I lost my libido 
A generous reward to anybody who finds it and hands it back in intact 
Seriously though, anybody experienced this? If so, how did you regain it?
My GP suggested checking my testosterone levels, and they were in the normal range, towards the upper limit.
Did a semen analysis, and everything turned out super. Sperm count more than twenty times the normal!!!
Any advice?
I should say that it doesn't bother me the slightest, except that it'll be unfair to my partner to be
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Look at any stresses you have in life. Work, family etc. You can't remove them but sometimes you have to switch off. Have a night to yourselves and get a sitter etc. Enjoy each others company and maybe it will reappear |
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Thanks to all who replied here and in PM.
Nothing has changed recently in my life. Same job, same home, same lifestyle (food, exercise, health, etc). So don't really know what's happening
I've also developed ED, though this may be because of the loss of interest in sex.
I think I'm going to ask my GP to refer me to a specialist. Not sure what that would be, urologist maybe? |
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You are probably in a similar spiral to me, in that i find at timed that i struggle to cum when making love to Mrs Curious, which gives me performance anxiety, which means i feel at times that I don't want to make love to Mrs Curious, which makes my performance anxiety appear.....rince and repeat. I have some blue pills from the doctor which help a bit, but i still struggle to cum, yet i can whip my cock out and wank to cum in a few minutes. Its purely worrying that i am underperforming causing my brain to fizz. At least i have a good tongue and spiderman fingers eh.... |
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I may be wrong here, but a lot of people that threaten suicide aren't actually going to do it. I know because my mam committed suicide 16 years ago, she just did it. |
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"I may be wrong here, but a lot of people that threaten suicide aren't actually going to do it. I know because my mam committed suicide 16 years ago, she just did it. "
I'm sorry. I may have just panicked. It's not been a good day today, I have a student in a coma. You are probably right. x
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"You are probably in a similar spiral to me, in that i find at timed that i struggle to cum when making love to Mrs Curious, which gives me performance anxiety, which means i feel at times that I don't want to make love to Mrs Curious, which makes my performance anxiety appear.....rince and repeat. I have some blue pills from the doctor which help a bit, but i still struggle to cum, yet i can whip my cock out and wank to cum in a few minutes. Its purely worrying that i am underperforming causing my brain to fizz. At least i have a good tongue and spiderman fingers eh...."
I believe my situation may be different. I don't have a Mrs at the moment, so don't really feel the pressure to please someone.
You mention wanking, but I've lost the interest in that some time ago, possibly because of age.
You said the blue pill helped. My understanding is that it helps performance rather than desire. It even mentions that explicitly in the pamphlet.
Don't know what to do
I'm seeing my GP tomorrow. He had told me the testosterone results on the phone, so I booked an appointment to see him in person, let's see what he'll say.
Thanks again all.
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"Closes door quietly and leaves scary person on her own!!!"
I looked for help on here as I was concerned for a persons wellbeing. If that makes me 'scary' then albeit.
I hope that one day, when you're in need of a little help, you aren't met with such negativity. |
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I lost my soul,  please I am begging you, if someone found it, let me know in PM (private message)
It is an average sized soul, bearded and quite proud.
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"Closes door quietly and leaves scary person on her own!!!I looked for help on here as I was concerned for a persons wellbeing. If that makes me 'scary' then albeit.
I hope that one day, when you're in need of a little help, you aren't met with such negativity."
I think that some of us are amazed that after someone telling you they want to kill themselves, you came to the forums, found a thread that's nothing to do with your situation and hijacked it.
You have students so that would indicate you have a level of knowledge that would result in your actions being different. |
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"Nothing has changed recently in my life. Same job, same home, same lifestyle (food, exercise, health, etc). So don't really know what's happening "
Maybe there lies the answer, to much routine can kill sex drive, maybe try doing some exciting stuff you have never done before, things that get the adrenaline pumping  |
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