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Once and for all ladies does dick size matter at all ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This will never be 'Once and for all' - All the poeple that don't like the answer will keep asking again and again, until they get an answer they want to hear (there we go again, more referendum posts  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This could be answered every day but guys will always doubt the answer and sit there comparing it to someone else's.
In my wife's words, yes it does, she prefers them above average but that's just her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's took J ages to admit it to me. I'm average but we have a totaly honest relationship so she finally admitted her preference. She said she didn't want to hurt my feelings, bless her.
Just so happens I prefer them bigger too so we can both be greedy now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no!
Humongous cocks do nothing for me and will hurt me but a tiny cock will do nothing either.
I much prefer a nice 6/7 inches with medium girth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's took J ages to admit it to me. I'm average but we have a totaly honest relationship so she finally admitted her preference. She said she didn't want to hurt my feelings, bless her.
Just so happens I prefer them bigger too so we can both be greedy now "
Thats what I call a win win situation.
Well... im totally average, and happy with it simply because ive had no complaints. In most cases its quality over quantity.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's took J ages to admit it to me. I'm average but we have a totaly honest relationship so she finally admitted her preference. She said she didn't want to hurt my feelings, bless her.
Just so happens I prefer them bigger too so we can both be greedy now
Thats what I call a win win situation.
Well... im totally average, and happy with it simply because ive had no complaints. In most cases its quality over quantity. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small."
But it's all about how one uses said cock! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes it does. 
mainly people don't care about cock size coz they're more concentrating on the person they are meetingis compatible in other ways, but some sizes will put people off and some won't care either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small.
But it's all about how one uses said cock! "
Agreed but a well handled larger one will always yield better results than a smaller one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small.
But it's all about how one uses said cock! "
Precisely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small.
But it's all about how one uses said cock!
Agreed but a well handled larger one will always yield better results than a smaller one"
That all depends on the individual or individuals involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes it does.
mainly people don't care about cock size coz they're more concentrating on the person they are meetingis compatible in other ways, but some sizes will put people off and some won't care either way."
This. |
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small.
But it's all about how one uses said cock!
Agreed but a well handled larger one will always yield better results than a smaller one"
There are some women who can't physically handle a big penis. Might be because of a smaller vagina wall. Some are even put off by the sight of a larger penis, not giving much chance to even use it.
I think most of us (men and women) believe bigger is better because with a big penis you can use half of it if some one can't handle all of the shaft. Alternatively if someone is craving a large penis then you're more than prepared. With a small penis unfortunately all you can do is buy a penis shaft extender (Google it). Without an extender and a small penis you don't have much options.
(My opinion) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sizes matters I think if the person only complains about it...most average size Cocks do just fine cause they are not too big or too small.
But it's all about how one uses said cock!
Agreed but a well handled larger one will always yield better results than a smaller one
There are some women who can't physically handle a big penis. Might be because of a smaller vagina wall. Some are even put off by the sight of a larger penis, not giving much chance to even use it.
I think most of us (men and women) believe bigger is better because with a big penis you can use half of it if some one can't handle all of the shaft. Alternatively if someone is craving a large penis then you're more than prepared. With a small penis unfortunately all you can do is buy a penis shaft extender (Google it). Without an extender and a small penis you don't have much options.
(My opinion)"
Ahh but with an average size penis, you have more scope to hit the right spots on the vaginal wall. Quality over quantity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is my first post. Can't help but join in on this, NO. IT DOES NOT.
Any man who thinks it does, needs more confidence in himself.
Any woman who thinks it does, doesn't know what it's like to be seduced by the mind.
You can make a woman climax with her nipples. My cock hasn't left my pants yet. It doesn't matter what size it is. (As long as you can get an erection, I'm sure she knows what she'll do with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not shallow and I love sex with all different type of guys. I orgasm generally from clit play and I gush/squirt from fingers but......I do like penetration from a reasonable size penis.....sorry sorry but yes a very small one just doesn't feel the sane |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not shallow and I love sex with all different type of guys. I orgasm generally from clit play and I gush/squirt from fingers but......I do like penetration from a reasonable size penis.....sorry sorry but yes a very small one just doesn't feel the sane "
Well yes, a very small one isnt going to do much. But an average one can do many things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not shallow and I love sex with all different type of guys. I orgasm generally from clit play and I gush/squirt from fingers but......I do like penetration from a reasonable size penis.....sorry sorry but yes a very small one just doesn't feel the sane
Well yes, a very small one isnt going to do much. But an average one can do many things. "
Yes average and above is fine.....but some are too small sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not shallow and I love sex with all different type of guys. I orgasm generally from clit play and I gush/squirt from fingers but......I do like penetration from a reasonable size penis.....sorry sorry but yes a very small one just doesn't feel the sane "
A small one' is relative to different person surely. So answering this reoccurring question from teenagers in the playground - "mines bigger than yours, the answer is no. Size is nothing to with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my first post. Can't help but join in on this, NO. IT DOES NOT.
