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By *ipi2001 OP Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain |
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain"
Geez you don't want much do you!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ...."
Yeah this is where we fail the test, not in the least bit relaxed / laid back / go with the flow.
Failing to plan is planning to fail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain"
There's only been a few couples we've met where we didn't click with them.
I think I understand what you mean, we don't have a long list of rules and just go with whatever everyone is comfortable with.
Mental stimulation can come from flirting, set the mood before even getting into bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain
There's only been a few couples we've met where we didn't click with them.
I think I understand what you mean, we don't have a long list of rules and just go with whatever everyone is comfortable with.
Mental stimulation can come from flirting, set the mood before even getting into bed. "
How do you expect to have fun if there aren't rules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they were 'normal' then they wouldn't be on here  
Case dismissed
Objection!! 
On what grounds? "
I was hoping someone else would carry on with quotes from ted when they're in the office  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain
There's only been a few couples we've met where we didn't click with them.
I think I understand what you mean, we don't have a long list of rules and just go with whatever everyone is comfortable with.
Mental stimulation can come from flirting, set the mood before even getting into bed.
How do you expect to have fun if there aren't rules "
There is rules, just not a list as long as your arm.
If someone has the preference of no kissing, no oral etc then we wouldn't really want to play with them. Since we have a preference for those things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"by normal I mean couples with relaxed attitude with some experiences ....and naughty ....a bit nice looking as well, but most of all couples with the a form of naughtiness which stimulate a bit the brain
There's only been a few couples we've met where we didn't click with them.
I think I understand what you mean, we don't have a long list of rules and just go with whatever everyone is comfortable with.
Mental stimulation can come from flirting, set the mood before even getting into bed.
How do you expect to have fun if there aren't rules
There is rules, just not a list as long as your arm.
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Ah that makes sense, we only have 20 or so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lets states the rules of the perfect, normal, swinging couple.i dont mean , no anal, no kissing ect ect... but which situation u wouldnt like to happen
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I think the obvious answer is them kicking off?
It's happened to us once or twice where a couple has had a bit of a meltdown  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lets states the rules of the perfect, normal, swinging couple.i dont mean , no anal, no kissing ect ect... but which situation u wouldnt like to happen
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Thou shalt wash thy genitals before presenting them near thine mouth... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we wondered why is so difficult to find a normal couple with whom we can play. we like to know couples first before playing... "
But you have 2 Verifactions 
Why don't you throw a hotel party for the couples you have met already and ask them to bring some friends along... Networking can be beneficial |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
Lancaster area |
If you need Chemistry to do this ( as my wife and I do ), it can be far more difficult than you would think. It's similar to being single and dating: You can meet a hundred people who are nice, and maybe even attractive, but many times, there's just NO SPARK.
A lot of people do not need any chemistry to play, and that's cool, but not everybody is the same. We aren't looking for new best friends to share our entire lives with, but we have to have a little bit of mind stimulation for anything to happen.
-JD |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"If you need Chemistry to do this ( as my wife and I do ), it can be far more difficult than you would think. It's similar to being single and dating: You can meet a hundred people who are nice, and maybe even attractive, but many times, there's just NO SPARK.
A lot of people do not need any chemistry to play, and that's cool, but not everybody is the same. We aren't looking for new best friends to share our entire lives with, but we have to have a little bit of mind stimulation for anything to happen.
-JD"
Great answer
Him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have met some lovely couples. we like to chat and socialise a bit first. If I am going to play with a couple I need to see the loving trust between them then I need to feel attracted to them both, luckily we have met quite a few couples where this has happened. Sometimes my hubby is not attracted to the lady, or the lady is not attracted to him....luckily he is happy to watch me indulge!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we wondered why is so difficult to find a normal couple with whom we can play. we like to know couples first before playing... "
We can be as normal as you like,and we'd bring cake xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you need Chemistry to do this ( as my wife and I do ), it can be far more difficult than you would think. It's similar to being single and dating: You can meet a hundred people who are nice, and maybe even attractive, but many times, there's just NO SPARK.
A lot of people do not need any chemistry to play, and that's cool, but not everybody is the same. We aren't looking for new best friends to share our entire lives with, but we have to have a little bit of mind stimulation for anything to happen.
-JD"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people do not need any chemistry to play, and that's cool, but not everybody is the same."
If normal is the majority, may be you are in the minority and need to change your request for"normal couples" and request "exceptional couples". In line with this, the level at which there is a spark for you appears to be higher than average. This may be way why you are not meeting many people that appeal to you. |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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"If normal is the majority, may be you are in the minority and need to change your request for "normal couples" and request "exceptional couples". In line with this, the level at which there is a spark for you appears to be higher than average. This may be way why you are not meeting many people that appeal to you."
That is probably some really good advice for me and my wife, too.
We are to the point now where we aren't really trying to make anything happen. It seems like every time we try, it just winds up being a lot of back and forth that ends in disappointment and aggravation.
Perhaps we just aren't cut out for it.
-JD |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we wondered why is so difficult to find a normal couple with whom we can play. we like to know couples first before playing... "
You'd be far too normal for us ! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a sex site if you want to meet for drink go back to facebook ffs SEX SITE NOT FUCKING FACEBOOK"
Actually it's a swingers site. That includes socialising. If you want to shout at people go to AW site.
Ignore the ranty little man. Hope you find fun OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm so if couples don't meet the OP criteria then they are not normal huh okey dokey
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I meant that a lot of couple's did not meet OP's definition of normal, and not that those couples were not normal. Of course those couples may object to being labelled normal!
I admit that when I became a swinger my idea if normal changed; now that I am involved in fetish, well my new normal would be kicked off the high table! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just viki this oap getting plenty of fun looking at your profile your not doing anything you have fun if you can get any maybe facebook is for you "
I am doing just fine. Thank you for your concern ranty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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jees who wants normal - we love the way we sit and rock in the corner- then we twitch when a notification pops up that we have a message and god you should see our moves when we are getting ready to meet up -  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"jees who wants normal - we love the way we sit and rock in the corner- then we twitch when a notification pops up that we have a message and god you should see our moves when we are getting ready to meet up - "
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In our experience there are hundreds of really nice couples here, of course everyone varies in appearance and sexual interests.
As the thread has progressed you have thrown in other aspects which you are looking for, maybe explain those on your profile in a friendly way.
Good luck in your search. |
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"jees who wants normal - we love the way we sit and rock in the corner- then we twitch when a notification pops up that we have a message and god you should see our moves when we are getting ready to meet up - "
Non-normal couples of the world, stand up and be counted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a normal genuine couple here x
We want fun friendship and chemistry.
Don't rush things
Patiences is a good thing
Xx"
Yeah it is possible we have a few couples we play with, but because of work and kids it difficult for us to get to gether...tgat life in the real world unfortunately  |
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