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Considering Anal for first time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.
I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.
The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.
Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed with above. Clean yourself out really well. Some of us have weak stomachs and it's not fun when a male meet hasn't cleaned himself. Makes me extra clad I always wear condoms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said, start small (highlighter, carrot, toy, and work up in size). Bear in mind that as you go up in size (width mainly) it will hurt, but as a pleasure pain its nice. Thats how i started and i have quite an accomodating arse now (male) |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
Always say this on one of these threads i find.
Lube, lube and more lube....then lube up again to be on the safe side. Best position is on your side with knees pulled up, sort of a foetal position, and TAKE YOUR TIME BEING PENETRATED.
Experience talking. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
"So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.
I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.
The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.
Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?
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Me too!! |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
"Gosh not sure what it is but one of my biggest fantasies is a bi MMF where one of the things that happens is a guy gets his anal cherry popped for the first time  "
Would love to pop my cherry this way! |
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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago
liverpool |
"Thanks all for the advice so far.
Can happily say that I always do my best to remain clean for a meet. Just common courtesy!"
Douche is to empty inside OP nothing worst then putting a finger or 2 in to find a turd in there
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely echo the 'take your time being penetrated' post... you need to be able to tell your partner, slow down, bit more, oooh yes...  and breathing and relaxing are all good...
I have never found that any 'preparation work' is required, I wouldn't do anal if I hadn't that day had a poo for example, but none of my partners have ever complained about me not doing an enema 
Scrupulous hygiene is just polite when swinging anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice is to get a lady/guy to use a strap on first and see how it goes...I have a wonderful black strap on which is not too large and have used quite a few times...it has the added fun of being a vibrator too! An essential toy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With all this fantastic advice, just looks like I need to find someone willing to help me out now!
If anything this thread has got me even more excited to try it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With all this fantastic advice, just looks like I need to find someone willing to help me out now!
If anything this thread has got me even more excited to try it."
Same position but rather than being exited to try..I'm nervous hahaha |
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By *masterMan
over a year ago
Reading |
I have just had my anal cherry popped today. It was an MMF and it was amazing. You need full trust though to be able to relax. Use lots of lube more than you think. Use a toy or 2 to relax and when you have and your ass is ready you will know. Though it will hurt its bigger when it's in your ass but relax breath and on the 3 or 4th thrust you will enjoy it and walk out all funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best times for me have been when the guy takes his time. Lubed me up, then slowly inserted his cock into me. Just a little at a time, enough to relax me and open me up. And then slowly get to insert his hard cock inside me mmmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When about to perform anal, I normally find some wood for my wife to bite on (a bit like they did in the old western movies when a bullet is being removed) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proper wash out. And i mean 2 3 times. Wash out can actually stimulate bowel movements so i do a wash 60 mins before a meet. Then again 30 mins before just to make sure. Lol and lube by the bucket |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.
I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.
The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.
Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?
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You looking for man or lady with strap on |
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