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is it bad talking to hubby brother on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you think it's wrong then don't do it. If not then carry on. Your life...I'm sure you're well aware of potential consequences and what the risks are. If you're cool with that then crack on. We are not your conscience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be very careful before proceeding further. Your profile says your husband is happy for you play, but this is a special case. Being happy for your wife to fuck strangers is one thing, being happy for her to fuck your own brother is something else entirely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx "
Would u like to fuck him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx "
If it was me i would have him round straight away and i wouldnt tell hubby. Hey i'll happily lick up the mess you both make  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx "
Sounds like a bad idea to me. It might seem like naughty fun now, but it has the potential to blow up both your marriage and your husband's relationship with his brother if he finds out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing with fire in my opinion,swinging should be about trust not deceit and your hubby's brother already asking you to be deceitful but good luck whatever you decide |
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"Well found out hubby brother on here and seen pics of me naked is it wrong to chat to him here xx"
I'd guess, by the fact that you're asking random strangers, that you're debating whether it's right for you or not? Just my take on the matter.
Like above responses, I'd say do what's right for you, whatever that may be, but think through all avenues before they happen, and the outcomes. |
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"I'd be very careful before proceeding further. Your profile says your husband is happy for you play, but this is a special case. Being happy for your wife to fuck strangers is one thing, being happy for her to fuck your own brother is something else entirely."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx
Is this a piss-take? "
If not, it should be. I don't understand why you'd give a crap what someone other than your husband thinks about swinging... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be very careful before proceeding further. Your profile says your husband is happy for you play, but this is a special case. Being happy for your wife to fuck strangers is one thing, being happy for her to fuck your own brother is something else entirely."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx "
I think you need to think about leaving your husband. Some lines you just don't cross. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx
Is this a piss-take? "
It's got to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes get that. But his brother is risking same also if he after fucking me and way he is talking on here xx"
But your husband and his brother aren't married are they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You must have sent him the photos of you naked and showing your pussy as you have none on your profile?
But just for a second, if this isn't a story then I should consult your husband before going any further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You must have sent him the photos of you naked and showing your pussy as you have none on your profile?
But just for a second, if this isn't a story then I should consult your husband before going any further."
She did have pics up but they have gone now as I don't think she is liking the response to her question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a good idea in my opinion. It's all well and good shagging men who are not asocciated with you or your hubby.... Especially since you said your husband knows. But sleeping with his brother ( when it will be behind his back, from what you've said), seems like overstepping a line. You are going from swinging to cheating. If you are willing to deal with the pain and hurt if he finds out, then go ahead. But personally I would not risk losing someone I love, by shagging his brother... There are other men to shag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume it's the same for everyone but for me I have to be physically attracted with someone to consider playing with them so the fact you must be sexually attracted to your husbands brother possibly suggests to me you've obviously had it going through your mind before now! I would never cross that kind of line as the consequences would be unbelievable you could destroy a family but hey if the sex is great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
The op seems to be acting out every porno she watches.
I'm betting on the pizza delivery guy next."
Will he just so happen to have the biggest blackest cock ever??  |
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Talk to your future self, the one who had fun with him and still hasn't told her husband. How does she now feel about it? Has meeting the brother again, in regular situations been perfectly normal with no awkwardness when her husband has also been around? Was it a one off, both agreeing to no more play meets, or have they both carried on behind hubby's back?
Is future self happy with the situation?
If not, then now is the time to change a decision which affects that version of you. Whether that is to not see the brother, not going down the play route or discussing with hubby and keeping him aware of your feelings and/or actions with his consent (consent not needed but it's healthy for a relationship), either way, it's a big decision and one that only you have the power to decide.
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"Well bit awarkard as on here and chatting to me after seeing tits and pussy in pics lol
So you've sent him pics then seeing as you have none showing on your profile? "
She did have pics up when she posted this thread.
To be honest I don't fir one second believe this is true and it's just some fantasy she I'd hoping her hubby reads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You must have sent him the photos of you naked and showing your pussy as you have none on your profile?
But just for a second, if this isn't a story then I should consult your husband before going any further."
