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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A very strange thing just happened.A guy sent me a couple of messages and a friend request,,he sent me a couple of pictures including of him in his police uniform,,,all seemed perfectly trustworthy until he suddenly blocked me.
So,,,possibly a pic collector but one with a police uniform (may be genuine,,,maybe not).
It's not excessively worrying in itself but it certainly has potential to be a worrying situation.
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"A very strange thing just happened.A guy sent me a couple of messages and a friend request,,he sent me a couple of pictures including of him in his police uniform,,,all seemed perfectly trustworthy until he suddenly blocked me.
So,,,possibly a pic collector but one with a police uniform (may be genuine,,,maybe not).
It's not excessively worrying in itself but it certainly has potential to be a worrying situation.
Any thoughts? Anyone?"
Has he got veris etc or is it a balaclava profile pic ? How long has he been on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It said 'verified profile' but no details,,,,it was a balaclava profile pic but the pic he sent me was a face pic (I saved it to my pc).
Just seems a bit odd.Only worrying in the sense that someone claiming to be a police officer has acted strangely (on a site of this nature). |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"It said 'verified profile' but no details,,,,it was a balaclava profile pic but the pic he sent me was a face pic (I saved it to my pc).
Just seems a bit odd.Only worrying in the sense that someone claiming to be a police officer has acted strangely (on a site of this nature)."
He has possibly recognised you!
Is that strange to block?
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"I'm sure it's nothing to worry about,,just took me by surprise.Thanks for all the replies.
X"
Its funny how certain things can spark off a little anxiety but think about it, you're not doing anything illegal so him allegedly being a police officer isn't significant. If anything its probably him who could get in trouble for sending pictures of him in his uniform on here.
We had a message once from a guy who lived in the next street saying he'd recognised us...made me sweat for a bit but when I realised he was married and his wife didn't know I calmed right down  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to everyone who has taken the trouble to reply or send me private messages,,,I feel a little bit silly for worrying over what was probably nothing (he probably just decided I'm not his type after all).
Still,it's nice to know people will rally round and help out in a crisis,even one that is not really a crisis at all.
I'll try not to be so easily spooked in future. 
thanks again. XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So a woman is worried about being blocked by a man and thinks something fishy is going on!
If a man posted this I feel the replies may have been along the lines of.....
Get a grip!
People can block who they want!
It's your own fault!
Women get 1000s of mail just get on with it!
Etc etc...
Maybe he just didn't want to meet you after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a woman is worried about being blocked by a man and thinks something fishy is going on!
If a man posted this I feel the replies may have been along the lines of.....
Get a grip!
People can block who they want!
It's your own fault!
Women get 1000s of mail just get on with it!
Etc etc...
Maybe he just didn't want to meet you after all! "
I'm surprised his messages didn't get 'lost' in the 1000s of other daily messages... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you allowed to save people's pictures? X
Who's gonna stop you?
Just thought it was a bit creepy x"
Maybe so but...A local policeman took an interest in me and then blocked me mid conversation.I just felt a little un nerved so I saved the pic that he sent me...not a pic from his profile. Just to be on the safe side (being ultra cautious probably).
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"It said 'verified profile' but no details,,,,it was a balaclava profile pic but the pic he sent me was a face pic (I saved it to my pc).
Just seems a bit odd.Only worrying in the sense that someone claiming to be a police officer has acted strangely (on a site of this nature)."
I was married to one for years they are strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It said 'verified profile' but no details,,,,it was a balaclava profile pic but the pic he sent me was a face pic (I saved it to my pc).
Just seems a bit odd.Only worrying in the sense that someone claiming to be a police officer has acted strangely (on a site of this nature)."
There are genuine Policemen on here, there are pretend Policemen. There are current and ex members of Special Forces on here (apparently). I am sure if you were on here long enough the Pope would pop by to say hi. I wouldn't worry about it, a lot of guys whether they are genuinely uniformed or not, try to use a uniform to get into your knickers. I am far more wary of the uniformed guys as they can be more hassle than they are worth (IMHO anyway). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a woman is worried about being blocked by a man and thinks something fishy is going on!
