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Breaking my couples duck...advice!
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So...I'm normally the typical one to one..strictly females only...yes I suppose 'vanilla' as you'd say?
I'm a very sexual guy and always looking to explore and enjoy exploring the boundaries but...
I'm yet to partake in a club and indulge in the couples scene and I'm getting a fair bit of attention now from couples...is a club the best way to investigate or involve myself with an experienced couple!? Your thoughts? |
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"So...I'm normally the typical one to one..strictly females only...yes I suppose 'vanilla' as you'd say?
I'm a very sexual guy and always looking to explore and enjoy exploring the boundaries but...
I'm yet to partake in a club and indulge in the couples scene and I'm getting a fair bit of attention now from couples...is a club the best way to investigate or involve myself with an experienced couple!? Your thoughts? "
No. No it's not. |
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"I think you need to be clear on how you want to interact with the couple before you go much further then decide if you want to go to a club or more private setting. "
Good advice!! I think I need to explore this avenue!! |
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"Go for it! I had my first dalliance with an amazing couple the other week and loved it.  "
Ive always fancied it but always loved the one to one as get pleasure from pleasing...i think I need to try and see what happens!? |
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"I think you need to be clear on how you want to interact with the couple before you go much further then decide if you want to go to a club or more private setting.
Good advice!! I think I need to explore this avenue!! "
Yep. Are you 100% straight, would you want a couple who enjoy the guy watching or all three of you in a heap etc? |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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It's old advice, but chat in the forums, or check out local couples who, by their profile , appear to be looking for a man such as yourself.
Don't try and manufacture a meet by pretending to be into something you're not. I've had the pleasure of the company of a wonderful couple and he was happy to watch and not participate. Others where we've had a genuine 3 sum.
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It's probably more difficult getting involved with a couple than a single. There can be complex dynamics involved, which to a certain extent can only be understood by experience. We've had some uncomfortable meets with men who may be sexually confident, but don't quite get the MMF scenario. As a result we are very reluctant to meet anyone who doesn't have experience of couples. But that is partly our personality too. Some couples are probably better than us at taking the lead. If you are getting interest from couples then go for it. But do find out what they want first. That is really important. But your suggestion about attending a club us a very good idea. It will give you are chance to talk to couples and hence learn what makes a swinging couple tick. And who knows you may be invited to play. The experience will increase your confidence for when you meet a couple privately. |
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"It's old advice, but chat in the forums, or check out local couples who, by their profile , appear to be looking for a man such as yourself.
Don't try and manufacture a meet by pretending to be into something you're not. I've had the pleasure of the company of a wonderful couple and he was happy to watch and not participate. Others where we've had a genuine 3 sum.
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Good advice and taken on board! |
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"It's probably more difficult getting involved with a couple than a single. There can be complex dynamics involved, which to a certain extent can only be understood by experience. We've had some uncomfortable meets with men who may be sexually confident, but don't quite get the MMF scenario. As a result we are very reluctant to meet anyone who doesn't have experience of couples. But that is partly our personality too. Some couples are probably better than us at taking the lead. If you are getting interest from couples then go for it. But do find out what they want first. That is really important. But your suggestion about attending a club us a very good idea. It will give you are chance to talk to couples and hence learn what makes a swinging couple tick. And who knows you may be invited to play. The experience will increase your confidence for when you meet a couple privately."
Yes I've been thinking of attending a club maybe with a female friend at first and seeing the dynamics Nd get to k ow people on their level!?
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I've never been to a club. All my meeting of couples have been from this site or others using direct contact. Usually a social to see that we all get on and that includes the male of the couple as well as the female. Personally I prefer the dynamic of playing with a couple, all the attention on the female.
Which ever route you choose, just be relaxed and more importantly yourself. |
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