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I know there's no shortage of single men on fab. Is there a way to find single men without having to put up with the 3 billion cock pics?
I thought about putting it in our profile but there's 2 issues with that. Firstly people rarely read it and we don't want it to become a big list of please do/don't.
Are we expecting too much for someone to be polite, speak to both of us and be willing to have a social first?
Thanks in advance.
Mr C. |
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Best advice would be to do what approximately 98% of all the couples in here do to any guy who messages you; read their mail then delete it.
BUT! Do reply to everyone who has obviously read your profile, and actually matches what you are looking for  |
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"No,not all guys are all about showing nothing but their cock but I can understand your frustration.
You'll just have to keep looking and be patient"
Just to be clear I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush here as I know there's always exceptions but as a rough guess I'd say more than 80% are like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No,not all guys are all about showing nothing but their cock but I can understand your frustration.
You'll just have to keep looking and be patient
Just to be clear I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush here as I know there's always exceptions but as a rough guess I'd say more than 80% are like that."
I'd go more 90% but you never know there may even be a decent guy behind all those dick pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer to see cock pics , so it suits us .
We don't do socials either , so that suits us too .
Your best bet is to block single guys and do your own searching . |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"We prefer to see cock pics , so it suits us .
We don't do socials either , so that suits us too .
Your best bet is to block single guys and do your own searching ."
I like this couple proper players 'less talk more action' |
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"We prefer to see cock pics , so it suits us .
Some of us do  "
There's nothing wrong with having the pics, this isn't an anti cock pics thing but when it's all you can see of someone it's a bit off putting for us at least anyway. |
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"perhaps block single men and just seek out the 'exceptional ones' a lot of couples do this."
I've often wondered what an Exceptional man is in terms of Fab when couples cite it. I guess it might equate to VWE. But it might be more than that. Gerard Butler would be an exceptional man, regardless of his manhood. So would Leo Messi. You could argue that Rupert Murdoch was too based on his earnings and influence. I'm not sure that Mssrs Butler, Messi and Murdoch are on Fab, however. |
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"perhaps block single men and just seek out the 'exceptional ones' a lot of couples do this.
I've often wondered what an Exceptional man is in terms of Fab when couples cite it. I guess it might equate to VWE. But it might be more than that. Gerard Butler would be an exceptional man, regardless of his manhood. So would Leo Messi. You could argue that Rupert Murdoch was too based on his earnings and influence. I'm not sure that Mssrs Butler, Messi and Murdoch are on Fab, however."
Exceptional man is a guy that is equally or better looking than the husband.... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"perhaps block single men and just seek out the 'exceptional ones' a lot of couples do this.
I've often wondered what an Exceptional man is in terms of Fab when couples cite it. I guess it might equate to VWE. But it might be more than that. Gerard Butler would be an exceptional man, regardless of his manhood. So would Leo Messi. You could argue that Rupert Murdoch was too based on his earnings and influence. I'm not sure that Mssrs Butler, Messi and Murdoch are on Fab, however."
I don't think it's that hard to be working towards being an exceptional single male on here though, going off profile rants and forum posts a lot of single men on here are dopes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we find it best to look for guys ourselves and if we like one we try our luck. If we are not for him no worries. But if a guy finds you and you say sorry your not for us.... Well ! Some guys.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We say very clearly on our profile that we do not want pictures of cocks sent to us, nor do we want to be messaged by men whose profiles are full of cock pics. This has worked, as along with a few other restrictions and message filters, we now only receive about 2 messages per day, which is probably the small percentage of men who don't decorate their profiles this way. We also rarely get sent pictures of cocks now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are we expecting too much for someone to be polite, speak to both of us and be willing to have a social first? "
No you are not. In a year and a half using Fab, we have met 6 men privately, and all started with a social meet. Four of them we still meet and are great friends. There are quality guys out there who understand what we want from the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst your looking if you find one for me let me know  "
I'm sure your mail box will be full all you have to do is block the one liners and the rest out..
