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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

after 6 weeks on i am still finding it very hard to chat with females in my area.

the mail just seams to get deleted with no replay.

when i see a profile that is suitable for me.

just don't no what i am doing wrong.

just thinking in giving up really

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By *DD1EMan over a year ago

sea

Hang in there, just because their profile is suitable for you, it doesn't mean that your profile is suitable for them.

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By *o 1Man over a year ago

Ponteland / London

6 weeks in.....you should have had atleast 2 gang bangs, a cuck session and a massive pissing party by now. Guess this place aint for u then. Haha only funning fella, stick with it you never no whats round the corner.

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By *icksfocusMan over a year ago

Pontefract

just a couple of points, check your spelling on your profile. Also if you are straight why are you looking for a tv/ts? this could be one reason you are not getting any replies

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"6 weeks in.....you should have had atleast 2 gang bangs, a cuck session and a massive pissing party by now. Guess this place aint for u then. Haha only funning fella, stick with it you never no whats round the corner.

only 2 gangbangs?After 6 weeks if you arent being invited to the weekly orgy and offered nubile virgins to deflower at whim then i'd just leave

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

oh and your profile is incomprehensible,it might help if you change that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

try some new pics.... enticing ones

think also u need to work on ur profile text

try attending some drinks evenings, social evenings or lunches plenty going on

and patience helps aswelll....

remember there are hundreds of males

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By *o 1Man over a year ago

Ponteland / London

only 2 gangbangs?After 6 weeks if you arent being invited to the weekly orgy and offered nubile virgins to deflower at whim then i'd just leave

And that

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By *icksfocusMan over a year ago

Pontefract

"try some new pics.... enticing ones

think also u need to work on ur profile text

try attending some drinks evenings, social evenings or lunches plenty going on

and patience helps aswelll....

remember there are hundreds of males"
oooooo dont i know there are plenty of rivals, i mean males on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"try some new pics.... enticing ones

think also u need to work on ur profile text

try attending some drinks evenings, social evenings or lunches plenty going on

and patience helps aswelll....

remember there are hundreds of malesoooooo dont i know there are plenty of rivals, i mean males on here"

thats why the good ones stand out....oh and a sence of humour is a must

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks for the replays all

still got another block the day for some reason i dont no why.

just now really thinking in this site is not for me, just dont like getting ignored for something i did not do whats the point in mailing some you may think it be suitable; just to get a block not right. on another site it get answer with no problems

social side i am not keen on nor is the chat; i have no interest in it due to there is not much of a convo going on:

forums is far better in my book you can learn more.

dont plan to add any more picts were most dont have any.

going to block newbies that join were the most dont seam to hang around for long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if you don’t like getting ignored then its best you move on as sadly its all part and parcel of what can and does happen when you send messages to random strangers on the Internet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"after 6 weeks on i am still finding it very hard to chat with females in my area.

the mail just seams to get deleted with no replay.

when i see a profile that is suitable for me.

just don't no what i am doing wrong.

just thinking in giving up really

Whether you like it or not, 6 weeks on here without a meet is nothing.

I would agree with you that being ignored or blocked is rude but it's par for the course on here and other similar sites.

One favour you could do yourself is to write a proper profile, and by "proper" I mean in decent English.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you mailed me i would have to say i would delete it ...

why because you profile isnt very intresting you have no pics ...

if you emailed me and attached a face FULL body pic with face attached and a good length email with info about you in it i would reply even if just to say no thanks

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"...social side i am not keen on..."

And there it is in a nutshell.

You expected to get inundated with females all throwing themselves at you, and the reality is that you are one of lots of males on here, most of whom have better profiles, and your ego has taken a hit.

If you aren't willing to make an effort to interact with others, why do you think they will want to be intimate with you?

Whining about it on the forums wont get you anywhere, if you arent willing to take the advice, perhaps it is time to move on. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if you mailed me i would have to say i would delete it ...

why because you profile isnt very intresting you have no pics ...

if you emailed me and attached a face FULL body pic with face attached and a good length email with info about you in it i would reply even if just to say no thanks

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sorry for saying wont mail you you are to far

a lot of profiles on here dont have picts

an yes i have a pict

but unfair to day i dont have 1 when i do

an dose not not matter in what mail we sent it just get unread and deleted

my profile is far better than most on here

least its not one line or 1 word

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

""...social side i am not keen on..."

And there it is in a nutshell.

If you aren't willing to make an effort to interact with others, why do you think they will want to be intimate with you?

