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So We mutually agreed we'd like to experiment with another fem to start with, both love the idea, drives us crazy and the sex at the thought of it is amazing! But when the prospect of a meet arrives I get so nervous and talk myself out of it!! Any tips for me?!
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"So We mutually agreed we'd like to experiment with another fem to start with, both love the idea, drives us crazy and the sex at the thought of it is amazing! But when the prospect of a meet arrives I get so nervous and talk myself out of it!! Any tips for me?!
Fem "
What about if you went to a club environment and just went with the flow....etc |
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"Thank you guys, any advice is welcome! We know it's a tough quest! "
Your best bet is a club. It is how I finally learned to relax just watching at first and then joining on. Nowadays I don't get nervous. Just very excited  |
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"So We mutually agreed we'd like to experiment with another fem to start with, both love the idea, drives us crazy and the sex at the thought of it is amazing! But when the prospect of a meet arrives I get so nervous and talk myself out of it!! Any tips for me?!
Fem
What about if you went to a club environment and just went with the flow....etc"
Some people find clubs worse - all those new people with I chance to get to know them.
Maybe meet socially a couple of times first - coffee and a chat works wonders. Find someone who understands your situation and won't push you too far out of your comfort zone.
Don't let the nerves get the better of you. Lots of Duncan be had when you relax |
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Clubs or socials definately the way to go as well as doing a search for single women find a club you like look of and have a look at the meets section see who else is going if there's a single female going maybe drop them a pm explain your new to the scene and would they fancy a social meet at said club |
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"So We mutually agreed we'd like to experiment with another fem to start with, both love the idea, drives us crazy and the sex at the thought of it is amazing! But when the prospect of a meet arrives I get so nervous and talk myself out of it!! Any tips for me?!
Fem "
Get d*unk first  |
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"So We mutually agreed we'd like to experiment with another fem to start with, both love the idea, drives us crazy and the sex at the thought of it is amazing! But when the prospect of a meet arrives I get so nervous and talk myself out of it!! Any tips for me?!
Fem
Get d*unk first "
Obviously he's joking - but it's a good point on what really not to do! - many people make that mistake on a first meet.
Clubs are great - preferably those where you take your own alcohol so you know your own limits and can set them in the cold light of day.
Personally I think clubs are less pressured than a meet - even social one in some respect as you can usually tell in seconds if you are intrested in someone or not.
Ultimately though, do what suits you both best and just remember you're never obligated to do anything. Even if you're naked in someone's bed, you can always say "this isn't working. "
Whether club or private meet always go with the view to it being social to start.
Good luck!
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"Clubs or socials definately the way to go as well as doing a search for single women find a club you like look of and have a look at the meets section see who else is going if there's a single female going maybe drop them a pm explain your new to the scene and would they fancy a social meet at said club"
As a single female I wouldn't go to a club on my own.
Have had several socials with couples and am always nervous. Nerves are good, heightens the sexual tension.. |
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maybe attend an all ladies event - just met a lady at one who swings with hubby at clubs but never done the deed with a lady - the whole place just overwhelmed her it seemed with so many people about - so she came to an event and we got chatting and she ended up in a 3sum with me and a friend - went home with a huge smile on her face and hurdle crossed  |
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