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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
All of these suggestions are ace. I also like a guy fully dressed but in rolled up shirt sleeves. Something about a nice wrist. Face pic wise just relax and don't try to pout. I have also been trying for ages to get a male fab friend to do an unbuttoned overalls type one as well. He thinks I'm a weirdo. |
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over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
Clearly a tasteful women with standards
I couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think a pic of the profile owner flogging themselves with a potato masher is far more tasteful.
I have been told that ladies like pics of men balancing oxo cubes of their heads, but alas I have no oxo cubes, so cannot confirm if this is true or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
How's this |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
How's this "
You have some great pics   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
How's this
You have some great pics "
all about the angles lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
How's this
You have some great pics
all about the angles lol"
Was going for much the same thing, but minus the abs and tattoos etc.
Close enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result "
I don't think that's entirely fair. Some on here as singles won't have the other half that a couple has it bounce ideas off of regarding pics, therefore it's acceptable, even encouraged to ask for assistance. Guys are generally bad at knowing what kinds of images work for women. You could take me at my word, or go count the amount of profiles with forty cock-shots and "wanna fk?" as the headline. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result
I don't think that's entirely fair. Some on here as singles won't have the other half that a couple has it bounce ideas off of regarding pics, therefore it's acceptable, even encouraged to ask for assistance. Guys are generally bad at knowing what kinds of images work for women. You could take me at my word, or go count the amount of profiles with forty cock-shots and "wanna fk?" as the headline."
I don't take pictures to please some one else I just enjoy it and take ones I think look good it's about being yourself not what some one else is looking for that's being fake and untrue to yourself. I think the lack of creativity etc is a bad call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it's ironic posting on this thread, but I genuinely feel like it's not rocket science to create variety. Not several of the same thing, especially cocks, and maybe vary the lighting or go black and white etc, or be suggestive and provocative rather than just bare or plain I suppose. Several different things is always good, and a face included in some of those, maybe even an everyday one to show what your 'typical' look or style is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result
I don't think that's entirely fair. Some on here as singles won't have the other half that a couple has it bounce ideas off of regarding pics, therefore it's acceptable, even encouraged to ask for assistance. Guys are generally bad at knowing what kinds of images work for women. You could take me at my word, or go count the amount of profiles with forty cock-shots and "wanna fk?" as the headline.
I don't take pictures to please some one else I just enjoy it and take ones I think look good it's about being yourself not what some one else is looking for that's being fake and untrue to yourself. I think the lack of creativity etc is a bad call. "
There's a balance to be struck between taking a few pointers then doing your own thing with it, and doggedly following specific instructions in a bid to feel validated.
I personally welcome any advice or suggestions, and reserve the right to disregard them as I see fit.
On a side-note: first time I typed that it said "as I see tit", and I laughed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result
I don't think that's entirely fair. Some on here as singles won't have the other half that a couple has it bounce ideas off of regarding pics, therefore it's acceptable, even encouraged to ask for assistance. Guys are generally bad at knowing what kinds of images work for women. You could take me at my word, or go count the amount of profiles with forty cock-shots and "wanna fk?" as the headline.
I don't take pictures to please some one else I just enjoy it and take ones I think look good it's about being yourself not what some one else is looking for that's being fake and untrue to yourself. I think the lack of creativity etc is a bad call. "
regards your outlook as that appear natural however whilst some guys on here are creative unfortunately there are many more who are not. You could apply the same principle to couples and single fems albeit the proportions may be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, this didn't quite go to plan - Hopefully some lurkers may have seen and taken some notes "
just tell your friend to be natural do what he feels he is comfortable with xx what makes him feel good etc and experiment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard to be original. "
Wrong - it's very easy to be original.
You just have to give a fuck about how you want to others to view you.
Just because graphic porn is the latest thing with the www - Erotica has been around far longer and will continue to be so for a long time to come.
The imagination is a powerful thing - use it and ensure others use theirs.... |
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"'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple."
Agree with the above plus I like a torso shot and cute bums can be good too
I am not interested in seeing naked women in a single male profile. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
A fully dressed at a distance shot gives people an idea of a guys overall shape and size.
I like a suit shot, or smart shirt and trousers, with shirt undone.
Then some photos of your good bits....bum, back, torso.
Try cropping the photo or changing it to black and white. Using the edit facility on your smartphone can enhance a pic. |
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
On the subject of public cock pics, I received a message from a woman once; "You have a gorgeous hot bod hun, does your cock match?"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If some need others to greatly assist themselves, then perhaps it speaks volumes regards a lack of creativity and somewhat contrived to suit a desired result "
I prefer men that do what they want. I dislike the ones that bow to pressure from the masses. |
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I've got one full frontal photo on my public profile and received some very flattering feedback - I suspect it's because my cock isn't the focus of the picture. If you feel like flaunting your goods - and fair enough, confidence is sexy - consider the composition (what's the eye drawn to in the centre of the frame? Is the background an inviting environment and free of clutter?), lighting, pose and camera angle (not just what makes your cock look biggest - what looks elegant?).
