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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Any ladies done this and did it go ok? I'd like to but am a bit nervy that I'll feel fully included. "
You'll be fine. Just remember, there are more couples seeking a single female then there are females. So you get to be picky. Make sure you communicate clearly about what you're after or what your expectations are. See if their criteria suits you. The best bit about being in a club, is if the couple don't meet your needs, then you can move on to the next one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go to clubs and have met some lovely single ladies. We much prefer to get to know them first and make sure everyone likes and is happy with everything, we have made great friendships that way, which have carried on privately.
As Sub_ilac says you will be able to be choosy, if your not feeling it with one couple then there will be others to chat too, don't let anyone try to get you to do anything your uncomfortable with. I think ultimately as the single female your in charge in someways, we respect that single ladies have to like both of a couple which makes it more difficult sometimes and you have to feel safe and that you will get everything you want out of such an occasion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when we play with a single lady we make sure she is the centre of our attention - would ever hate to feel that she is left out - we play as a 3sum never one watching - well W might watch us ladies play for a while - he loves that xxx |
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"Any ladies done this and did it go ok? I'd like to but am a bit nervy that I'll feel fully included.
You'll be fine. Just remember, there are more couples seeking a single female then there are females. So you get to be picky. Make sure you communicate clearly about what you're after or what your expectations are. See if their criteria suits you. The best bit about being in a club, is if the couple don't meet your needs, then you can move on to the next one.
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Exactly this, a single female going to a club is like rocking horse #@%t you call all the shots... |
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over a year ago
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I have done, and it was a great meet. We'd messaged lots beforehand (I messaged both separately) and they were lovely about it being a no pressure meet. (We live far from each other so had the social in chams bar...) progressing to play was natural, but I know they wouldn't have pushed me if the chemistry wasn't there. And they met me in the car park first before going in so I didn't go in alone.xx |
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