If a man posted this I feel the replies may have been along the lines of.....
Get a grip!
People can block who they want!
It's your own fault!
Women get 1000s of mail just get on with it!
Etc etc...
Maybe he just didn't want to meet you after all! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you 
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It said 'verified profile' but no details,,,,it was a balaclava profile pic but the pic he sent me was a face pic (I saved it to my pc).
Just seems a bit odd.Only worrying in the sense that someone claiming to be a police officer has acted strangely (on a site of this nature)."
Forgive me I've not read the whole thread....
You worry that he might be a picture collector, but you saved his picture to your pc?
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
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I have to say I agree with this.
What was breakfast? |
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
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However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site. |
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site. "
The amount of guys who think a uniform opens legs is amazing. I have had messages which just say the are a soldier, fireman, police, paramedic, nothing else just hi i'm a fireman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
I have to say I agree with this.
What was breakfast?"
Scrambled eggs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he isn't a police officer....then he is just an idiot who likes to dress up. No worries.
If he is a police office...he has, potentially, a lot more to lose than you. Keep his pic. No worries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site.
The amount of guys who think a uniform opens legs is amazing. I have had messages which just say the are a soldier, fireman, police, paramedic, nothing else just hi i'm a fireman."
I get them all the time! Like it's meant to impress me!! Sad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
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People should stop ripping the piss out of men not start doing it to others to correct the balance....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site.
The amount of guys who think a uniform opens legs is amazing. I have had messages which just say the are a soldier, fireman, police, paramedic, nothing else just hi i'm a fireman."
Hi I'm a cabinetmaker xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site.
The amount of guys who think a uniform opens legs is amazing. I have had messages which just say the are a soldier, fireman, police, paramedic, nothing else just hi i'm a fireman."
Did it work? |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Thank you to everyone who has taken the trouble to reply or send me private messages,,,I feel a little bit silly for worrying over what was probably nothing (he probably just decided I'm not his type after all).
Still,it's nice to know people will rally round and help out in a crisis,even one that is not really a crisis at all.
I'll try not to be so easily spooked in future.
thanks again. XX"
Hi, whilst I can relate to your concerns, please be assured you really do not have anything to worry about. You have done nothing wrong or illegal. probably his wife found the pic!Have you reported his actions to admin? best of luck...and stop worrying!!! Sue x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you reported his actions to admin? best of luck...and stop worrying!!! Sue x
why would anyone report someone to Admin for blocking them?"
Because people like to tell teacher! Even if it's for something so pathetic #gorunningtoadmin |
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"Have you reported his actions to admin? best of luck...and stop worrying!!! Sue x
why would anyone report someone to Admin for blocking them?
Because people like to tell teacher! Even if it's for something so pathetic #gorunningtoadmin "
No no no, every one knows that men aren't allowed to block women on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be supprised if someone in such a position would send a picture in uniform would suggest it's not real
But like others have stated blocking is a way of life on here
We ask to be blocked if you don't feel we are a match saves time we won't contact you |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
People should stop ripping the piss out of men not start doing it to others to correct the balance....... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would just like to point out that I'm not accusing anyone of doing anything wrong or illegal (not even intimating that they have).
I also pointed out that I think he possibly just decided he didn't fancy me after all and that I was probably worrying about nothing.
I have no concern over being blocked.not a problem at all.
My only concern was that a friend request was sent (ie access to private pics) and then blocked.
I have no problem being recognised either. If a policeman wants to say hello in the street, that's cool...I have no intention of trying to make life awkward for anyone else.I'm certainly not reporting anyone.
Sometimes, living alone and slightly isolated, particularly at night, can make me feel a little over cautious....I'm sure that's all it is...me getting briefly worried about nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would just like to point out that I'm not accusing anyone of doing anything wrong or illegal (not even intimating that they have).
I also pointed out that I think he possibly just decided he didn't fancy me after all and that I was probably worrying about nothing.
I have no concern over being blocked.not a problem at all.
My only concern was that a friend request was sent (ie access to private pics) and then blocked.