Whining about it on the forums wont get you anywhere, if you arent willing to take the advice, perhaps it is time to move on. Simples."
iam not wining about anything. am seeking advice..

social events as i said are to far for me an are costly(dont work yet)an no iam not expecting women throw at myself uncall there as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you might help yourself out a bit if you took yourself a little less seriously and like an earlier poster pointed out maybe writing sentences a bit better , if someone thinks youve messaged without putting much effort into your english they may not feel like making the effort to reply .

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"if you mailed me i would have to say i would delete it ...

why because you profile isnt very intresting you have no pics ...

if you emailed me and attached a face FULL body pic with face attached and a good length email with info about you in it i would reply even if just to say no thanks

sorry for saying wont mail you you are to far

a lot of profiles on here dont have picts

an yes i have a pict

but unfair to day i dont have 1 when i do

an dose not not matter in what mail we sent it just get unread and deleted

my profile is far better than most on here

least its not one line or 1 word"

Yes,its several lines of hard to comprehend words.

We delete mail unread when it is clearly from someone we are not looking for.You say you contact people who suit you,are you making sure you suit them ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if you mailed me i would have to say i would delete it ...

why because you profile isnt very intresting you have no pics ...

if you emailed me and attached a face FULL body pic with face attached and a good length email with info about you in it i would reply even if just to say no thanks

sorry for saying wont mail you you are to far

a lot of profiles on here dont have picts

an yes i have a pict

but unfair to day i dont have 1 when i do

an dose not not matter in what mail we sent it just get unread and deleted

my profile is far better than most on here

least its not one line or 1 word

Yes,its several lines of hard to comprehend words.

We delete mail unread when it is clearly from someone we are not looking for.You say you contact people who suit you,are you making sure you suit them ?"
you no how it is when newbies get contacted, there in a dated with mail from every 1 who dont even meet there needs

its a chance i no

I am just wandering why whats wrong with my profile

were as some only have 1 sentence on there get more with no picts etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes you have a pic but its not rearlly showing much of You ... but then i prefer a facepic

and yes the spelling is also a big thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't want to repeat myself, but if the messages you're sending are of a similar style and wording/spelling to your posts on here, then quite frankly, you should probably give up now!!

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By *ustyWoman over a year ago

inverclyde

this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't want to repeat myself, but if the messages you're sending are of a similar style and wording/spelling to your posts on here, then quite frankly, you should probably give up now!!"
i should give up o thanks for the support

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yes you have a pic but its not rearlly showing much of You ... but then i prefer a facepic

and yes the spelling is also a big thing "
i have that pict up to prove i am Guy

not like others who dont have any picts

an from other picts i was seeing were fakes

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time"

I don't think him being from Scotland has anything to do with the replies he is receiving to his post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your truely seeking advice then why when you are given some are u coming back with a defensive post.

Your profile is seriously in need of better wording , what you have written there is mostly illegible , try sentence structure and less key points.

Your profile has to stand out from every other single male on here and yours doesnt. Whilst i agree there are some with only one line on them which shows no effort , yours isnt easy to read, it doesnt say much about you either .

Furthermore , social events are a great way of getting to know people on site and give you a much better chance of getting meets.

Meets happen when you put in a bit of effort getting to know people , a good profile with a bit of humour and a lot of patience helps.

All said to give u some advice.

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so your asking me 2 change it again

to lets fuk an ask questions later

i have profile that better than most from what i have seen on here.

wording wise how can i get it more clearly ?

for being SINGLE.

social events as i said only 30% attend not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well no point if social meetings arent for u , most folk meet socially before being intimate , i have given u advice now ur on yer own , good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"well no point if social meetings arent for u , most folk meet socially before being intimate , i have given u advice now ur on yer own , good luck."
but you didnt really as i sated above sorry to say

socials dose not help every one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lmao , some people are beyond help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so your asking me 2 change it again

to lets fuk an ask questions later

i have profile that better than most from what i have seen on here.

wording wise how can i get it more clearly ?

for being SINGLE.

social events as i said only 30% attend not for me."

No need to be snotty just because you can't get a meet, that's the deal with single guys and the statistics. All that was offered to you was advice.

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By *ustyWoman over a year ago

inverclyde

black i dont go to the organised socials or parties as i dont like them, i have had some good and bad meets in the time i have been on fab and made some good friends as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been to four social events organised by fab members and have to say had a great time at them all , met some nice people , some i had never spoken to in chat or on forums , so they can be useful.

