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Why is it so hard to find cuckold couples... I mean profiles say into cuckold and in some instances it's mentioned too but as soon as you start chatting and mention humiliatiion or anything to that ilk... The response is we don't want to go that far lol |
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"Why is it so hard to find cuckold couples... I mean profiles say into cuckold and in some instances it's mentioned too but as soon as you start chatting and mention humiliatiion or anything to that ilk... The response is we don't want to go that far lol"
There are different opinions, limits and desires for cuckolding. We have it selected also but only because Hotwife play isn't an option and cuckolding is the closest match. We've spoken to many couples and only a handful like humiliation so it's just what some are comfortable with and what they want to get out of it I guess. |
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over a year ago
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I'm in a cuckold relationship. I enjoy humiliation from my wife. The bull, unless very well known is really just there as a sex toy. That's why they're called bulls, not steve, dave, Andrew etc. Just "the bull". So if the bull starts to get ideas above his station the fun stops. |
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"I'm in a cuckold relationship. I enjoy humiliation from my wife. The bull, unless very well known is really just there as a sex toy. That's why they're called bulls, not steve, dave, Andrew etc. Just "the bull". So if the bull starts to get ideas above his station the fun stops."
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over a year ago
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We removed 'cuckolding' from our list of interests because too many people got the wrong idea. In our opinion humiliation is the more extreme end of the spectrum. |
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Far to many guys just dont understand the dynamics of a couple who are into cuckold or hotwife play , most seem to think they can come into a strong relationship fuck the wife and demean the husband . Then go off and think hes a 'bull' !! Totally Not what we look for in a play mate . |
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Whilst some cuckolds may like humiliation the majority will probably not.
It is probably also true that although those who are sub submit that they are also in total control.
Im no stud and when playing with couples my preference,out of respect is always for the husband to be the alpha male.
My laid back attitude makes me a good sub,I dont mind being denied and teased,in fact I find itva turn on to feel my manhood literally aching for attention.
My attitude is always that Im a guest within their relationship and that all activities with the female are a welcome bonus.
Some couples have shown me no respect in their replies. Their language has been wrong and my limits irrelevant.
I suppose that Im trying to convey is that Bulls are guests in a couples relationship and that the sharing Cucks should always be respected.
In fact you should probably treat every Cuckold couple as a Hot Wife couple until you ascertain their desires and wishes
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I only do humiliation if the couple like it however I do think the scenario warrants more than just fucking a wife in front of her hubby ... Class that the hubbyis more of a voyeur in that role? I travel the country quite a bit and don't get me wrong have met some cuck couples who are into it etc and all had different dynamic but it was always more than hubby just watching.... Even if the Hotwife cuffed him so he couldn't play etc at least it's more of a scenario than just watching |
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"Yes I understand the scene and the dynamic was intimating at my profile lol"
Start with some body photos, also if you're selling yourself as a bull have a nice photo of your dick. Emphasis on "nice". |
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Ok I'll try that ... I have pics in friends however nature of Job (I know its a cliche) but rather not be in public shot ! So if any cuck couples are interested drop me a line ... Always in south coast and Exeter and Plymouth as well as greater London x |
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As many have said...different people have many different views on what cuckolding entails...and at the same time there are many different levels of cuckolding to.
For me I like to chat and share and discover what makes the couple really tick....what they have done, what they would like to do...and once that has been fulfilled maybe then talk about progression, but only if all of are enjoying it...emphasis on ALL.
Friendship fun discretion and openness between the 3 people set the great dynamics  |
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"Ok I'll try that ... I have pics in friends however nature of Job (I know its a cliche) but rather not be in public shot ! So if any cuck couples are interested drop me a line ... Always in south coast and Exeter and Plymouth as well as greater London x"
That won't work, there are so many similar profiles, why should we bother to ask you for pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok point taken... I think the amount of veris stand for something regarding being genuine though even without public pics"
No. As any chef will tell you "The first bite is with the eye" no pics? Move on, doesn't matter what you wrote in your profile, didn't read it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There aren't very many genuine cuck couples on here. Plenty of oddball fantasists though. I think cuckolding needs it's own site.