I have no problem being recognised either. If a policeman wants to say hello in the street, that's cool...I have no intention of trying to make life awkward for anyone else.I'm certainly not reporting anyone.
Sometimes, living alone and slightly isolated, particularly at night, can make me feel a little over cautious....I'm sure that's all it is...me getting briefly worried about nothing.
Thanks."
So let me just get this right... You're not worried about anything yet you're worried? I'm so confused! You say you're "concerned" that he had access to your private pics yet you don't have a problem with him recognising you.
No offence but it seems like the most pointless post I've ever read now! You may aswell titled it "I'm concerned about not being concerned" ...someone pass my a spare wall so I can face plant myself into it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would just like to point out that I'm not accusing anyone of doing anything wrong or illegal (not even intimating that they have).
I also pointed out that I think he possibly just decided he didn't fancy me after all and that I was probably worrying about nothing.
I have no concern over being blocked.not a problem at all.
My only concern was that a friend request was sent (ie access to private pics) and then blocked.
I have no problem being recognised either. If a policeman wants to say hello in the street, that's cool...I have no intention of trying to make life awkward for anyone else.I'm certainly not reporting anyone.
Sometimes, living alone and slightly isolated, particularly at night, can make me feel a little over cautious....I'm sure that's all it is...me getting briefly worried about nothing.
Thanks.
So let me just get this right... You're not worried about anything yet you're worried? I'm so confused! You say you're "concerned" that he had access to your private pics yet you don't have a problem with him recognising you.
No offence but it seems like the most pointless post I've ever read now! You may aswell titled it "I'm concerned about not being concerned" ...someone pass my a spare wall so I can face plant myself into it!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would just like to point out that I'm not accusing anyone of doing anything wrong or illegal (not even intimating that they have).
I also pointed out that I think he possibly just decided he didn't fancy me after all and that I was probably worrying about nothing.
I have no concern over being blocked.not a problem at all.
My only concern was that a friend request was sent (ie access to private pics) and then blocked.
I have no problem being recognised either. If a policeman wants to say hello in the street, that's cool...I have no intention of trying to make life awkward for anyone else.I'm certainly not reporting anyone.
Sometimes, living alone and slightly isolated, particularly at night, can make me feel a little over cautious....I'm sure that's all it is...me getting briefly worried about nothing.
Thanks.
So let me just get this right... You're not worried about anything yet you're worried? I'm so confused! You say you're "concerned" that he had access to your private pics yet you don't have a problem with him recognising you.
No offence but it seems like the most pointless post I've ever read now! You may aswell titled it "I'm concerned about not being concerned" ...someone pass my a spare wall so I can face plant myself into it!! "
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"There used to be a guy here who dressed like a vicar. Chances are he was not real either. Block him and move on."
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"I'm sorry but I have to agree with what someone said earlier...
If this post was written by a guy, by now he would have been crucified and had the piss ripped out of him.
Let's be bloody honest here, what relevance is it that the guy is wearing a police uniform? Everyday hundreds of people block other users, if he was wearing an Asda uniform would you be freaking out that the local store manager is going to ring you up and ban you from the Fruit and Veg department? ...exactly it sounds ridiculous doesn't it?!
Just because someone is in the "police" doesn't mean you can't be on a swingers site, just to confirm to you
1) it's not illegal
2) people working for the police have the right to block you
3) he probably didn't like you (brutality hurts)
So just to sum up, stop being dramatic, move on and stop worrying about something that is ridiculous and enjoy your time on here!
I'll shut up now and carry on making breakfast
However I would think that a genuiene police officer would not disclose his or her occupation on this site. "
why not? i have met a few policemen from here, they were open about it....it's just a job at the end of the day.
OP, i really cannot see anything in what you posted to be worried about and agree that if this was a fella's post it would have been full of entirely different responses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once met a fem for a 3sum with her policeman fb
I turned up and he got delayed but would be round in a hour. Turned up in a hi viz security vest in black trousers and a black bomber jacket. He even had a police car. A security car with amber lights on. As for hes handcuffs. Think he got them from the pound shop. Needless to say i called hes bluff and the fem said i was jealous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There used to be a guy here who dressed like a vicar. Chances are he was not real either. Block him and move on.