Exactly what i just thought. Also it says hubby allows you to do this but futher up the post you say you dont want him knowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume it's the same for everyone but for me I have to be physically attracted with someone to consider playing with them so the fact you must be sexually attracted to your husbands brother possibly suggests to me you've obviously had it going through your mind before now! I would never cross that kind of line as the consequences would be unbelievable you could destroy a family but hey if the sex is great "
Never mind that thetees look at your breasts  best on fab imho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume it's the same for everyone but for me I have to be physically attracted with someone to consider playing with them so the fact you must be sexually attracted to your husbands brother possibly suggests to me you've obviously had it going through your mind before now! I would never cross that kind of line as the consequences would be unbelievable you could destroy a family but hey if the sex is great
Never mind that thetees look at your breasts best on fab imho "
Why thank you  |
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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I'd knock it on the head. I'm sure there are other men on here you can meet and be honest about those meets with your husband. It may just be fun to some people who are saying go for it, but I doubt your husband will think it's just fun. I should imagine he'll feel betrayed and wonder why you've gone behind his back. It's not as if he's saying you can't have fun when you want it, is it?! Surely there must be lines you simply do not cross. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
The op seems to be acting out every porno she watches.
I'm betting on the pizza delivery guy next."
Nothing wrong with that though ....
If indeed she actually is acting out anything at all .
We love doing what we watch when it floats our boat  |
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Kim's sister is a lovely looking lady but I wouldn't go there A.it would Devastate her & B.its not morally right.
I have a free reign to have fun as i please but there are some places you just don't go, your hubby has put trust in you so why ruin that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you are both on a sex site. If you are both on here behind your others halfs back it dont matter no difference.
if you are on here with consent it wont make no difference.
have fun or keep it a little fantasy
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
The op seems to be acting out every porno she watches.
I'm betting on the pizza delivery guy next.
Nothing wrong with that though ....
If indeed she actually is acting out anything at all .
We love doing what we watch when it floats our boat "
Yeah but you don't post about it every time it occurs to you. |
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Depends how your hubby feels about it really, we have talked about this ourselves but decided we would just block anyone we know before they could recognise us and never mention it to them. Don't know if that helps. Have fun X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it will take only 1 family fallout, he will have you over a barrel for ever, you know you will fuck him as the lust and excitement is present, as soon as fucked each other, your fucked forever,,, |
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Your profile says hubby is cool with you on here, so why not tell him his brother is on the site! See his reaction & go from there! Wish I was lucky enough to see your tits & pussy! Did you remove your pictures after your brother in law saw them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx
I think you need to think about leaving your husband. Some lines you just don't cross."
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh trust me he does want to take it much further lol xx
Then go for it, you dont have to tell hubby everything, he doesnt even have to know"
If you go behind your hubbys back (as suggested above) the truth always comes out- is it worth risking your marriage for a fuck with this one guy when you are spoilt for choice on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day this site is about meeting others and getting fucked. So what difference does it make just because its her hubby's brother????"
Because "fucking" isn't the be all and end all. There's lines you don't cross and fucking your brothers wife behind his back is way over that line.
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"At the end of the day this site is about meeting others and getting fucked. So what difference does it make just because its her hubby's brother????"
No problem at all as long as the hubby is ok with it....that's the joy of swinging couples...no secrets and play within your boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day this site is about meeting others and getting fucked. So what difference does it make just because its her hubby's brother????
No problem at all as long as the hubby is ok with it....that's the joy of swinging couples...no secrets and play within your boundaries."
Sometimes its fun to push boundaries |
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"At the end of the day this site is about meeting others and getting fucked. So what difference does it make just because its her hubby's brother????
No problem at all as long as the hubby is ok with it....that's the joy of swinging couples...no secrets and play within your boundaries.
Sometimes its fun to push boundaries"
As long as everyone agrees |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe the OP is DiamondJoe's alter ego...
DiamondJoe? I obviously don't spend enou g time on the forums, I'm not familiar with the name."
You will be! I don't know the fella, don't think we have ever spoken but after spending time on these forums I feel like I know him more than my own mum! |
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I've had my brother in law (and ex brother in law since I divorced his bro) approached me on here I've politely told him it's not ever happening, to me it's wrong on so many levels and I'm not one for shitting on my own doorstep in that regard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe the OP is DiamondJoe's alter ego...
DiamondJoe? I obviously don't spend enou g time on the forums, I'm not familiar with the name."