It has. Several."
I suspected as much. This is a clear example of me not fully thinking things through before typing my message. I'll try and avoid this kind of ridiculous comment in the future.
Fab deserves better.
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"As many have said...different people have many different views on what cuckolding entails...and at the same time there are many different levels of cuckolding to.
For me I like to chat and share and discover what makes the couple really tick....what they have done, what they would like to do...and once that has been fulfilled maybe then talk about progression, but only if all of are enjoying it...emphasis on ALL.
Friendship fun discretion and openness between the 3 people set the great dynamics "
As good a summary as we've seen |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard to find cuckold couples... I mean profiles say into cuckold and in some instances it's mentioned too but as soon as you start chatting and mention humiliatiion or anything to that ilk... The response is we don't want to go that far lol
There are different opinions, limits and desires for cuckolding. We have it selected also but only because Hotwife play isn't an option and cuckolding is the closest match. We've spoken to many couples and only a handful like humiliation so it's just what some are comfortable with and what they want to get out of it I guess."
Totally agree with what you say. I regard myself as Cuck, simply along the lines of me (us) being turned on by watching another male seducing / f***ing my wife. However, the first sign of any bull attempting to humiliate me would(at the very least) be shown the door. In reply to a previous response, we have no difficulty whatsoever in finding bulls! |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"Whilst some cuckolds may like humiliation the majority will probably not.
It is probably also true that although those who are sub submit that they are also in total control.
Im no stud and when playing with couples my preference,out of respect is always for the husband to be the alpha male.
My laid back attitude makes me a good sub,I dont mind being denied and teased,in fact I find itva turn on to feel my manhood literally aching for attention.
My attitude is always that Im a guest within their relationship and that all activities with the female are a welcome bonus.
Some couples have shown me no respect in their replies. Their language has been wrong and my limits irrelevant.
I suppose that Im trying to convey is that Bulls are guests in a couples relationship and that the sharing Cucks should always be respected.
In fact you should probably treat every Cuckold couple as a Hot Wife couple until you ascertain their desires and wishes
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Thank you and very well said! |
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why do people think that cuckold mean to humiliate the hubby ??
A cuckold is the husband of a wife who also has sex with others
cuckold /hotwife same thing just that people do things there own way
its like saying your a apple but theres hundreds of different apples to try
no 2 swingers are the same so no 2 cuckold/hotwife are the same
that's our thought anyway |
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This is something I'd definitely like to experience more from the perspective of a "bull".
When I played as part of a couple I really enjoyed seeing my partner with another man - I wouldn't have described us a a cuck-hold couple but that's probably the closest thing to it.
Now I'm single I'd like to try being the other man, I certainly wouldn't describe myself as a bull as I've never done it before but I'm dominant enough to (hopefully) keep both parties happy and provide them what they want. |
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What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that? |
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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"Whilst some cuckolds may like humiliation the majority will probably not.
It is probably also true that although those who are sub submit that they are also in total control.
Im no stud and when playing with couples my preference,out of respect is always for the husband to be the alpha male.
My laid back attitude makes me a good sub,I dont mind being denied and teased,in fact I find itva turn on to feel my manhood literally aching for attention.
My attitude is always that Im a guest within their relationship and that all activities with the female are a welcome bonus.
Some couples have shown me no respect in their replies. Their language has been wrong and my limits irrelevant.
I suppose that Im trying to convey is that Bulls are guests in a couples relationship and that the sharing Cucks should always be respected.
In fact you should probably treat every Cuckold couple as a Hot Wife couple until you ascertain their desires and wishes
Thank you and very well said!"