I wouldn't bet on it, going from recent press reports some of those vicars are dirty buggers"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's such a shame that some guys on here simply haven't the 'balls' to say 'sorry your not for me' I've found in the past even after many messages between myself and fellow Fab Ladies.. That there may not be a sexual attraction on both sides, it takes a stronger person to turn around and say 'sorry, your not for me'.. and that should be respectfully accepted on both sides, whether your saying it or the other party. I've been in both sides of the equation.... Hey your never gonna be attracted to everyone.. and visa versa.
Just take a small bit of solace in the fact that you never met this loser, keep your chin up, best wishes and better future fabbing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's such a shame that some guys on here simply haven't the 'balls' to say 'sorry your not for me' I've found in the past even after many messages between myself and fellow Fab Ladies.. That there may not be a sexual attraction on both sides, it takes a stronger person to turn around and say 'sorry, your not for me'.. and that should be respectfully accepted on both sides, whether your saying it or the other party. I've been in both sides of the equation.... Hey your never gonna be attracted to everyone.. and visa versa.
Just take a small bit of solace in the fact that you never met this loser, keep your chin up, best wishes and better future fabbing
x x"
Be good if they said "sorry you're not for me " too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's such a shame that some guys on here simply haven't the 'balls' to say 'sorry your not for me' I've found in the past even after many messages between myself and fellow Fab Ladies.. That there may not be a sexual attraction on both sides, it takes a stronger person to turn around and say 'sorry, your not for me'.. and that should be respectfully accepted on both sides, whether your saying it or the other party. I've been in both sides of the equation.... Hey your never gonna be attracted to everyone.. and visa versa.
Just take a small bit of solace in the fact that you never met this loser, keep your chin up, best wishes and better future fabbing
x x"
Well there's a conundrum right there.
First part of your post you blather on about being respectful, and acceptance and it's OK to say no thanks blah blah blah blah.
Then you finish with calling him a loser.
Cracking post.
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"It's such a shame that some guys on here simply haven't the 'balls' to say 'sorry your not for me' I've found in the past even after many messages between myself and fellow Fab Ladies.. That there may not be a sexual attraction on both sides, it takes a stronger person to turn around and say 'sorry, your not for me'.. and that should be respectfully accepted on both sides, whether your saying it or the other party. I've been in both sides of the equation.... Hey your never gonna be attracted to everyone.. and visa versa.
Just take a small bit of solace in the fact that you never met this loser, keep your chin up, best wishes and better future fabbing
x x"
Yeah but what people need to realise is that many of us guys get so many messages a day, like at least 10,000 and it's just easier to block and bulk delete than send out a load of 'no, thank you' replies.  |
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"A very strange thing just happened.A guy sent me a couple of messages and a friend request,,he sent me a couple of pictures including of him in his police uniform,,,all seemed perfectly trustworthy until he suddenly blocked me.
So,,,possibly a pic collector but one with a police uniform (may be genuine,,,maybe not).
It's not excessively worrying in itself but it certainly has potential to be a worrying situation.
Any thoughts? Anyone?"
I'd be extremely worried.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just want to say how unperturbed the OP has been throughout this thread makes a pleasant change "
Thanks but I have nothing to be perturbed about...I asked for people's thoughts and I got a range of opinions.
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"Just want to say how unperturbed the OP has been throughout this thread makes a pleasant change
Thanks but I have nothing to be perturbed about...I asked for people's thoughts and I got a range of opinions.
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"It's such a shame that some guys on here simply haven't the 'balls' to say 'sorry your not for me' I've found in the past even after many messages between myself and fellow Fab Ladies.. That there may not be a sexual attraction on both sides, it takes a stronger person to turn around and say 'sorry, your not for me'.. and that should be respectfully accepted on both sides, whether your saying it or the other party. I've been in both sides of the equation.... Hey your never gonna be attracted to everyone.. and visa versa.
Just take a small bit of solace in the fact that you never met this loser, keep your chin up, best wishes and better future fabbing
x x"
......why is he a loser ? If you don't mind me asking. ..? |
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