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Struggling to find bi couples
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Starting to think some things must be putting people off.
We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.
We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are plenty on here. Have you tried using the search feature where it searches for bisexual ?? "
Yeah but the few times we've tried it, tends to bring up inconsistent or odd results. Reported the error to admin so hopefully gets looked at |
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"There are plenty on here. Have you tried using the search feature where it searches for bisexual ??
Yeah but the few times we've tried it, tends to bring up inconsistent or odd results. Reported the error to admin so hopefully gets looked at "
I found some searches don't work in my mobile but do on my laptop |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you mean that both the male and female are bi, or just with a bi female in the couple? The later are a lot greater in number than the former. "
Both bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are on here but certainly seems harder to find couples where the dynamics all for together. But keep on looking, or try bi-nights at clubs, lots of bi couples to to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me to. Keep chatting to bi couples. Seems to be all the men chatting. As soon as you mention face pics they block"
There are many genuine bi couples out there I promise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.
Both external and internalised.
How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?
I know we get *loads*.
Flames"
We were just talking about this and like many we get fed up with straight guys claiming to be bi or wanna try bi,however we have also encountered and met couples who on there profile claim the female is bi but when we've met they are not remotely bi at all,equally as frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.
Both external and internalised.
How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?
I know we get *loads*.
Flames"
We've blocked single guys messaging us. Just not our thing.
Our stars will allign in the next couple of weeks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.
Both external and internalised.
How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?
I know we get *loads*.
Flames"
Know how you feel we get the same and Debs almost given up with her giving and not receiving back from women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In answer to the earlier question, we don't accept messages from single guys as there's too many timewasters which ruin it for the rest so we tend to meet up with single guys at clubs and go from there |
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We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males"
Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload |
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"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males
Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload "
We aren't meeting at the moment so no point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males
Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload
We aren't meeting at the moment so no point"
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to think some things must be putting people off.
We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.
We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch "
I stopped identifying at a Bi man on our profile as I found that the number of men I was interested in playing with was so low as to be negligible.
In fact, in the last year there has only been one and, to be honest, it wasn't that great and was almost a situation of me taking one for the team because everything else about the meet was going so well.
That all being said, if you're ever down near the Kent Essex border give us a holla!
Mr Rogue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.
Both external and internalised.
How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?
I know we get *loads*.
Flames
Know how you feel we get the same and Debs almost given up with her giving and not receiving back from women "
This, so much this. Em and myself have discussed this extensively |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does my head in is - Why is it so hard for males (singles and in couples) to put they are bi on this site if they'd like to include a male into their play? It feels like stupidity to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try "Bi Nights" at your local swingers club there are fully bi couples, bi girls and single bi guys who go to such evenings...
To the question - why couples block single guys and then find a bi guy..
Simplez - "It is called search via browse, mail and if it clicks fun"..Otherwise the so called straight guys send hundreds of "paste and copy messages" and to spend ages read through such - no thanks  |
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"Starting to think some things must be putting people off.
We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.
We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch "
I do get a lot of msgs from bi couples but there normally a long way away and I think a lot are not genuine ie just guys lol  |
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Yep there are plenty, but getting all the ducks in a row is the hard bit. Distance, time available, physical attraction, levels of bisexuality, levels of intimacy with all concerned to name but a few. So for the fussy ones amongst us it is not the easiest of quests. Sadly...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep there are plenty, but getting all the ducks in a row is the hard bit. Distance, time available, physical attraction, levels of bisexuality, levels of intimacy with all concerned to name but a few. So for the fussy ones amongst us it is not the easiest of quests. Sadly... "
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