Any man who thinks it does, needs more confidence in himself.
Any woman who thinks it does, doesn't know what it's like to be seduced by the mind.
You can make a woman climax with her nipples. My cock hasn't left my pants yet. It doesn't matter what size it is. (As long as you can get an erection, I'm sure she knows what she'll do with it. "
i've cum with small guys but looking at, sucking and riding a big/thick cock feels really good and is much better than with small guys.
sorry but that's how it affects me mentally, just being big can turn me on a lot and i want to do a lot more with someone big because i enjoy that. sucking small or even average size does nothing for me and i won't be as enthusiastic or as good for the guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a profile looking for biggest cock she's seen.  She says 11 inches so far. Bloody hell. Her knew benchmark is small at 8". It used to be 3" is small. Haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can make a woman climax with her nipples
Some women, yes. Me? Never going to happen."
Don't be so negative, who knows, you may one day. The fun is trying. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"You can make a woman climax with her nipples
Some women, yes. Me? Never going to happen.
Don't be so negative, who knows, you may one day. The fun is trying. "
Not negative. Realistic. I know my own body.
I enjoy my nipples played with but I will never orgasm that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can make a woman climax with her nipples
Some women, yes. Me? Never going to happen.
Don't be so negative, who knows, you may one day. The fun is trying.
Not negative. Realistic. I know my own body.
I enjoy my nipples played with but I will never orgasm that way."
Trouble is with threads like this, everyone has a different opinion and when your opinion doesn't match someone else's they then try to change your mind or disagree that you're right. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"You can make a woman climax with her nipples
Some women, yes. Me? Never going to happen.
Don't be so negative, who knows, you may one day. The fun is trying.
Not negative. Realistic. I know my own body.
I enjoy my nipples played with but I will never orgasm that way.
Trouble is with threads like this, everyone has a different opinion and when your opinion doesn't match someone else's they then try to change your mind or disagree that you're right. "
Well given that I'm talking about my own nipples only, and they know nothing about me, I'm fairly certain I'm better informed on the subject! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and no!
Humongous cocks do nothing for me and will hurt me but a tiny cock will do nothing either.
I much prefer a nice 6/7 inches with medium girth! "
Ditto |
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There is buggar all wrong with an average size cock. What ticks me off is the fact that some men think it's all us women are interested in!
I don't need to know the length or the girth unless you are planning on shoving it up my ass in which case i need to know.
Show me your face, your muscular shoulders, a nice firm bum (covered by your jeans)...
As for your dick? No i don't care if it's massive, it's the shot from the cannon and not the size of the barrel! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is buggar all wrong with an average size cock. What ticks me off is the fact that some men think it's all us women are interested in!
I don't need to know the length or the girth unless you are planning on shoving it up my ass in which case i need to know.
Show me your face, your muscular shoulders, a nice firm bum (covered by your jeans)...
As for your dick? No i don't care if it's massive, it's the shot from the cannon and not the size of the barrel!"
Ok it was just a question 
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot will try to tell men it doesn't matter. But look to people's actions not their words.
When we start seeing a shit ton of profiles demanding average or smaller sized cocks, and only meeting and verifying with them, maybe the claims will hold some water.
But as it is, note a very apparent correlation. Generally the younger and more physically attractive the female, the more open she is to admitting that she wants huge cocks. Sorry but it matters, maybe not the only factor that goes into good sex, but a large one. I'd say sexual performance is about 1/3rd size, 1/3rd skill, and 1/3rd chemistry and physical appearance.
You can make up your scores in the other two areas, but if you have an average penis you are never going to make it beyond the 60% grade.
A lot of girls will say it doesn't matter, believe me given a choice they will be hopping on an 13 incher given half a chance. It's just the way it is.
My ex used to say the same things "oh I'd never have a massive one, they just scare me" turns out her fuck buddy before me and after I left was packing 11" with girth.
Doesn't matter? Yeah. Right. Of course ladies haha |
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"There is buggar all wrong with an average size cock. What ticks me off is the fact that some men think it's all us women are interested in!
I don't need to know the length or the girth unless you are planning on shoving it up my ass in which case i need to know.
Show me your face, your muscular shoulders, a nice firm bum (covered by your jeans)...
As for your dick? No i don't care if it's massive, it's the shot from the cannon and not the size of the barrel!
Ok it was just a question
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Sorry i've been inundated with cock pics recently x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot will try to tell men it doesn't matter. But look to people's actions not their words.
When we start seeing a shit ton of profiles demanding average or smaller sized cocks, and only meeting and verifying with them, maybe the claims will hold some water.
