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Lenght of a outdoor meet
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Hey guys, how long do you think a meet outdoors should go on for? We met a guy for light fun recently and we were there for a good 15 mins. She was wanking him but he just couldnt come. I lasted as long as i could considering how horny i was so when I came my parnter wanted to stop considering we gave him 15 mins. He got a bit pushy once we wanted to leave and seeing as it was our first time we are wondering was it too short? I know there are couples out there that like to have sex for hours but she cums very easily so really after 15 mins it gets a bit much for her so we are both happy with that so we thought nothing of it at the time. So please what do you of experience think? Is 15 mins outdoors too short for most people or was he being unreasonable? |
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It's your meet so your choice to stay or go. The guy can always wank later. I would have considered letting him wank over your arse or into your mouth.
If we were doing outdoor it would be a quickie, 15 mins max  |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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" We've both come, so if you don't in the next 5 minutes, we're off! ". No pressure and unsurprising that he wasn't terribly happy. More communication on what you wanted might have helped.
Perhaps make it clearer that you both want a very quick shag and go.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys, how long do you think a meet outdoors should go on for? We met a guy for light fun recently and we were there for a good 15 mins. She was wanking him but he just couldnt come. I lasted as long as i could considering how horny i was so when I came my parnter wanted to stop considering we gave him 15 mins. He got a bit pushy once we wanted to leave and seeing as it was our first time we are wondering was it too short? I know there are couples out there that like to have sex for hours but she cums very easily so really after 15 mins it gets a bit much for her so we are both happy with that so we thought nothing of it at the time. So please what do you of experience think? Is 15 mins outdoors too short for most people or was he being unreasonable?"
I guess we would be pretty well qualified to answer this one.
Yet there isn't a simple answer ....
We have very rarely left a guy in limbo, as you did . But if she was wanking him for 15 minutes with no joy , I don't blame you at all .
However , what I would say is this . He may have been nervous , or expecting more than a wank . Was she naked ? Did he know what to expect ? Were you directing them ?
There are so many reasons why this may have occurred .
A few months ago we had the same thing with a guy ,
but Sabrina had been sucking and all sorts and I even left them to it for a bit . after 40 minutes I said ok that's enough now , I'm bored .
He left the car and called me over to tell me he was sorry but he had his girlfriend on his mind , and his phone had been buzzing . I told him to sort his own life out before engaging in the scene , and that we were pretty pissed off . |
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15 mins...that's nithing. Lady friend of mine invited a guy round for some evening fun. She showered, shaved, perfumed etc. got herself well prepared!
The guy arrived, was met with a glass of wine and some crisps......my friend stripped down to the lacy bits...at which point the guy spluttered into his wine, apologised and left.....with a big, stick stain on his crotch having shot his load in his pants in under a minute!
But hey ho....I got a booty call a couple of mins later and she was ringing my bell a few mins after that.
So time wise?? Who can tell? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think a little communication is key so everyone knows what's going on, if you expect it to only lats 15 mins let him know before hand.
I had a meet the other week and time was limited to 20 mins, but that was communicated beforehand by the couple I was meeting, I didn't cum in that time, but I left happy knowing that for the 20 mins we where fucking I gave my all and realy enjoyed it, then had a wank later recapping the earlier meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say. There's no time limit, it lasts as long as it lasts. But make very clear the ground rules beforehand so there's no confusion or bad feeling. |
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There is no right or wrong length of time meets should last, some like quick fuck and go and others longer.
My question would be did you communicate with the person before hand about time constraints, that you both prefer shorter meets etc. If not I would think he expected to take as long as he needed to cum, rather than being told it's over there and then.
Communication as to what all parties want is key, that way you can find play which suits your style and evetyone can be happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"15 mins...that's nithing. Lady friend of mine invited a guy round for some evening fun. She showered, shaved, perfumed etc. got herself well prepared!
The guy arrived, was met with a glass of wine and some crisps......my friend stripped down to the lacy bits...at which point the guy spluttered into his wine, apologised and left.....with a big, stick stain on his crotch having shot his load in his pants in under a minute!
But hey ho....I got a booty call a couple of mins later and she was ringing my bell a few mins after that.
So time wise?? Who can tell?"
I reckon it was the crisps that tipped him over the edge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is no right or wrong length of time meets should last, some like quick fuck and go and others longer.
My question would be did you communicate with the person before hand about time constraints, that you both prefer shorter meets etc. If not I would think he expected to take as long as he needed to cum, rather than being told it's over there and then.
Communication as to what all parties want is key, that way you can find play which suits your style and evetyone can be happy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is no right or wrong length of time meets should last, some like quick fuck and go and others longer.
My question would be did you communicate with the person before hand about time constraints, that you both prefer shorter meets etc. If not I would think he expected to take as long as he needed to cum, rather than being told it's over there and then.
Communication as to what all parties want is key, that way you can find play which suits your style and evetyone can be happy "
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If we are playing with another guy and it looks like it's all dragging on I'll subtley let him know this isn't going to go on for much longer as I appreciate a lot of guys will want to carry on as long as everyone is having fun. Most the time guys ge the hint and we all make a fulfilling ending together.
But if they really don't get it then it's a case of, we really need a break lets get a drink etc...
I think communication is the key - between the couple AND the guy involved.
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We made it clear what the situation was before hand. We couldn't have made it more known to him that it would be a short meet and that all was on offer was a handjob. Ah its a pity because its really put us off doing it again to be honest. I read everywhere to make sure we set the rules, we set them and he was angry when we applied them.  |
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"We made it clear what the situation was before hand. We couldn't have made it more known to him that it would be a short meet and that all was on offer was a handjob. Ah its a pity because its really put us off doing it again to be honest. I read everywhere to make sure we set the rules, we set them and he was angry when we applied them. "
cant say I blame him being a bit peeved afterall you both got what ya wanted then made ur excuses how would you feel if you had been this guy ?? |
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"We made it clear what the situation was before hand. We couldn't have made it more known to him that it would be a short meet and that all was on offer was a handjob. Ah its a pity because its really put us off doing it again to be honest. I read everywhere to make sure we set the rules, we set them and he was angry when we applied them. cant say I blame him being a bit peeved afterall you both got what ya wanted then made ur excuses how would you feel if you had been this guy ??"
honestly? Probably peeved also but Id have manners and wouldn't act a total dick about it and throw the toys out of the pram to be perfectly honest. He knew the score before hand at the end of the day. Ah sure look its done now anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well seems he left you a nice veri, plus you are very clear on your profile. I can sort of understand his frustration, but seems you make it clear as to what to expect.
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Never,ever is there any reason to be pushy, whether you were unfair or not she calls the rules and he should realise that not all meets satisfy you how you hope they might.
I've had 3some meets where the girl I was with ended play just as it was about to begin and another where she told the guy after she came he had 2 minutes to cum.
In the end relax and try again perhaps spending a little more time getting to know the person online to ensure they understand the deal. |
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"That's why I don't do outdoor fun!!
Plus the lady should always cum 1st"
Don't you start!
I'm sick of men thinking I have to cum first and then going hell for leather at the attempt so they can.
Let's just enjoy the encounter. |
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