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Why can't I get a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't had a meet in over 2 years and I don't mind. I enjoy the photos, the chats and of course the forums too. If I do get a meet, then that will be a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the way you mail? You're not in fact straight because you look to meet with tv/ts? Lack of pictures? You can only accommodate at certain times and that kinda puts that you're attached into my head not sure about others.. a few things off the top of my head? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "
I'd say you should change your profile name ...
The irony of being called mr.handsome but having no profile pic will not be lost on many on here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong
I'd say you should change your profile name ...
The irony of being called mr.handsome but having no profile pic will not be lost on many on here... "
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Would you really meet a 20 year old college student and an 84 great granny ????
This suggests you are desperate l to meet any female or too dam lazy to put effort into your profile.
If you can't be bothered to write an interesting profile telling ladies what you have to offer, you will quite possibly be lacking enthusiasm and effort in a meet.
That's my thoughts |
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I don't understand. You got answers on the other thread you posted and yet nothing has changed.
If you think you are raising your profile by coming here in the hope of getting meets, it's not worked, has it.
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "
Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious  |
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"I don't understand. You got answers on the other thread you posted and yet nothing has changed.
If you think you are raising your profile by coming here in the hope of getting meets, it's not worked, has it.
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Your profile isn't terrible but it's not great. If you are in a market overpopulated with single men, out of two identical guys - the one with the better profile will get meets.
All single male profiles inevitably state -
# they're experienced/good lovers
# they'll try most anything
# they're good-looking
# regular fb is ideal
Have your profile get you to stand out. Review and rewrite it - keep improving it.
Add lots more photos - so that others get a feel for whether they may find you physically attractive.
Add into briefly on why you can't usually accommodate - some are deterred if they think someone may be cheating.
Get known in the forum by chatting. Find friendly people - even for friendship not sex.
Go to socials or clubs too.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong
Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious "
Perhaps the OP doesn't know what a TV is so wants to find out? Maybe thinks it's s new broadcast station? |
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"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong
Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious
Perhaps the OP doesn't know what a TV is so wants to find out? Maybe thinks it's s new broadcast station?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Step 1. Write a decent profile.
Step 2. Upload some decent pictures.
But you were given that advice in response to your thread 7 weeks ago and you chose not to heed it. |
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"Step 1. Write a decent profile.
Step 2. Upload some decent pictures.
But you were given that advice in response to your thread 7 weeks ago and you chose not to heed it."
Seems the OP is also unable to read "The writing on the wall"! lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "
For me, and it is only a personal preference, I absolutely LOATHE the phrase "young-looking xx". This is surely subjective? (Closely followed by "my friends tell me that I look younger than xx" ) I dislike a number of your activities, also the massive age range (does smack of "I want a shag with anyone that has a pulse") and there is nothing in your profile blurb that stands out. It is hard for single guys on here, so you do need to make a big effort. Sadly for you, women don't have to make that much of an effort, the moment your profile goes up as a female, your mailbox explodes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee "
4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.
Nothing.
No helping some people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee
4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.
Nothing.
No helping some people "
Ooooops...I didn't read on down...I just thought she's a decent fabber and added my bit to it. He can't post another one in 8 weeks time now. Glad you offered to help out. There are some good ones on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee
4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.
Nothing.
No helping some people "
Did you scare him I wonder? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee
4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.
Nothing.
No helping some people
Did you scare him I wonder? Lol"
Haha me? Scary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't think you should change a thing, mate, you're going to do me a favour.
Seriously, Its the selfie of a jumper in a toilet that's going to win it for you. Girls will like that style of jumper way more than a good smart shirt, or a better look at your body, or even your smiley face.
signed
A single guy
(Who is happy to try and stand out from 'the jumper' crowd ie who has listened and acted on feedback from friendly folk on here.... And have my first meet about to be arranged this week.... Wooooo) |
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