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Shaming time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was recently warned of this site for posting a serial time waster. After posting his username on my status I got other members saying he had stood them up to.

It takes us girls a lot longer to get ready for meets and the time, effort and expense we go into is something else to create the illusion. Surely I shouldn't have been warned but applauded for naming and shaming so he can't do it again, after all this is a swinging site for sexy meets and time wasters should be outed

What do you think fabsters x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well Alana1973 stood me up last night. What a timewaster!

See the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well Alana1973 stood me up last night. What a timewaster!

See the problem?

I do see that side yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you're wrong "

Can I ask why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you're wrong

Can I ask why?"

I don't really think it's our place to police the site for time wasters. It could quite easily be used maliciously by the bitter or deluded if you don't want to meet them

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I was recently warned of this site for posting a serial time waster. After posting his username on my status I got other members saying he had stood them up to.

What do you think fabsters x"

But whose time are you wasting getting ready for a meet? I don't think all girls take longer to get ready for anything. I think that is a stereotype. In my house, with two woman and three men (including my teens) the boys take ages to get ready ... they also do the housework though, so maybe that correlates??

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you get stood up, report, block, and move on. If all those other woman had done the same then they guy would have been flagged up as a serial timewaster and admin could have done something. Just naming and shaming looks like vindictiveness.

Read the FAQs and you'll know what to do next time.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Surely I shouldn't have been warned but applauded for naming and shaming so he can't do it again, after all this is a swinging site for sexy meets and time wasters should be outed

What do you think fabsters x"

If youve been warned already then you know its against site rules to name and shame. Report it and let Admin deal with it

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