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Betrayal

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well i'm very sorry to say that the only friend who knows about us doing 'this' has blabbed to her friend, who told her lover, who told his ex wife, who is on the committee that i'm Chair of! They also all happen to have children in the same classes as our children. Hubby is understandably furious (my friend who blabbed is also friends with someone he works with). Therefore, after nearly two years of being on FAB, hubby has insisted that we delete our profile and come off for at least a few months. I have to support his wishes as it's essentially me telling my friend that has meant we've ended up in this position. I'd like to thank all of the Forumites as I really have enjoyed chatting with you all and I've certainly learnt a few things!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some people can't keep their trap shut. Hypocrites, as I suspect they will have a look at the site and be tempted to join 'just to look'. Maybe hide your profile and let the whispers chatter. Maybe they are jealous. As hard as it is, try not to let it affect you too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Hope it all works out ok for you both. Tc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plenty of gobshites about, been victim of similar, sent you a pm. Hope it works out ok for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's a shame!! Hope you recover well from your op and return with lots more fun to come!!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is a lesson to be learnt here. Dont tell anyone your business.

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By *hestercpl4funCouple over a year ago

chester

That's no FRIEND!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That totally sucks and is a massive betrayal.

Why don't you hide your profile for a few months instead rather than starting fresh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awwwwwww man that sucks, some people really can't keep a confidence.

Learning curve for the future, tell no one.

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By *illyjohnyCouple over a year ago

brighton

There is always one that wants to spoil the party .

Keep in touch with your friends on here and distance yourselves from this so called friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happened to us. Went quiet for a few months. Everyone forgot. Started again. Best of luck!

Try and block as many local profiles as possible, or turn off who's near now and move your postcode to somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are doing nothing wrong. Laugh at them because it is you having all the fun. They're just jealous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try and block as many local profiles as possible, or turn off who's near now and move your postcode to somewhere else."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Makes you wonder how many of these people seeing having an affair as acceptable yet consenting adults such as yourselves who hide nothing from each other are dirty. Fucks us right off how some can be so judgemental. It's a pity you feel you need to leave but we understand you have to do what's right for you.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

Why not just say shes a lying bitch spreading nasty rumours ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that and feel for you....thanks for sharing your dreadful experience which reminds me not to divulge this lifestyle to others. Hopefully time will ease tsituation and things will work it for you.

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