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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got the house to myself for the rare occasion soon so decided I'd have some fun at home as opposed to elsewhere. As opposed to the usual chat to a few guys have the dilemma of which to choose only to make the wrong choice and/or be let down I thought it might be a safe option to invite a group of men round and then just see who turns up.
It's long been a fantasy of mine so I am quite excited whether most of them turn up or just a couple. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or advice. Discretion is still essential so part of me is concerned at having a number of strange men in the house especially as I'll have my hands full and attention taken up pretty much throughout. Would I be best just chickening out and organising a hotel room? Kinda defeats the object I know but there we go!
Thanks all 
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Hello x
I used to organise events like this for female friends, some wanted me to do it as a suprise for their husbands / wifes...
I also stayed present to keep the men in line and to be polite and show courtesy at all times. Why not get a friend ( a swinging friend) to do same for you? Sge could also take pics for you to capture some sexy moments? Done right, it will be a good night x good luck x |
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Thank you so much. Having someone there to keep people in line and make sure everything is ok sounds like a great idea but I don't have any swinging friends sadly, I do this alone. Is there a risk things might get out of hand otherwise?
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Best thing to do is have plenty of condoms and round them up and just tell them your do and don't. Own it! Be confident and have a good night x stick to riles! Make sure anyone who breaks your rules to be asked to stop playing and to leave. As a host have a good supply of tea, coffee and cold beverages and wetwipes at the ready! Enjoy xx  |
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I would be nervous about doing it at your own house, unless they are people you know well ( which I'm assuming you won't ). You might be otherwise engaged and one of them decides to see what's of value in the house or what if people start advertising your address as a place to turn up and get a fuck? Unlikely I know but would still be terrible if that happened. We spent months arranging a Gangbang, Skyped with the guys, kept in regular contact and STILL no one turned up to the 2 bedroom cottage we'd rented. Good luck with your arrangements but if it doesn't work out then maybe try a club for group fun? X |
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Thanks again Tigersheart. Some great advice that I'll certainly heed. I normally ask the guy to bring condoms but with it being a few men probably easier if I get stocks in so don't need to worry!
I don't mind so much if only a quarter of them do turn up. Partly the reason I'm doing it. Had the usual happen before when I've picked a guy I'm happy to meet and he's a no show then either people don't want to be made to feel like plan B or they're not available anymore so I get left without a meet at all!
"I would be nervous about doing it at your own house, unless they are people you know well ( which I'm assuming you won't ). You might be otherwise engaged and one of them decides to see what's of value in the house or what if people start advertising your address as a place to turn up and get a fuck? Unlikely I know but would still be terrible if that happened."
Yes, that is a worry. Always a worry when inviting new people round I guess you just multiply that risk however manyfold by doing it this way. It does mean I have some doubts over hosting I have to admit.
"Good luck with your arrangements but if it doesn't work out then maybe try a club for group fun? X"
I don't drive and only local club I can think of hosts its monthly tgirl night this week I believe so I will sadly miss out 
Thanks all for your helpful advice xxx |
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