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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Why is this such a tricky issue for some? Purely from a guy's perspective I find it surprising the number of women that ask men to "stimulate my mind" yet seemingly fail at the more basic communication skills:
Saying no when they mean yes.
Saying stop when they mean carry on.
Saying maybe when they mean he'll no.
All this "trying to be polite" malarkey causes confusion. Say what you mean and anyone that gets offended, that's their problem, at least the message is clear. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I hope you know that I say exactly what I mean. 
But some men can be as bad. Saying 'I definitely want to meet' when they don't. Saying 'Lets get together again' when they mean 'not a chance'. Saying 'of course I respect you' when they don't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely doesn't apply to just women, men are just as bad!
Being honest and worrying about hurting people's feelings maybe? Or maybe just keeping their options open! |
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By *habs OP Man
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Lol, I hear ya both, sometimes it feels like not the interest wanted, but good enough in absence of anything better. Like the "in case of emergency due to lack of interest" meet, which can go for... years 
What a lot don't realise, if someone shows interest and you don't feel the same, by saying "maybe" it gives the person hope. If they are patient and not pushy, then they'll hang about... and the last thing anyone wants is someone they have no interest in hanging about like a bad smell. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What annoys me is the profiles that go on about how men must be inteligent be able to stimulate thier kind and hold a conversation but then dont tell you anything of ise to actually start a conversation and if you do its usualy like trying to draw blood from a stone.
I tend to avoid any profile woth "sapiophile" on it for this reason |
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