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"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks  "
Just go with no expectations. See it as a night out with friends and take it from there.
A little wine won't do any harm either haha.
Good luck and hope you all have a great time xx |
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"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks "
Eat lots of garlic before you go to the club... |
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"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks "
I went to my first club a couple of weeks ago. Felt very apprehensive but I'd exchanged a few messages with the management team before I went.
Try to relax and go with the flow. It's not that different to a night out in any other bar or club. The clientele just dress differently.
Go with no expectations and you won't be dissapointed.
Remember, everyone went for the first time once.
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We go just to have a night out with a few drinks and meeting new people. We never go expecting intimate fun. But if we meet a compatible single or couple and get on, we will play. If not, it's a regular night out.
Don't be nervous because you think you have to play. Clubs aren't like that at all. |
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Set ground rules ie if only one of you has a chance to play can they?
Have a couple of straightforward codewords/phrases for conveying to your partner you are uncomfortable/want a breather to chat alone.
Ie if you want to end conversation and move away from someone or you want to stop playing or you want to end the night and go home.
As everyone else says go with no expectations;
If you go saying lets check it out and have some fun yourselves, you'll enjoy the atmosphere and the horniness of it all, and if something happens with another couple then great, if not its a great, fun experience with no regrets and you'll be even more looking forward to the next time.
If you go on a mission then you may compromise too far and end up with some regrets.
Remember if it doesn't work out this week, there's always next week, and the next week, and the next...
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"Set ground rules ie if only one of you has a chance to play can they?
Have a couple of straightforward codewords/phrases for conveying to your partner you are uncomfortable/want a breather to chat alone.
Ie if you want to end conversation and move away from someone or you want to stop playing or you want to end the night and go home.
As everyone else says go with no expectations;
If you go saying lets check it out and have some fun yourselves, you'll enjoy the atmosphere and the horniness of it all, and if something happens with another couple then great, if not its a great, fun experience with no regrets and you'll be even more looking forward to the next time.
If you go on a mission then you may compromise too far and end up with some regrets.
Remember if it doesn't work out this week, there's always next week, and the next week, and the next...
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It's no different to any other night out. Go have fun and that's the only thing that you should be concerned about. Anything else happens then so be it but don't worry about it, don't set it as a must do goal that's the key  |
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just enjoy yourselves and remember that everyone in the club is looking for same type of fun.
you will find once you go through the door of the club you will relax
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"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks "
Man up.
You're welcome  |
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