I understand they arent for everyone , but i thought for the original poster that this might be a better option for him as his written english is hard to decipher.

We all use the site differently and each to their own , as long as its working for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have been to four social events organised by fab members and have to say had a great time at them all , met some nice people , some i had never spoken to in chat or on forums , so they can be useful.

I understand they arent for everyone , but i thought for the original poster that this might be a better option for him as his written english is hard to decipher.

We all use the site differently and each to their own , as long as its working for all concerned."
well you are not giving us me a chance to prove it

as i said before i am veteran on social events an some i shall say nameless did not help an was not very welcome lets just say.. i set the profile up of my own self in hope i meet some nice females for company thats all i ask for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have i walked in on a sit-com set ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have i walked in on a sit-com set ?

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dunno have you

am have d*unk here the night

but from some folk need 2 understand the scottish lingo;

no need for the gang bang from down south

each one have there own way for a profile as i have done mines i will change but wont be that much in a change

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"Have i walked in on a sit-com set ?

dunno have you

am have d*unk here the night

but from some folk need 2 understand the scottish lingo;

no need for the gang bang from down south

each one have there own way for a profile as i have done mines i will change but wont be that much in a change

Scottish here and tbh I am having trouble understanding some of this - and folk say my accent is strong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have i walked in on a sit-com set ?

dunno have you

am have d*unk here the night

but from some folk need 2 understand the scottish lingo;

no need for the gang bang from down south

each one have there own way for a profile as i have done mines i will change but wont be that much in a change

Scottish here and tbh I am having trouble understanding some of this - and folk say my accent is strong

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i ask for help but am not getting it

why is this

gang bang still going on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i ask for help but am not getting it

why is this

gang bang still going on"

Your at a gang bang !, i thought you were having trouble getting a meet !

Jeez some folk just cant be satisfied lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i ask for help but am not getting it

why is this

gang bang still going on

Your at a gang bang !, i thought you were having trouble getting a meet !

Jeez some folk just cant be satisfied lol

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did i say getting a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I need a drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think I need a drink.

"
been drinking all night

for some answers i am getting dose do me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I need a drink.

been drinking all night

for some answers i am getting dose do me to be honest

aye.....say no more. xx

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time"

The man asked for advice , he got answers.

Him being Scottish is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time

The man asked for advice , he got answers.

Him being Scottish is irrelevant

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but some are irrelevant

an i have tried to answer back to them but yet not the answer in question.. i will try 2 alter the profile again

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"i ask for help but am not getting it

why is this

gang bang still going on"

You asked for advice and got lots of it. Wether you take the advice is up to you...but no one is gang banging you as you put it.

If you don't want people to give advice as ot how they see things, then it is probably best you don't ask for it on a public forum.

My advice would be to lighten up and don't expect everyone you mail to want to answer or meet you. They have a choice like we all do.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time

The man asked for advice , he got answers.

Him being Scottish is irrelevant

but some are irrelevant

an i have tried to answer back to them but yet not the answer in question.. i will try 2 alter the profile again"

You are mis reading my post, you have a habit of doing that to lots of posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time

The man asked for advice , he got answers.

Him being Scottish is irrelevant

but some are irrelevant

an i have tried to answer back to them but yet not the answer in question.. i will try 2 alter the profile again

You are mis reading my post, you have a habit of doing that to lots of posts."
sorry i dont get this i never miss read any post, some have gang bang up on it, from what am seeing.

an maybe miss reading from others 2me

but that is unfair. i believe i have strong profile for some

and dont think this;

this is there choice,(might have just put nsa fun wanted)

i have took into count what as been said

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"this seems to be gang up on the scots, give the guy a chance to sort his profile out

i bet most of us on site have written our profile more than once or changed it from time to time

The man asked for advice , he got answers.

Him being Scottish is irrelevant

but some are irrelevant

an i have tried to answer back to them but yet not the answer in question.. i will try 2 alter the profile again

You are mis reading my post, you have a habit of doing that to lots of posts.sorry i dont get this i never miss read any post, some have gang bang up on it, from what am seeing.

an maybe miss reading from others 2me

but that is unfair. i believe i have strong profile for some

and dont think this;

this is there choice,(might have just put nsa fun wanted)

i have took into count what as been said

oche aye I ken whit yer blethering aboot noo

PS - The above is in jest to a fellow Scotsman a wee bit of banter!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I suggest you read the thread again. You have been given some good advice....you have not been "gang banged" as you put it.

As this is going round and round in circles I am shutting it.

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