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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From what I can observe, if a bloke dares to put bi on his profile. He gets the fucking idiots who can't work out the difference between bi and gay. I suspect it's the insecure male half of a couple that has the issue. But it's an observation so what do I know |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"
...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem
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We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol"
So that's the other way around....guys who are actually bi, but saying they are straight...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm orally bi, anal with a man just doesn't turn me on. And I've had people have a go at me for that. But it's my preference. I also state in bi-sexual. But can see why other guys don't, there seems to be a stigma around it.
Guys that say they are bi just to play with the female. Now that's a new one for me lol. You can always test them and see if they suck first
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Shame your not closer. I would love to play with you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you.... |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
Surely there are enough "straight" (if there is such a thing) couples who would more than satisfy the needs of "straight" men on this site.
If they weren't bi why would they contact a bi couple because at some stage the "straight" guy would have to get up close and personal with the male partner. Do you see what I'm getting at ?
I have been fortunate to be part of gangbangs in the past and really enjoyed them.
What I would really like is a nice sensual and fulfilling session with a bi couple where all three of us could pleasure each other in every which way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...."
So block men....simples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some men pretend their straight 
Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha"
oh no no no,the ones that message me are 100% straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
im no curious open minded I aint to far either but to old for you haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both bi and both like anything except full swap for male female intercourse.
We don't get any derogatory or insulting messages. We also don't have a lot of hassle of single men.
Those that do message us are respectful. |
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We are a bi couple but pepper rarely plays with men, although she will be there (black cop also has a single profile), we don't get much hassle either. Its pretty obvious from an initial message, if its directed at pressuring the female, that the sender hasn't got a handle on our dynamic or what we want, so they are dismissed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just single men who message when it says straight on their profile but say they are bi in messages to get sex. We have had couples do this as well, straight on their profiles but say they are bi in messages. We just ignore said profiles and messages and look for those who have bi on their profiles.
It's easy to spot those pretending when you talk about the men playing first and they back away sharply. |
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"It's not just single men who message when it says straight on their profile but say they are bi in messages to get sex. We have had couples do this as well, straight on their profiles but say they are bi in messages. We just ignore said profiles and messages and look for those who have bi on their profiles.
It's easy to spot those pretending when you talk about the men playing first and they back away
sharply."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "
Absolutely correct that's just an excuse for not putting bi on there profile along within have mates on here" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had so many guys say they're bi and it soon becomes clear it's a ruse so they can really just fuck R. When we want a bi mmf we mean fully bi. R gets so turned on watching the boys play together first before getting involved. It's very frustrating, as either they say all the right words to start with then go silent when trying to arrange a meet, or its obvious they only want R.
Hence we now usually only meet in chams. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of messages I get off men wanting to meet, who don't even feel the need to explain they are actually bi despite their profile stating straight...
It's always the thing though - the best seem so far away...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of "straight" guys who's either wanna wank off with other guys watching porn or are straight but don't mind helping a guy out by fucking them haha I neither want to just wank myself whilst watching porn nor do I wanna let a straight guy help me out seen as I'm a top and don't like being fucked hahahaha |
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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago
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I think some guys find the idea of bi fun with another guy a turn on in fantasy only as the reality of going down on a guy or having anal with another guy is something they just wouldn't do. That's fair enough but they shouldn't then waste others time if they have no intention of meeting.
Personally I rather enjoy it and it's even more fun if there's someone watching who finds it a turn on.
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol
 mmm - fine by me "
And me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's funny I always find the hi side brings out the wicked in girls. The amount of ttimes I've started playing with a guy at a club they all get interested and want to watch.
