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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When someone is married and the wife shows no interest in sex. You are willing to please them in any way what so ever. You complement them buy flowers. Iron their clothes. Clean up the corridors and bathroom. What ever they want to avoid confrontation. Willing to please.
But she is unhappy.
Totally lost. Don't want to separate or cause problems.  |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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There are myriad reasons why your wife's lost interest in sex and you need to speak to her to find out why. At a guess it might be a hormonal thing, she might be suffering from depression, she might be angry at you for whatever reason(s), she might have a much lower drive than you, she might feel resentful at how much you 'pester' her (if applicable) or how she's expected to 'give out' in return for you doing chores (always good a guy pulls his weight but wrong to automatically assume that doing so is somehow doing her a 'favour'), she might be stressing about other things in life which has affected how she feels about sex, she might simply be tired out from a demanding job or family commitments ... who knows ? The hard truth *might* be that her feelings for you might have changed .....
.... you really need to try to talk. Appreciate it's not always easy and can be scary but otherwise you'll never know. If she's just as upset as you about the lack of sex then hopefully you can then start to address the issue, maybe via sex therapy if it's something you can't deal with between you. If she's not upset about it then you'll need to talk about how to go forward from there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication is the way forward. Instead of trying to "buy" her by doing chores etc at home for sex/intimacy how about sit her down and ask her if there's anything you can do to help her, Sometimes if you really love her you have to let her go. Only your wife will have the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No . Can't be it.
Why not? You are..... 
Check mate"
Perhaps she knows he is and that's why he's not getting it . Wash pots ,corridors and iron till your blue in the face if your a cheat I don't blame her not wanting to be around you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When someone is married and the wife shows no interest in sex. You are willing to please them in any way what so ever. You complement them buy flowers. Iron their clothes. Clean up the corridors and bathroom. What ever they want to avoid confrontation. Willing to please.
But she is unhappy.
Totally lost. Don't want to separate or cause problems. "
No I'm sure you won't cause any problems been on a sex site. I'm sure she will understand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When someone is married and the wife shows no interest in sex. You are willing to please them in any way what so ever. You complement them buy flowers. Iron their clothes. Clean up the corridors and bathroom. What ever they want to avoid confrontation. Willing to please.
But she is unhappy.
Totally lost. Don't want to separate or cause problems. "
Probably found out your in here with a single guys profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And trust me mate. A man's clean is completely different to a women's clean.
Oh Tosh - you so get it 
You are a woman's dream  "
Hey. My idea of a spring clean is when I pour some bleach down the toilet  |
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