Your one hot looking lady.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst your looking if you find one for me let me know
I'm sure your mail box will be full all you have to do is block the one liners and the rest out..
Your one hot looking lady.
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If I were to block all the one liners, I wouldn't get any messages  |
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"Whilst your looking if you find one for me let me know
I'm sure your mail box will be full all you have to do is block the one liners and the rest out..
Your one hot looking lady.
If I were to block all the one liners, I wouldn't get any messages "
I'm sorry but how do I expand "gizzashagyabitch?' |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Whilst your looking if you find one for me let me know
I'm sure your mail box will be full all you have to do is block the one liners and the rest out..
Your one hot looking lady.
If I were to block all the one liners, I wouldn't get any messages
I'm sorry but how do I expand "gizzashagyabitch?' "
Fook off Steve it gets boring  |
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over a year ago
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Hello I'm a single guy and wouldn't dream of sending a cock picture to a couple or single the only time I would send a picture like that is if its requested
Much love pete |
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"Hello I'm a single guy and wouldn't dream of sending a cock picture to a couple or single the only time I would send a picture like that is if its requested
Much love pete"
Hello Sir Pete |
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"perhaps block single men and just seek out the 'exceptional ones' a lot of couples do this.
I've often wondered what an Exceptional man is in terms of Fab when couples cite it. I guess it might equate to VWE. But it might be more than that. Gerard Butler would be an exceptional man, regardless of his manhood. So would Leo Messi. You could argue that Rupert Murdoch was too based on his earnings and influence. I'm not sure that Mssrs Butler, Messi and Murdoch are on Fab, however. I don't think it's that hard to be working towards being an exceptional single male on here though, going off profile rants and forum posts a lot of single men on here are dopes "
Exactly! X |
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"I wish there was better search criteria. Height ect it's hard work I have to agree
+1 for a height filter 
Is that a cheeky dig, I know I'm short but that's harsh
Mr C."
Noooo, I didn't even look at your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know there's no shortage of single men on fab. Is there a way to find single men without having to put up with the 3 billion cock pics?
I thought about putting it in our profile but there's 2 issues with that. Firstly people rarely read it and we don't want it to become a big list of please do/don't.
Are we expecting too much for someone to be polite, speak to both of us and be willing to have a social first?
Thanks in advance.
Mr C."
No its not a big ask I always go for a social first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Stick to your guns! Cock pics are boring and do zilch for me....I like pics showing other parts of the flesh and cock pics shows no imagination whatsoever... I rarely reply to cock pic profiles |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I block all men and then go on the prowl..... Works really well for me x  "
This is one of the reasons I always say you should have the best profile you can.. folk that go looking can make the best judgement.
It's the opposite problem to guys. for a lot of couples and single ladies .. too many that don't fit their requirements , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst your looking if you find one for me let me know
I'm sure your mail box will be full all you have to do is block the one liners and the rest out..
Your one hot looking lady.
If I were to block all the one liners, I wouldn't get any messages
I'm sorry but how do I expand "gizzashagyabitch?' "
put space see longer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems a bizzare issue given the amount of cock pics in the ops profile.
One peice of advice i would give to you as a couple though is sign the messages with whos written it.
Its a fucking pain if you chat to a couple and youve no idea who you're actually talking to/it changes mid conversation
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol and your profile is full of pussy and cock pics. "
Agree with above, sounds like , also as this is a sex site, cock pictures are to be expected XXX
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find that for about every thousand messages we get one meet. Sometimes a guy comes over initially as a right prick but his later messages then interest us and we do end up meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess you've taken the advice of blocking single men....
I just attempting to sat hello and introduce myself but got the dreaded 'User has blocked everyone of your sex'
Get in touch if you're interested or want to see more, if not happy swinging. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just pick the guys u like. Not every guy sends cock pics. Most are great....
Personally we never, engage in conversation ,with any guy that sends us cock pics. You can have a choice on here . Which allows you to block site images x |
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