It's like cat nip. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "
But we are looking for singles males so how will that work? |
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"some men pretend their straight
Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha"
There already is. It's called the McKinsey Scale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem
But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Thing is desperado's ruin everything4single males..Bisexual mmf it the Hornist thing ever!!! Should be fighting off with stick not worring bout weather try trick way into ur pussy!! Insist on bit of mm Cockplay First then you know if he strugglin get Hard Found out haha cos I know especially with Horny wife watchin I be like iron bar!!hahaha |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem
But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"
like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem
But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"
like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st |
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"We've had so many guys say they're bi and it soon becomes clear it's a ruse so they can really just fuck R. When we want a bi mmf we mean fully bi. R gets so turned on watching the boys play together first before getting involved. It's very frustrating, as either they say all the right words to start with then go silent when trying to arrange a meet, or its obvious they only want R.
Hence we now usually only meet in chams. "
Give me shout next time you ain't far cov easy xx read veri u see xx |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem
But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"
.. part of the quote was to the GUY in first part .. not to couples .. he said he would get lots of guys messaging him if put bi on profile .. his stupid reason for not doing so .. .. .. (wish people would know how forums comments work) .. |
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Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.
Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...
Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again 
Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have replied to couples wanting a bi mmf but most don't even bother to answer I have had a few with some nice couples and really enjoy the whole experience |
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Very definitely bi and looking for couples who are bi tolerant or outright bi. Some experience with bi couples.
Looking through this thread a role play that would work and one I like is the wife coming in and catching me and her husband playing. She then takes control and directs the action. If only. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is worth asking if the guy has a profile on fabguys and if it is verified not a bad way to check... I do and enjoy both sides of my lifestyle, there are real bi guys even on this site lol |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
I totally agree with this "
My profile has me as bi curious and I've put a block on single males |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.
Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...
Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again
Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "
Sounds like my kind of guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...."
You can choose men women and couples how simple do you want it.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me a bi encounter means with man AND woman (or more of either) with me playing with both sexes. I find this more exciting than an encounter with one of either sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Only meet guys who are verified by men, if they have had a meet with a single man they clearly aren't doing it for a woman |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....
So block men....simples!"
Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....
So block men....simples!
Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?"
It's the same advice many women get. If you're getting too many messages, block them and do your own searching and messaging. |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"
Oh REALLY
ive not found this, yes i occasionally get a polite message from a single guy, but i'm certainly not inundated with I wanna fuck u messages.
Sound like an invalid excuse from a "FAB straight" to hide their true sexuality. Not that im saying the "FAB BI's" are being anymore honest. |
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....
So block men....simples!
Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?"
No I dont think you are missing anything.
Bi: meaning you have sex with men and women so if they complain about getting messages from men then they must be "FAB Bi" only. |
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Hunting UNICORNs good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say that I have Bi tendences, my first attraction is to a woman, but I am quite happy to play with the male, sucking etc, but not into anal or kissing males."
then why put straight on your profile
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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When playing with couples or group, I love to engage with everyone present. However, out of there, I'm not attracted by men bodies and don't see me alone with other guy. Bisex? Straight? Call it as you want |
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"That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally "
only reply to guys who say bi on profile and maybe those that have veri to say they are too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving your post , very similar to a lot of guys .
I'm feel pretty straight but love being dirty kinky play which pushes boundaries .
So playing bi is very natural thing to do , great profile come say hi x
"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.
Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...
Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again
Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy with a 'gay' profile. He deffo wasnt so why say it? And another time my male friend took me to meet a bi curious guy. Howeva afta playing with me he told my friend that he coudnt play with him.he later told me he straight and wanted a meet with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
It's a pity that you're so far away as I'm totally bi and love to meet a couple for a bi mmf. I love to suck cock as much as fuck women.
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off
I totally agree with this
I totally disagree "
I couldn't agree more in fact i've had to give up the day job as I just wouldn't have time to answer all of the 1000's of messages I'm getting every day wanting to suc my cok and fuck my ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Maybe you should do the looking, there are zillions of bi guys on here! Yes I am one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the sake of categorisation I put myself down as bisexual. I've thought about this and after a lot of thought [43 seconds worth.....which is a lot for me] I decided that I am simply sexual. Love a good MFM or group. It's just so naughty and so.....well......sexual. |
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I made the decision to put Bi on my profile as I play bi with the right people.
