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By *axandboo OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
So we had our first meet on here, it went really well from our point of view.
the gent said he would verify us as gen but now on day 3 and still no sign of it coming.
I know its down to the person and its not a requirement of the site, but it is now starting to knock my partners confidence (It was her first swing expericence) so she is seeing it as she was a let down to the 3rd party
has anyone had this sort of thing? I know you have to take this site with a teflon heart just curious how often it happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a lot of guys haven't verified me. i think it is because i (used to) fuck a lot of guys so they didn't wanna be associated with me because a lot of people think i'm an STD risk.
i'd message him and ask if he sent one because sometimes filters mean you don't recieve the veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has he verid others? One guy who gave me a veri said he was rubbish at wiring and asked me to do it for him & hed copy & paste!
I didn't I just told him to site owt. Maybe he's rubbish with words x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear boo is feeling her confidence knocked. It's defo a crap feeling waiting for a veri. Some people do take longer than others..I've waited weeks for one to appear. Some people get stumped on what to write and like to think it over..
Can you see if he's been online at all?
Not sure if its the done thing but I've messaged to remind people before now, after them saying they'd do one.
I think its only polite to return a veri..gory details don't have to be given.
If it irks you a lot an option further down the line is to block him so your veri won't show on his profile. I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt and wait a while though.
Try not to let it knock your confidence and stay in the saddle. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's also some perfectly explainable reasons why he hasn't.
In the past on my old account I struggled to leave certain people veri's. Sometimes it was because on here I didn't fit their filter criteria so couldn't actually leave one.
Ask him if he has tried to leave one, maybe a site issue  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Its a pain isn't because you can't verify til he does.
I'd send one reminder message then, if no veri after that assume he doesn't want to meet again and move on. Don't let it affect your experience on here. It just didn't work out with him. |
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By *axandboo OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Its annoying for several reasons
1) cant contact certain people due to filters
2) most wont take us seriously because we are not verified in person
So its a bit of a vicious circle really.... Hes been on and not returning messages or even reading them so no point in chasing it
And i know its a bit of a whiny post which i apologise if it comes across as one.
Even if we had a meet we didnt enjoy it doesnt take 5 mins to do a generic blurb if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its annoying for several reasons
1) cant contact certain people due to filters
2) most wont take us seriously because we are not verified in person
So its a bit of a vicious circle really.... Hes been on and not returning messages or even reading them so no point in chasing it
And i know its a bit of a whiny post which i apologise if it comes across as one.
Even if we had a meet we didnt enjoy it doesnt take 5 mins to do a generic blurb if that makes sense"
Get yourself in cam on here, as a couple obviously. You don't have to do anything sexual but just mention a meet won't verify you so you thought you'd ask for a cam veri. I'm sure many guys would be happy to, and cam veri gets you round the unverified filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are relying on verifications for your confidence, perhaps a site like this isn't for you? You guys might do better in a club or similar, where there's no method for feedback afterwards. |
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By *axandboo OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
It was a mix of things that were knocking the confidence. first time,
her opinion on the meet itself and how it went ect ect.
We prefer openness and honesty... if things were bad, it can be used constructively for next time. but if things are not said, how do people know?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some people don't veri as they don't want their name appearing on other profiles...would others agree?"
Yes , who would want to be seen meeting up with sluts like us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I'm pleased to see you got your veri..And a great one to boot! There'll be no stopping you now...I think you should meet gloswingers...they're famous! |
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