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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What style of whips do you like?
A rope flogger x
We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger "
Aww I love it....Mr A has mastered it to a fine art x |
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..."
I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things...
I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot..."
Totally agree, hairbrushes are lots of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What style of whips do you like?
A rope flogger x
We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger
Aww I love it....Mr A has mastered it to a fine art x"
Su says it's nice and scratchy. I believe her lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things...
I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot..."
I love the good old hand spanking, but I'm definitely going to go and buy a hair brush now!!! your description sounds amazing and very enjoyable
Poppy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry.
Really that far? Hats off x"
Not every time but sometimes you need someone to press your 'reset'.
I was paddled as hard as last year. My Domme knew I was really stressed. I was screaming st the time and left sobbing after. I've never gone from so stressed to such a great place so swiftly before. Blows a walk on the beach in a gale hands down. |
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry.
Really that far? Hats off x
Not every time but sometimes you need someone to press your 'reset'.
I was paddled as hard as last year. My Domme knew I was really stressed. I was screaming st the time and left sobbing after. I've never gone from so stressed to such a great place so swiftly before. Blows a walk on the beach in a gale hands down. "
Yes it works like a miracle almost - sadly though when severely paddled it can take me 4-5 days to fully recover after the euphoria has gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry.
Really that far? Hats off x
Not every time but sometimes you need someone to press your 'reset'.
I was paddled as hard as last year. My Domme knew I was really stressed. I was screaming st the time and left sobbing after. I've never gone from so stressed to such a great place so swiftly before. Blows a walk on the beach in a gale hands down.
Yes it works like a miracle almost - sadly though when severely paddled it can take me 4-5 days to fully recover after the euphoria has gone."
I've gone three, nearly four weeks with marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..."
Hand, floggers, crops, paddles and pretty much anything else that can be utilised! |
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry.
Really that far? Hats off x
Not every time but sometimes you need someone to press your 'reset'.
I was paddled as hard as last year. My Domme knew I was really stressed. I was screaming st the time and left sobbing after. I've never gone from so stressed to such a great place so swiftly before. Blows a walk on the beach in a gale hands down.
Yes it works like a miracle almost - sadly though when severely paddled it can take me 4-5 days to fully recover after the euphoria has gone.
I've gone three, nearly four weeks with marks. "
Wow babe that's LOADS!!! Enlarge my spanked bottom pics and you can see some (healed practically) marks.
Spanking rocks!! |
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Re: marks that last for weeks on end...
Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What style of whips do you like?
A rope flogger x
We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger
Aww I love it....Mr A has mastered it to a fine art x
Su says it's nice and scratchy. I believe her lol x"
It's a really warm feeling. It's stingy but soothing at the same time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end...
Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you."
Good points made here.
It's not all about pain. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt cos it really does but my Domme carefully takes me to a place, refered to as sub space, where I can then handle much more pain than if I were hit that hard at the start.
There's a lot to be said for playful spanking that just makes you tingle. A bit of pleasure more than pain.
I'm a bit messed up and have a 'need'. |
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end...
Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you.
Good points made here.
It's not all about pain. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt cos it really does but my Domme carefully takes me to a place, refered to as sub space, where I can then handle much more pain than if I were hit that hard at the start.
There's a lot to be said for playful spanking that just makes you tingle. A bit of pleasure more than pain.
I'm a bit messed up and have a 'need'. "
It's not messed up to have a need.
I am a pure masochist so I have no interest in being dominated or submitting to anyone. I like to be hurt. It's not messed up. It's my enjoyment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end...
Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a good hard spanking. Would like to try a proper hard caning so please get in touch if you can do this to me. I want to take a proper caning."