But a number of couples will even talk to you if you say your bi.
The other hypocrital thing is the number of straight couples on their profile who contact you and ask you to meet the man on his own
Just because it say bi on my profile doesn't mean I meet men on there own it's only if a lady is there too |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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I'm straight, not fab straight either, not Bi in anyway!
I definitely wouldn't say I'm Bi just to have sex with your lady.
Never understand those who say or pretend to be something that they are not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!! |
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!! "
Why on earth would someone do that?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!"
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming |
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming "
I'd be very disappointed and annoyed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming
I'd be very disappointed and annoyed"
We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr |
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming
I'd be very disappointed and annoyed"
It seems to happen a lot and spoils it all for genuine bi guys.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I get the straught guys saying they are bi at 3 in the morning but the got a g.f who don't know they are bi I say so she knows your on he and they normally say no so I just tell them be honest with yourself and move on try reading my profile. |
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Get them to meet the bi guy for a quick assignment, to check their credentials. Also the type and level of bi engagement varies, so it's important that a single guy would be matched to the couple's guy, so I see it as pertinent for a professed bi guy to meet with a male first off, for a social/introductory chat and play. |
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Another option is to have a trusted bi male single friend who would meet and verify them for you. Whilst not everyone fancies everyone else, it's a possibility. At least a bi bloke could have a phone chat to discuss preferences, which might sort out the men from the boys too. |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
Manchester Area |
"It is worth asking if the guy has a profile on fabguys and if it is verified not a bad way to check... I do and enjoy both sides of my lifestyle, there are real bi guys even on this site lol "
yes and yes same screen name ?? |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
Manchester Area |
"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.
Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...
Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again
Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "
Lovely lookimg coxk it is too ?? |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
Manchester Area |
"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming
I'd be very disappointed and annoyed
We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr "
Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult! |
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !
Well we asked him to leave .
Made me cross !!!
Why on earth would someone do that?!
Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .
Myself and my hubby where fuming
I'd be very disappointed and annoyed
We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr
Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult!"
yes need to stop being polite lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I met a couple a while back, I was asked to put on a show with the hubby for the Mrs to watch. I happily did it as I am genuinely bi. I do get guys PM'ing me but If I don't fancy meeting them saying their bi but it's not on their profile, I just ignore them. it's just one of those things that no matter what you could try to do on here, they'll get through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a MMF encounter last year where it was clear the other male wasn't bi but had said so in order to join us. It added some unnecessary tension as he clearly didn't enjoy me touching him. We carried on and it was ultimately fun but I wish guys who are straight would just be straight about being straight.
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over a year ago
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy
When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. "
THIS!
I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality
Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy |
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy
When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else.
THIS!
I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality
Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy "
Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't |
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" Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't "
Well that's very true, i was merely agreeing to some points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sick to the back teeth of messages from guys who are straight according to their profiles.
I usually send a sarcastic message back these days telling them that they are straight and asking if they have forgotten!
I am Very interested in playing with a couple in a MMF situation. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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We would love a meet where another couple just come and play bi oral only, nothing better than the two ladies sitting back with a glass of wine and watching lots of cock sucking, or performing oral on both of us as we fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have played with men as part of couples before no problem, however I wouldn't put bi on my profile as I wouldn't meet for guy on guy.
That being said, if I don't find the male in a couple attractive then I would state I'm not interested in playing with male.
If that is a deal breaker then you move on.
But that's just me, in my second coming I'm here more for the social and forums rather than seeking out new play mates so have nothing to lose  |
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps "
If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen. |
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps
If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen."
Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together |
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps
If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen.
Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together "
Thankyou for the reply,it's great you met her then by the sounds of it. It seems that a lot of bi curious guy's that message me want a woman to be there as well for support,you clearly didn't need that,but you sound completely bisexual as opposed to someone saying they don't fancy guy's wouldn't kiss a guy etc. I find it quite hard to find fully bisexual guy's that don't disappear after a while. |
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"Thankyou for the reply,it's great you met her then by the sounds of it. It seems that a lot of bi curious guy's that message me want a woman to be there as well for support,you clearly didn't need that,but you sound completely bisexual as opposed to someone saying they don't fancy guy's wouldn't kiss a guy etc. I find it quite hard to find fully bisexual guy's that don't disappear after a while".
