OK guys,
I have been on here a little while, and made all sorts of 'improvements' to my profile. Added pics, made it more detailed, verified (by photo).
However, I have not had a single meet yet 
Couple of times I have been let down, but mostly I am not getting much, if any, interest.
And upon browsing, I see lots of single female profiles, around my age, but hardly any of them are looking for single men......
Can anybody make some suggestions or comments on how I can actually have some fun here, rather than just looking at profiles?
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over a year ago
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There is no magic fix. Can you pull in the vanilla world? If not, you'll find it hard here too.
Get yourself along to some social events, and try it face to face.
You've got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
good luck |
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just had a quick look at your profile - you're trying to be all things for all people and it's clear that you're hedging your bets! said i wouldn't add to this type of thread so won't say anything else as i'd reccomend lots of changes! Z |
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"There is no magic fix. Can you pull in the vanilla world? If not, you'll find it hard here too.
Get yourself along to some social events, and try it face to face.
You've got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
good luck "
I can, but its not common lol.
But that's a very valid point about socials, I will certainly take that on board, thanks |
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"just had a quick look at your profile - you're trying to be all things for all people and it's clear that you're hedging your bets! said i wouldn't add to this type of thread so won't say anything else as i'd reccomend lots of changes! Z"
Ok, thanks for the feedback..........I'd still welcome hearing at least the first major change you would make lol |
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Zoe's made a great point about your profile.
You're trying to attract a lady. Zoe's giving you some pointers and it would be a good idea to take it on board  |
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"just had a quick look at your profile - you're trying to be all things for all people and it's clear that you're hedging your bets! said i wouldn't add to this type of thread so won't say anything else as i'd reccomend lots of changes! Z
Ok, thanks for the feedback..........I'd still welcome hearing at least the first major change you would make lol"
OK, fair enough, take out the anal section, too much info - reduce your profile but still keep it informative, you say you like something then say that the like the opposie too! Like I said, you seem to be trying too hard and it comes across as a little desperate and also gives the impression that you have no experience as you don't really know what you really like. Didn't really look too closely at your pics but the fully clothed one looks fine, but the best thing to do is definitely go to some socials. Hope that helps, Z |
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"just had a quick look at your profile - you're trying to be all things for all people and it's clear that you're hedging your bets! said i wouldn't add to this type of thread so won't say anything else as i'd reccomend lots of changes! Z
Ok, thanks for the feedback..........I'd still welcome hearing at least the first major change you would make lol
OK, fair enough, take out the anal section, too much info - reduce your profile but still keep it informative, you say you like something then say that the like the opposie too! Like I said, you seem to be trying too hard and it comes across as a little desperate and also gives the impression that you have no experience as you don't really know what you really like. Didn't really look too closely at your pics but the fully clothed one looks fine, but the best thing to do is definitely go to some socials. Hope that helps, Z"
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As a single woman, nothing irritates me more than being told to reply - it may be how you feel, but I don't like being told what to do and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
I'd take out the bit about using lol and smileys etc - they'll find that out soon enough if they enter into a conversation but it's common enough that I don't think you have to explain.
Just my two penn'orth! |
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"As a single woman, nothing irritates me more than being told to reply - it may be how you feel, but I don't like being told what to do and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
I'd take out the bit about using lol and smileys etc - they'll find that out soon enough if they enter into a conversation but it's common enough that I don't think you have to explain.
Just my two penn'orth!"
Ok, duly noted, thanks |
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"Attend organised social events to meet peeps. 
I think thats a good idea, will have to pluck up the courage to go on my own.
Thanks "
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If you are prepared to travel, try attending the ones held in Cannock organised by kevnkat (next one in July), or ones that are held at the Chameleon Club at Darlaston. |
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"That's a fair distance...., might try and find something a little closer,
thanks again for the suggestion though "
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The reason I suggested those is that they are usually well-attended by forums users. |
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