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over a year ago
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I'm the same mate...only been on a couple days though. Keep plodding away and chatting to let people know your serious and not just a fly by night. You will get there.  |
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over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
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Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.  |
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over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools. "
Comments like that really are unnecessary |
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over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary "
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.  |
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question. "
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered "
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because women are holding all the cards, the men just have to wait their turn. Patience is the key."
the men wait there turn ?? im not a free ride for anyone ill pick who I want to fuck and ill not be told otherwise tut fed up with people thinking they only have to get in touch to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you "
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You're not to good at reading "blank profile with no area given" are you? Get some help and try again, you WILL read that we have stated that for a long time we've been overly respectful of solo-males, you WILL read that we say we have met some great guys and will still do so but you WILL also read that these days far, far too many "solo/unattached guys" are by far the biggest waste of our limited time on here. That is a FACT, not just for us, but always readily quoted by many, many other couples too. You WILL also read that we say we have nothing against either the OP or you, a question was asked and we answered it from VALID EXPERIENCE.
If the truth hurts you so much that you cry like a baby and throw your rattle out of your crib . . feel free to leave "free loader profile" . . and close the door behind you. All you seek to do is add your venom to words of experience.
What a sad little weener . .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying "
it's my experience as well. loads of guys saying what they think we want to hear to get what they want.
i've even called one out on the forum today because he's moaning about not being able to find what he wants on here, i'm guessing he personally has a bad reputation on here now for being a messer. i secretly get a bit of a buzz when the messers about on here don't get what they want actually...
we don't judge all guys as the same, but i have blocked all from messaging me coz i'm sick of the bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
. . . . . . .
You're not to good at reading "blank profile with no area given" are you? Get some help and try again, you WILL read that we have stated that for a long time we've been overly respectful of solo-males, you WILL read that we say we have met some great guys and will still do so but you WILL also read that these days far, far too many "solo/unattached guys" are by far the biggest waste of our limited time on here. That is a FACT, not just for us, but always readily quoted by many, many other couples too. You WILL also read that we say we have nothing against either the OP or you, a question was asked and we answered it from VALID EXPERIENCE.
If the truth hurts you so much that you cry like a baby and throw your rattle out of your crib . . feel free to leave "free loader profile" . . and close the door behind you. All you seek to do is add your venom to words of experience.
What a sad little weener . . "
Little wonder your meets are few
Insults ???
I'm a weener as well as a fool
I bet you are life and soul at any party
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying "
Totally agree with what these couples are saying, tho there is the rare gem to be found on here.
I maybe missing something but who exactly is branding you a fool? The only person who has suggested it is you, no one else.
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Because it normally comes from a clothes shop?.. pmsl .. obviously it's went straight over OPS head .. lol "
so he didnt need a pullover. just a lover to pul ..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying
Totally agree with what these couples are saying, tho there is the rare gem to be found on here.
I maybe missing something but who exactly is branding you a fool? The only person who has suggested it is you, no one else.
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The couple that think single guys are fools
I'm a single guy
Therefore....... |
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i think that a lot o people on fab say one thing but mean something else. i what to chat but i what this i what that no profile just a lot of bull shit. i have meet a 3 people on fab all very nice but a lot of dick on here to. some time it is nice to get a bit of advice but again the dick are out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying
Totally agree with what these couples are saying, tho there is the rare gem to be found on here.
I maybe missing something but who exactly is branding you a fool? The only person who has suggested it is you, no one else.
The couple that think single guys are fools
I'm a single guy
Therefore......."
Thank you for explaining. They actually said 'many single guys are fools' so you must see yourself in that category. They did not say all single men are fools. Very easy to misunderstand. |
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"why is it so hard to get some wear on fab
Take a look at our profile OP . . you'll see how we have had to apply a virtual block to all males to save our time being completely wasted by the many that are total fools.
Comments like that really are unnecessary
No . . they are necessary. We feel many "solo males" do start on here with a good approach but consistently find they can get nowhere and wonder why, some then go on to try every trick in the book to overcome what they feel is unnecessary prejudice. In doing so they may then become part of the problem themselves.
The OP ask why it can be hard not to be heard . . we put into words in our answer what you'll see in many couples and single females profile wording and, of course, the message filters they use.
We made no comment about the OP you'll see - nor you - we simply added an answer to the question.
It's couples like you who view single guys with such contempt 'fools' I quote.
That have made fab swingers what it is now
6 years ago I could easily chat to anyone here and have fun
Now I can't because of the prejudice people like you show
We are not fools
We are here for the same reason as most others
How dare you
We share the same view as them so you can class us as the same as then,the good guys on here and there are some are in the minority,the majority can't be arsed to read profiles or respect what couples want then they lie to get a meet by saying totally different to what there profile states.......we await to get slaughtered
Not at all
If that's your experience of single guys then you can only say what you see
My issue is being branded a fool
I'm as genuine and straight forward as they come
So if others are giving us a bad rep
It's a tad annoying
Totally agree with what these couples are saying, tho there is the rare gem to be found on here.
I maybe missing something but who exactly is branding you a fool? The only person who has suggested it is you, no one else.
The couple that think single guys are fools
I'm a single guy
Therefore.......
Thank you for explaining. They actually said 'many single guys are fools' so you must see yourself in that category. They did not say all single men are fools. Very easy to misunderstand."
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"i think that a lot o people on fab say one thing but mean something else. i what to chat but i what this i what that no profile just a lot of bull shit. i have meet a 3 people on fab all very nice but a lot of dick on here to. some time it is nice to get a bit of advice but again the dick are out "
You really need to check what you're wanting to say before pressing send. This is almost unintelligible |
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"Because women are holding all the cards, the men just have to wait their turn. Patience is the key.
the men wait there turn ?? im not a free ride for anyone ill pick who I want to fuck and ill not be told otherwise tut fed up with people thinking they only have to get in touch to play "
I agree with you on that, some think if you are on an adult site you have to have sex with them if they ask. XXX |
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"i think that a lot o people on fab say one thing but mean something else. i what to chat but i what this i what that no profile just a lot of bull shit. i have meet a 3 people on fab all very nice but a lot of dick on here to. some time it is nice to get a bit of advice but again the dick are out "
Er....I think there's meant to be Dick on here, lots of hard ones! Lol xxx |
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I'm not sure that anybody was calling anybody a fool, nor saying that all single men were fools. But there are a hell of a lot of foolish men who don't seem to understand what swinging is, or what women want. It becomes very wearing on the soul after a while. But we don't let it cloud our judgement when we come across a man to does get it, and we have made friends with some top guys on Fab. |
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"i think that a lot o people on fab say one thing but mean something else. i what to chat but i what this i what that no profile just a lot of bull shit. i have meet a 3 people on fab all very nice but a lot of dick on here to. some time it is nice to get a bit of advice but again the dick are out
You really need to check what you're wanting to say before pressing send. This is almost unintelligible "
... exactly .. is English his first language???? ... being hard to read and decypher is a bad start to his search ... ... |
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