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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, me and hubby are new to this and have been on a couple of meets and to a club which we loved! Looking at everyone profiles ladies all seem to dress up in basques & Kinky outfits.
Problem is I absolutely HATE dressing up!  I'm totally body confident and have no issues getting my kit off - but the thought of walking round a club in a kinky outfit just horrifies me!
do you think we will attract many couples at clubs if I dress smart casual or is this a turn off for other couples?
All advice welcome & appreciated
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Just go dressed as if you were going to a night club, err on the more revealing and you will be totally fine! It also depends on going to a clothed or not club. Chams in Darlston is undies or towels Xtasia is night club or as rique as you dare.
In reality just go with what you are comfortable with, then once you have got used to it go again and see if your idea of comfort has changed...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies at Clubs usually dress to feel attractive in whatever guise that may be. There is no dress code and smart/casual is fine. You may undress in the rooms you play in, and then redress after play or use the lockers that are provided. Some clubs issue you with a towel but this doesn't mean you have to undress it is about what you feel confident in. You are not judged on what you wear or don't wear. You have to feel relaxed and confident.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree that hold up stockings are really good and wear sexy underwear under your smart clothes. Test the water and as you become more confident you can explore what works or doesn't work with you. |
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I usually find ladies in clubs more atractive when they are dressed as they would be in a good nightclub.
As the evening goes on and things hot up some sexy undies is always great and I certainly dont mind that people start off dressed in kinky gear but for me, I'd rather leave something thing to imagination.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to a social event in a club so am I ok in just something nice and dressy?  "
Is it a club where it's dress down straight away? I've been to one in a party dress and one where I wore a corset, stockings etc. Clubs want you to feel comfortable too. You can check on their site for dress code. |
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over a year ago
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As the male part of a couple...I prefer a generous hint of bosom in of a woman dressed in smart nightclub wear than the (often) misguided (& clichéd) "Look at me in my risqué basque"....it's all about the buildup, I don't want to see the goods at the beginning of the night! |
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