And echoed by us, spot on. |
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"Why is it so hard to find cuckold couples... I mean profiles say into cuckold and in some instances it's mentioned too but as soon as you start chatting and mention humiliatiion or anything to that ilk... The response is we don't want to go that far lol
There are different opinions, limits and desires for cuckolding. We have it selected also but only because Hotwife play isn't an option and cuckolding is the closest match. We've spoken to many couples and only a handful like humiliation so it's just what some are comfortable with and what they want to get out of it I guess."
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"What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that?"
For me it's exactly this, although I might insert the word sexual before pleasure, anything else is just about how you like to season your steak! |
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"What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that?
For me it's exactly this, although I might insert the word sexual before pleasure, anything else is just about how you like to season your steak!"
That is hotwifing in the swinging sense. The term cuckold refers to the husband of an adulterous wife.
The word cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.
Many things are grey in swinging like an athletic or well endowed. I find thats why its best to talk or discuss what you want, however not many people are willing to put the effort in. |
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"why do people think that cuckold mean to humiliate the hubby ??
A cuckold is the husband of a wife who also has sex with others
cuckold /hotwife same thing just that people do things there own way
its like saying your a apple but theres hundreds of different apples to try
no 2 swingers are the same so no 2 cuckold/hotwife are the same
that's our thought anyway"
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Have said this many times Cuckolding has many levels. Personally I want and like it when Ginger takes control and humiliates me in front of a bull but unless we know and trust them then they had best not try doing it unless she's asked them to. |
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"What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that?
For me it's exactly this, although I might insert the word sexual before pleasure, anything else is just about how you like to season your steak!
That is hotwifing in the swinging sense. The term cuckold refers to the husband of an adulterous wife.
The word cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.
Many things are grey in swinging like an athletic or well endowed. I find thats why its best to talk or discuss what you want, however not many people are willing to put the effort in."
Yes that is the historical and literal definition of the word. |
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"What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that?
For me it's exactly this, although I might insert the word sexual before pleasure, anything else is just about how you like to season your steak!
That is hotwifing in the swinging sense. The term cuckold refers to the husband of an adulterous wife.
The word cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.
Many things are grey in swinging like an athletic or well endowed. I find thats why its best to talk or discuss what you want, however not many people are willing to put the effort in.
Yes that is the historical and literal definition of the word. "
My point is that everybody has a different perception. Often differing from each other yet similar in nature. |
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"What exactly is a genuine cuckold couple? Is it not broadly speaking a couple where the wife takes lovers or fucks other men and the husbands gets pleasure out of that? Or is it more specific than that?
For me it's exactly this, although I might insert the word sexual before pleasure, anything else is just about how you like to season your steak!
That is hotwifing in the swinging sense. The term cuckold refers to the husband of an adulterous wife.
The word cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests.
Many things are grey in swinging like an athletic or well endowed. I find thats why its best to talk or discuss what you want, however not many people are willing to put the effort in.
Yes that is the historical and literal definition of the word.
My point is that everybody has a different perception. Often differing from each other yet similar in nature."
I think its a continuum, and that there are loads of couples who land on that continuum. Which is why I was curious as to what the OP meant. |
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The best profile you could wish to see if was a cuckold couple wouldn't be pandering to the porn version of cuckolding bull so using words like dominate, assertive, alpha male as some of the best cuckolding experiences we've had have been with guys passionate, caring and respectful. Something along the lines of bull for cuckold couple willing to listen and make your fantasies come true..... |
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"The best profile you could wish to see if was a cuckold couple wouldn't be pandering to the porn version of cuckolding bull so using words like dominate, assertive, alpha male as some of the best cuckolding experiences we've had have been with guys passionate, caring and respectful. Something along the lines of bull for cuckold couple willing to listen and make your fantasies come true....."
These guys are amongst the best in the cuckold lifestyle. |
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"The best profile you could wish to see if was a cuckold couple wouldn't be pandering to the porn version of cuckolding bull so using words like dominate, assertive, alpha male as some of the best cuckolding experiences we've had have been with guys passionate, caring and respectful. Something along the lines of bull for cuckold couple willing to listen and make your fantasies come true....."
Important to keep a grip on what's fantasy and what's reality to. |
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