass 
Only joking. Anal is great fun, but not for everyone. Be clean and lots of lube.....more if you are well endowed in the willy dept. Above all time and patience......oh, and did i mention lube? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done it but would love to see how it feels just ain't found anyone who will let me lol ??"
It feels good. I'm sure you will be happy to receive an anal fucking too as it's only fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd only ever keep anal for ourselves, I know Fred knows what he's doing and it kind of feels to intimate to share with anyone else. Also I don't like fingers up there only a cock which seems a little odd?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously cant compare it to receiving vaginal sex but when im dressed as lauren its its the only thing better thab watching a big dick get slowley pushed in my arse is the feeling of ut once it goes all the way in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some love it some hate it...some go along with it. A few of mine have loved it and two for the first time too. Takes time and no quick forcing unless she's well experienced in it. Sometimes a little mess often not... If youre worried about the mess try it in the shower...works well... |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
St Ives bay area |
We played with a female friend on a d*unken night out,
She came back to our house and we did anal but we are good friensd so she was happy.
She wanted her ass fisting which we did and we don't know how this even happern but she came and squirted from having her ass fisted. We are still baffled...lol.
She said it was amazing and then admitted she prefers anal sex over sex in her pussy. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We'd only ever keep anal for ourselves, I know Fred knows what he's doing and it kind of feels to intimate to share with anyone else. Also I don't like fingers up there only a cock which seems a little odd??"
Same here! |
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I adore anal, but as others have said there's a trust thing there. I have had one too many guys try to just ram it in thinking it works in the same way as a pussy, and it just doesn't.
Someone earlier said don't force it, and it's entirely down to that for me. It will all open up easily and naturally without any pain, if both sphincters are teased and played with. Definitely one to start so, so gently.
Once the ass is relaxed and opened up then it's incredible, gives me some of the most powerful orgasms I can have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does seem to be one of those things that is not high on most people's list to do.
I think the trouble is a lot of men have no idea what their doing, ram it in with no warning and put the poor woman off for life.
I'm a believer in patience being the key, closely followed by lube! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've played with several couples over the years and single females. It's not something I would automatically assume unless invited. I may play around the area with a finger or thumb.
One couple I played with for many years, when I first met them I asked if she liked a tongue or a thumb and was told quite clearly that a thumb was all that was required. Her arse was her husbands only. Fast forward a couple of years and we were playing on their bed, when she suddenly turned to me and said she wanted my cock up her arse. This surprised both me and her husband. Me because I'd been warned off of it and her husband because she'd never let anyone than him up there. Because the lady wanted, that's what she got.
So I would never assume, but if ever invited....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come across a few women who are fine with it. One or two who seek it out....but to be fair it's not really my favourite.....I do it to please them if I'm honest! |
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By *swordMan
over a year ago
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Anal sex is amazing if it is done in a right way. There is specific technigue how to please women anally but my advice is don't use massive dicks 9 inches or above
As this will destroy yr anal completely and won't be tight any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love it but how do you all prepare?, it takes me ages to throughly clean in preparation if u get me and worry about mess"
I like it occasionally, with average to small cocks, and like to prepare for it by douching, (you have to do it well in advance). If I do do it, new condom before inserting the cock anywhere else. Makes sense, dunnit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do like anal sex mrs love a bit of anal play and on meets will sometime tell the man she is with to shuv it up her ass.
So say yes some say no.
Myself iv yet to have a meet when a women ask for me to shuv it in her bum or be happy with more then just a finger.
Are women shy about recieve anal sex when swinging or is there just a lot that willnt do anal?!
X"
i wouldnt really want it from a meet to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We we meet a couple once and they said they both wanted an anal meet so we meet them mrs let him go in her ass.
I went to go in his wife ass an she said no but I put that down to me being a few more inches then him.
But that about as never as we have got to a fully anal swap.
Maybe it's just my mrs that like a bit of anal play. x"
It's not just your missus  |
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"Anal sex is amazing if it is done in a right way. There is specific technigue how to please women anally but my advice is don't use massive dicks 9 inches or above
As this will destroy yr anal completely and won't be tight any more "
I have genuine 9" and all my ex gf could easily manage I also use a 9" dildo its easy once u are having it regular |
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"Most men have absolutely no idea how to do anal sex! "
You just ram it up there, no lube or anything, pound away as hard as you can, bit of atm, cum on their face and they suck you clean. Exactly how it is in porn  (tongue firmly in cheek) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most men have absolutely no idea how to do anal sex! "
Very very true.