But as it is, note a very apparent correlation. Generally the younger and more physically attractive the female, the more open she is to admitting that she wants huge cocks. Sorry but it matters, maybe not the only factor that goes into good sex, but a large one. I'd say sexual performance is about 1/3rd size, 1/3rd skill, and 1/3rd chemistry and physical appearance.
You can make up your scores in the other two areas, but if you have an average penis you are never going to make it beyond the 60% grade.
A lot of girls will say it doesn't matter, believe me given a choice they will be hopping on an 13 incher given half a chance. It's just the way it is.
My ex used to say the same things "oh I'd never have a massive one, they just scare me" turns out her fuck buddy before me and after I left was packing 11" with girth.
Doesn't matter? Yeah. Right. Of course ladies haha"
Completely disagree, my partner is always trying to get me to meet men with big cock, but he's always going to be disappointed as i really don't want one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fell in love with a man with a small- average sized cock and I loved it but I loved what he did to me rather than what his cock did
I've since fucked a really large one and I deffo like the look and feel of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and no!
Humongous cocks do nothing for me and will hurt me but a tiny cock will do nothing either.
I much prefer a nice 6/7 inches with medium girth! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn't matter to me at all. Been with guys who are small, average and big and find its really about quality more than anything else. Some really big guys think all they need to do is stick it in and wiggle it about and that's supposed to be enough to satisfy you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot will try to tell men it doesn't matter. But look to people's actions not their words.
When we start seeing a shit ton of profiles demanding average or smaller sized cocks, and only meeting and verifying with them, maybe the claims will hold some water.
But as it is, note a very apparent correlation. Generally the younger and more physically attractive the female, the more open she is to admitting that she wants huge cocks. Sorry but it matters, maybe not the only factor that goes into good sex, but a large one. I'd say sexual performance is about 1/3rd size, 1/3rd skill, and 1/3rd chemistry and physical appearance.
You can make up your scores in the other two areas, but if you have an average penis you are never going to make it beyond the 60% grade.
A lot of girls will say it doesn't matter, believe me given a choice they will be hopping on an 13 incher given half a chance. It's just the way it is.
My ex used to say the same things "oh I'd never have a massive one, they just scare me" turns out her fuck buddy before me and after I left was packing 11" with girth.
Doesn't matter? Yeah. Right. Of course ladies haha
Completely disagree, my partner is always trying to get me to meet men with big cock, but he's always going to be disappointed as i really don't want one "
Perhaps you genuinely have a very small pussy and it's therefore necessary I guess. But on balance for the vast majority the point stands. Even L tells fibs about it it, which ironically was only established last night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters a lot to some and not so much to others.
Glad to have cleared that up for you "
....and those who say yes it does need to find a skilled one
....those who say no haven't tried a BIG one
....and those of us who have no idea haven't tried one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters a lot to some and not so much to others.
Glad to have cleared that up for you
....and those who say yes it does need to find a skilled one
....those who say no haven't tried a BIG one
....and those of us who have no idea haven't tried one "
I've had both - skilled cocks and big cocks. Variety is the spice of life! But skilled fingers - now that's another story altogether...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and no!
Humongous cocks do nothing for me and will hurt me but a tiny cock will do nothing either.
I much prefer a nice 6/7 inches with medium girth! "
where do I sign up haha  |
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By *onny247Man
over a year ago
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"Yes and no!
Humongous cocks do nothing for me and will hurt me but a tiny cock will do nothing either.
I much prefer a nice 6/7 inches with medium girth! where do I sign up haha "
Me too I tick those boxes! |
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"Maybe us men need to start to ask...what size is your pussy....We can gauge how snug it'll be and add it as a new filtering system "
Thing is a bloke can use a ruler to measure... What do you suggest for a woman to use to measure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe us men need to start to ask...what size is your pussy....We can gauge how snug it'll be and add it as a new filtering system
Thing is a bloke can use a ruler to measure... What do you suggest for a woman to use to measure?"
we just need to guess, or make it up like half the men do.
vaginismus - tight - average - baggy - cave. |
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I went to the doctor about my willy.He said it's the smallest one he's ever seen in 40 years of practicing !! He can hardly examine it !!
In fact he said he's seen a bigger one on a hamster !!
Then he asked me why I had come to see him- and I said it's because it's swollen !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I went to the doctor about my willy.He said it's the smallest one he's ever seen in 40 years of practicing !! He can hardly examine it !!
In fact he said he's seen a bigger one on a hamster !!
Then he asked me why I had come to see him- and I said it's because it's swollen !!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Size does count , however I prefer average or above , some of the really big guys I have encountered just can't stay hard ... So as some mentioned on here , all depends on what you can do with it !!  |
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