Diamondjoe is locked up in my cellar.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you have children or love your husband that would be a game changer? You could destroy him if you're not careful, losing his wife and brother, split families etc... |
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"Its up to you .... you know the risks for both of you
But if your asking for approval on here ... I dont think you will get it ....
Just be prepared for when the shit hits the fan .... "
Oh she'll get it from those desperately hoping she'll shag them/those on a lifelong quest to find the next thrill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
Busy girl for thinking about playing with two men in the period of two weeks? Really? "
No because the chances are it never happened. Now stop trying to twist my words |
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
Busy girl for thinking about playing with two men in the period of two weeks? Really?
No because the chances are it never happened. Now stop trying to twist my words "
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
Busy girl for thinking about playing with two men in the period of two weeks? Really?
No because the chances are it never happened. Now stop trying to twist my words
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Seems that certain people have taken a dislike to the OP but don't like it when someone disagrees with them .... okay to twist her words and pick over them, eh? Some people take things very personally on here ..... |
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
Busy girl for thinking about playing with two men in the period of two weeks? Really?
No because the chances are it never happened. Now stop trying to twist my words
Seems that certain people have taken a dislike to the OP but don't like it when someone disagrees with them .... okay to twist her words and pick over them, eh? Some people take things very personally on here ..... "
Indeed some people do take things very personal on here |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Yes see your point. But he does not want me telling hubby. As not what him knowing on here. But want to come around now to chat as hubby at work xx
Is this a piss-take? "
My first thoughts too |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Thanks for your replies xx"
So did you fuck him? 
The way I would play it, is swinging is about honesty with your partner, but it can be fantasy with others. Tell your husband, hopefully get his OK, and then play with his brother, it's up to him if you tell him it's with permission or without. |
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"Have you fucked your landlord yet op? Your a busy girl
The op seems to be acting out every porno she watches.
I'm betting on the pizza delivery guy next."
Oh bugger, that's so much more likely than my theory.
I had a tenner on it being "The vicar's coming round to discuss me renewing my wedding vows with my husband (and possibly his brother), should I give him a quick blow-job over his cucumber sandwich while my hubby goes to make a fresh pot of tea"
I'm rubbish at porn film plots 
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"Another brilliant episode of Shit that never happened"
Ha ha!!! Yep! Or else it's a rehearsal for the Jeremy Kyle show! Obviously there will need to be a baby of whom the identity of the father will need to be 'proved' - Cue lie detector test! Imagine the cast..... it is the husband? the husbands brother? the landlords? |
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"Another brilliant episode of Shit that never happened
Ha ha!!! Yep! Or else it's a rehearsal for the Jeremy Kyle show! Obviously there will need to be a baby of whom the identity of the father will need to be 'proved' - Cue lie detector test! Imagine the cast..... it is the husband? the husbands brother? the landlords? "
Oh I missed out the pizza delivery guy and the vicar! |
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By *alnSimCouple
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Just a thought.
Would the OP be OK if her husband was doing the same thing with your sister behind your back..
And even if you say you are OK, two wrongs don't make a right.
Having fun is fine as long as mutual trust and personal lives are not sacrified. Just my thought and not passing any judgement on anyone |
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"Well found out hubby brother on here and seen pics of me naked is it wrong to chat to him here xx"
. I think common sense suggests that you do not engage in activities of this nature with other family members .
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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago
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I think you should always be honest to your hubby
He comes first and where your loyalty towards him..
Swinging meant to be open and trust..it sounds good fucking his bro but I would stay well away unless my partner was ok with it
I could never fuck anyone my partner knew unless his ok with it not worth it... |
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"He starting talking to me so thought it's rude not to chat back "
Sure, chat away but let your husband know you're doing that. If you're hiding things from him it's wrong, and if he were to find out somehow it could seriously damage the trust between them.
Be open and honest if you're going to do it.
PS who has the bigger Willy? |
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"Well bit awarkard as on here and chatting to me after seeing tits and pussy in pics lol
You must have sent him that pics cos you have none public."
Exactly. I have an idea, invite round his father, uncles and all other male relatives for a gangbang |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well bit awarkard as on here and chatting to me after seeing tits and pussy in pics lol
You must have sent him that pics cos you have none public.
Exactly. I have an idea, invite round his father, uncles and all other male relatives for a gangbang"
Mmmmmmmm sounds good to me |
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hold on let me ask Ryan Giggs 