Canes hurt like fuck. I really don't like it when she canes me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"have any of you tried the £1.99 rubber spatulas from tesco proper thuddy and stingy at the same time lovely warm up tool "
Might have to pop to tesco tomorrow.. thanks for the heads up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arnt into anything to painfull so the palm of the hand feels very nice but we have a few additions to our toy box . A very nice flat leather paddle and a leather cat of nine tails which adds a slight dimension to our play . |
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"What style of whips do you like?
A single tail. The sensations are amazing"
Totally gotta agree with you on this one, love singletails. I brought Daddy one of victor tellas singletails for Christmas and its a wonderful feeling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking . "
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking .
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement "
Some do though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking .
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement
Some do though "
Whatever hits the subs enjoyment switch is the right tool. |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
"Floggers are very popular but they vary quite alot.. any particular preferences?" we have a heavy custom made flogger that's very soft lambs leather very very thuddy also from same producer a harsher one made from strips of leather half a cm thick that stings and an exquisite little one that's very short thin strips of rubber very stingy great for gently teasing clits and nipples
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I thoroughly enjoy giving a bare hand spanking. But if I'm playing with someone who is into hard CP, I tend to use bare hand as a warm-up for the main event; the cane. I love caning... the swoosh, the crack, the scream... yum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"bare hand mainly but sometimes lovely to remove belt slowly so she knows shes getting it"
Kinda kill the moment when your trousers fall down as you walk towards her looking all dominant though  |
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking .
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement "
People I play with specifically ask for the baseball bat as they are hardcore masochist and they trust me . I play always safe and always with people I know and not randoms . |
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking .
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement "
I do! And we have a rounders bat with studs in it, makes for a very thuddy feeling |
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"I thoroughly enjoy giving a bare hand spanking. But if I'm playing with someone who is into hard CP, I tend to use bare hand as a warm-up for the main event; the cane. I love caning... the swoosh, the crack, the scream... yum!"
Hearing the whoosh is scary and exciting...esp if the cracks doesn't come...until 5 seconds later...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..."
Start with bare hand over the knee spanks....then onto spanking bench for double hand, then leather gloves on....then cane, stick, belt, wooden spoon, paddle....and finish with wheelbarrow position and bare hand please  |
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"I'd love to be taught the erotic art of spanking and using various implements by a Dom and his compliant sub to work on!"
This is how I learnt x
I have a female f/b acquaintance x il ask her if she is interested in a 3 some x
If so maybe a meet at a venue like the gatehouse on a Friday could be arranged ? X |
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " .
But not many can take my bare hand spanking .
Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement
I do! And we have a rounders bat with studs in it, makes for a very thuddy feeling"
Oh now you are talking .
I will show you my kit bags of you show me yours
Birch rods ?
They are really good for CP sessions |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
"I'd love to be taught the erotic art of spanking and using various implements by a Dom and his compliant sub to work on!
This is how I learnt x
I have a female f/b acquaintance x il ask her if she is interested in a 3 some x
If so maybe a meet at a venue like the gatehouse on a Friday could be arranged ? X"
I'd love to chat to you about this but I can't message you! |
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I love most implements.... Though hands only do it for me when soothing between beatings.... Cane, paddles, normal and spiked, lengths of aluminium rod(sharp end) even meat tenderiser.... I do have a high pain threshold...and challenge myself not to move or flinch when taking a serious beating! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Been toying with the thought of putting a metal tip/strip on the end of a cane and electrifying it, with the negative part of the circuit clipped somewhere strategic.
Note to self, buy some new batteries.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
spanking, paddles, heavy (thuddy) floggers, straps, cane and crops..only thing havent tried is a bullwhip.
not the same if im not in rope work or restrained to furniture though.. and blindfolded..thats the best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..."
Gail prefers being spanked by the bare hand method,but does have a riding crop
to use on guys who like that sort of thing.She often spanks my arse when I'm fucking her,a big turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How have I only come across this thread I love spanking
My first meet on here was a fantastic session of spanking....such a wonderful feeling and I loved seeing the bruising come out in all its glory over the space of two weeks. |
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