It's an arse not a pussy. It needs treating right. Get it right and we'll both cum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a few experiance where I've met a woman and she's guided me to her back door and well it would have been rude not to oblige... lol... love anal as long as she's it it... love a bit of anal play on myself to |
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I think a lot of people choose to keep anal to themselves as a woman it does require a bit of trust which takes time to build
That being said if I was horny and wanted it with a full swap couple who knows sometimes it can be in the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personal experience of giving anal is to take your time and take it easy, as I was seeing this girl that wanted anal so bad it was such a turn on for her and it gives me a hard on thinking about this as I write, but it was never going to happen my helmet just wouldn't fit in. Anal can be such a sexual experience if done in the correct manner and not rushed. Most girls don't like anal because it's been done badly or rushed as some point and puts them off. If I was asked or told or I told her it would happen anytime. Love a women that likes it in both holes hint hint |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We played with a female friend on a d*unken night out,
She came back to our house and we did anal but we are good friensd so she was happy.
She wanted her ass fisting which we did and we don't know how this even happern but she came and squirted from having her ass fisted. We are still baffled...lol.
She said it was amazing and then admitted she prefers anal sex over sex in her pussy. X"
Bloody hellfire...!!! Why can't I find a ladyfriend like that...!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We played with a female friend on a d*unken night out,
She came back to our house and we did anal but we are good friensd so she was happy.
She wanted her ass fisting which we did and we don't know how this even happern but she came and squirted from having her ass fisted. We are still baffled...lol.
She said it was amazing and then admitted she prefers anal sex over sex in her pussy. X
Bloody hellfire...!!! Why can't I find a ladyfriend like that...!!!"
Probably because it's fking dangerous, and it's nothing to be proud of fisting a d*unk lady up her arse. |
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We do anal and have done it on meet with other couple Yes we've discuss it before meet If it's mutual with both parties Mrs will prepare herself for it perfect empty bowel douche Also like DP it's can be real kinky and fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We do like anal sex mrs love a bit of anal play and on meets will sometime tell the man she is with to shuv it up her ass.
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I would never refuse an order like that...especially from her!"
Ditto |
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I love anal and in the OP scenario wouldn't take a second invitation to 'stick it up there' as she said!
It's one of those things that once you start doing it you realise how much fun it is and how much worrying over nothing some people do
Saying that badly done anal has the potential to hurt more than other types of sex which is where some people get put off I think |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
St Ives bay area |
"We played with a female friend on a d*unken night out,
She came back to our house and we did anal but we are good friensd so she was happy.
She wanted her ass fisting which we did and we don't know how this even happern but she came and squirted from having her ass fisted. We are still baffled...lol.
She said it was amazing and then admitted she prefers anal sex over sex in her pussy. X
Bloody hellfire...!!! Why can't I find a ladyfriend like that...!!!
Probably because it's fking dangerous, and it's nothing to be proud of fisting a d*unk lady up her arse. "
Well she knew what she was doing, just had a few drinks to make her more relaxed.. She is a close friend and there's a lot of trust between us all. She requested it and loved it... what's with your attitude ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We played with a female friend on a d*unken night out,
She came back to our house and we did anal but we are good friensd so she was happy.
She wanted her ass fisting which we did and we don't know how this even happern but she came and squirted from having her ass fisted. We are still baffled...lol.
She said it was amazing and then admitted she prefers anal sex over sex in her pussy. X
Bloody hellfire...!!! Why can't I find a ladyfriend like that...!!!
Probably because it's fking dangerous, and it's nothing to be proud of fisting a d*unk lady up her arse. "
Cant say im surprised at your reaction, you've obviously had some bad experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had penetrated Five people anally. Three women and two men - always at their invitation.
One lady, after asking me then instructed her husband to ensure that the condom she insisted that I wear, didn't come off, so he held it in position at the base of my cock as I thrust into her, and she backed on to me.
He thoroughly enjoyed his task and it added even more frisson to the encounter - if that was possible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex loved it and would pretty much demand it, there was something utterly filthy and I found it such a huge turn on at her language as she told me what she wanted |
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Thinking about it I have only had anal with one lady on a meet.
Admittedly though, the lady in question was a BIG fan of anal. To the point where he had no real preference over anal or vaginal sex, as long I was fucking her in one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone shoved it up my ass i would be sqeauling in agony !! Not in a good way !!
Where you thinking about a fantasy when you had written your post !!
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On my first date with an ex we were fooling around at my place and ended up doing anal....this was before i ever fucked her vaginally! She loved it.
I find the spoons position best for the lady, no weight on her and rhythm as fast or slow as she wants. Great for clit stimulation too. Exceptionally intense orgasms from her, ass and clit rubbing.
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