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By *ussman1 OP Man over a year ago

Paisley

I had my first meeting with a lovely couple few days ago. Nearly didnt happen because of my nerves waiting on them. When we met everything clicked,newbies should be warned that what you think is nerves could just be excitment. It was in my case. Now looking forward to next meeting without the nerves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good for you hope you have lots of fun from the site.

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By *eppersCouple over a year ago

telford

We've been swinging 5yrs now and still get nervous when meeting new people.so it's not just a new by experience, we all get them, social meets are good for that kind of thing as you know there will be no sexual play, then the play meet no nerves cause you know who your meeting, simples lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm new here and not had a meet yet just having a feel of the place 1st and getting to know people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had my first meeting with a lovely couple few days ago. Nearly didnt happen because of my nerves waiting on them. When we met everything clicked,newbies should be warned that what you think is nerves could just be excitment. It was in my case. Now looking forward to next meeting without the nerves."

well done for pointing this out, we've been let down a couple of times when newbies nerves have got the better of them, as you say its part of the excitement , glad you went for it! xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

glad you had a nice time.

and a lesson to other guys that a nice guy can meet a couple within 3 weeks of joining.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm new here and not had a meet yet just having a feel of the place 1st and getting to know people. "

same here, waves hello

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By *inups99Couple over a year ago

manchester

agreed wholeheartedly. we ALWAYS have a social meet. classic case this week as we met a couple for a drink. she was a bag of nerves but soon relaxed and we got on very well and now can't wait to meet to play!!

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

"We've been swinging 5yrs now and still get nervous when meeting new people.so it's not just a new by experience, we all get them, social meets are good for that kind of thing as you know there will be no sexual play, then the play meet no nerves cause you know who your meeting, simples lol."
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true in a way, butu at a sociac there is always the chance some one will invite you back to their hotel

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By *ibrosMan over a year ago

harrow

Perhaps Lussman can offer the guys his masterclass on how it should be done.

A simple profile, but clearly much more going on behind the scenes.

Good stuff.

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