My pleasure. Having said all that, my preference is for MFM etc. MM is still incredibly sexy and enjoyable for me but MFM, especially with a couple who are in a relationship, just seems 'naughtier' somehow And if the lady 'directs' us as well........ I found the gay sauna experience extremely liberating. Gay guys seem to be [sweeping generalisation alert] more brazen, more confident in their approach. Made me feel quite the slut  |
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over a year ago
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"You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages."
Always and they get told their fortune !
It turns me on to see guys wank and suck so if they're faking, they're out ! |
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It is annoying it is the main reason I have set up a single account because our couple account was constant messages from straight men saying there bi looking to play in a mmf and after a little bit of taking the convo always turned on to my misses x |
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The entire reason I came on this site was to get involved in an MMF threesome where I could play equally with the man and the woman. My number one fantasy would be to be the meat in an MF sandwich or to have the woman show me how her man likes his cock sucked. I am a bit of a show off, so putting on a display for the woman is totally fine.
If all I was after was a woman or a man alone, I could go on one of many other hook up sites geared towards one on one meets. This place is where the real freaks come to play
One thing that confuses me, though - is the women rejecting bi men. What difference does it make when he is with you? I understand it is your preference and all, but it does seem odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As other posts have said, I've had Bi and Bi-curious on my profile and get attention from Guys. Problem I have then, is having changed back to straight I can't convince a couple that I'll play with the male as much as the Lady.
Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced?? |
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By *ex God and Sex KittenCouple
over a year ago
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Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??"
Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet.
As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it.
SG & Sk. xx |
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Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??
Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet.
As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it.
SG & Sk. xx"
True, although I find it doesn't generally any further than a deleted 'hello' message.
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By *ex God and Sex KittenCouple
over a year ago
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If a guy that identifies on his profile as straight, messages us and you can see he's given some thought to the message then we'll reply explaining that we're looking for other bi people but thank them for their message and wish them luck.
If a guy messages us with "Hi, how you doing" or "can a fuk yr wif" then we would just delete the message and move on.
Manners cost nothing at the end of the day.
SG & Sk. xx |
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Just seen this thread, to be honest I have always considered myself as straight, but I have messaged a few couples that have a bi male because I am more than willing to suck and wank as part of a threesome, not because I want to fuck the wife but because I have a real interest recently. Whether its for me I don't know til I try, but if I do like will change my profile, otherwise it does seem to put some straight couples off, and they actually state no bi anything accepted |
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"Just seen this thread, to be honest I have always considered myself as straight, but I have messaged a few couples that have a bi male because I am more than willing to suck and wank as part of a threesome, not because I want to fuck the wife but because I have a real interest recently. Whether its for me I don't know til I try, but if I do like will change my profile, otherwise it does seem to put some straight couples off, and they actually state no bi anything accepted"
In the flip side if a single guy says in his profile he is straight we take no notice of any messages and we are a fully bi couple. So it's a catch 22 for you as you've never tried it, but are interested. If you want to try my honest opinion is your be better off saying your curious of you want to try, but that's us. |
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As a Bi guy. I've found it really tough finding genuine mf bi couples on here that actually meet. I'm up for meets but not up for fantasy chat or phone wanks. It's always the same story. "She's not around so it will be just me and you." It's almost every time now.
For me, meeting couples is about just that. I'm not interested in meeting you as separates.
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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago
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Over the years I've encountered more hostility towards my sexuality from straight women than from straight guys. Straight guys tend to simply stake their case that they're straight and that's that but some straight women have been insulting and downright rude.
Being bisexual not only means that I'm comfortable having sex with men and women but it also means I can play straight too. |
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