Take some time thinking about your images as an art or hobby and considering how you want your fellow Fabbers to feel when they see them, and you might be surprised at the response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some good and obvious ideas on what pictures to put on profile, But just like some Men suit beards shaven heads etc some don't suit certain styles of pictures,
In my opinion Just do what ever makes you feel comfortable/suits your body style and go from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and some profile pics have been photoshopped so much that when you actually get a gander at the real thing you are often sorely disappointed  "
That's the 3rd time in recent threads that someone has mentioned the word photoshopped after one of my comments
Coincidence or are people making a point 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My suggestion would be, do whatever you want with with your profile, put whatever pictures you like on it, say whatever you want about yourself "as long as it's honest"
At the end of the day people should mail you and get to know you, not instantly judge you and decide your not worth their time because your not wearing specific clothing in your pics or showing your cock.
Pictures and clothes or profile text doesn't define who people are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My suggestion would be, do whatever you want with with your profile, put whatever pictures you like on it, say whatever you want about yourself "as long as it's honest"
At the end of the day people should mail you and get to know you, not instantly judge you and decide your not worth their time because your not wearing specific clothing in your pics or showing your cock.
Pictures and clothes or profile text doesn't define who people are. "
it shouldn't but it does...and as you must know by now, people are far more judgemental on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My suggestion would be, do whatever you want with with your profile, put whatever pictures you like on it, say whatever you want about yourself "as long as it's honest"
At the end of the day people should mail you and get to know you, not instantly judge you and decide your not worth their time because your not wearing specific clothing in your pics or showing your cock.
Pictures and clothes or profile text doesn't define who people are.
it shouldn't but it does...and as you must know by now, people are far more judgemental on here "
oh I know what people on fab are like it's a playground full of bullies lol but their are a few people who look past all that other bs and want to get to know the person and not focus on petty things.
My way takes alot longer to get a meet but not impossible. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
I think i have most on your list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see sexy body pics on profiles. With the first message i like a face pic and dont mind a cock pic too , if there isn't one already in their public pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to see sexy body pics on profiles. With the first message i like a face pic and dont mind a cock pic too , if there isn't one already in their public pics."
Must buy sexy body! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
Clearly a tasteful women with standards
I couldn't agree more"
I'm obviously a woman of no taste with no standards then,as I think a man should have whatever pics he wants. No difference between a naked arse and a cock to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
Clearly a tasteful women with standards
I couldn't agree more
I'm obviously a woman of no taste with no standards then,as I think a man should have whatever pics he wants. No difference between a naked arse and a cock to me "
Maybe eyes need testing! Haha!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The jeans,open shirt,draped tie is very 1980s to me. I'd rather a buttoned up casual shirt and trousers; if clothes have to be worn. Or a t-shirt or pyjama top. My absolute favourite pic is a full body,naked pic with droopy cock,taken from the floor. A certain lupine fabber had one that made me whimper |
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas."
Pretty much the same here. I was just talking to a male friend of ours, who has a lovely cock and suggested he would stand out ( ) more if he had more body pictures available! He can clearly do what he wants, but I like looking at the whole 'package' - why am I going all 'Carry on' here!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been asked by a single male to start this thread in the hopes that it will at least help one or two others with regards to what type of pics women like to see on here.
I will start off with my advise that I gave as this is what I like:
'For me it is keep your cock in private until asked for it! Do a nice open shirt pic with a tie draped Do a teasing open jeans pic Do a towel just out the shower draped either over shoulder or waist but keep cock covered if someone wants one they will ask for it simple'
Please add your own suggestions, this is supposed to help those that would like some ideas.
Clearly a tasteful women with standards
I couldn't agree more
I'm obviously a woman of no taste with no standards then,as I think a man should have whatever pics he wants. No difference between a naked arse and a cock to me
Maybe eyes need testing! Haha! "
Alright smart arse,you know what I meant
Cock pics don't bother me,but they can get a bit samey,as can boobs,bums etc. The fact is,everyone likes something different so put up different ones periodically and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My suggestion would be, do whatever you want with with your profile, put whatever pictures you like on it, say whatever you want about yourself "as long as it's honest"
At the end of the day people should mail you and get to know you, not instantly judge you and decide your not worth their time because your not wearing specific clothing in your pics or showing your cock.
Pictures and clothes or profile text doesn't define who people are. "
That's a very good point. And raises the question, is it possible to make a judgement on someone from their photos? Like you I always get to know someone before even considering a meet, and if that takes a bit longer then, then it's worth it in the end. However am I wrong or shallow for only bothering to get to know those whose pics appeal to me, and not taking the time for those who have pics I don't like? Possibly I am. But at the end of the day, I have to choose who I get to know, so if the choice is between a profile with photos I like, and photos I don't like, then it's only human nature to deviate towards the photos that I do like. Am I missing out by not giving a chance to men with pictures that don't appeal? Again possibly I am. But it's simply not possibly to get to know everybody, therefore I have to make a snap judgement on what I find appealing.
Some men set up their profiles to please themselves, and that's fine. Some men set up their profiles because they think that's what women find attractive. And some men know what turns women on, and therefore post pictures accordingly. I personally like a man who understands what turns a woman on. Realise it's a difficult call to make, because different women like different things, but there are some common themes as to what most women don't like. I personally would not post pictures that men consistently said they didn't like, even if I liked them. Why? Because I want to increase my chances and opportunities for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd be surprised at the amount of people who will hate the notion that someone rejected them on looks alone, and blame others for being shallow! Human nature is what it is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'd be surprised at the amount of people who will hate the notion that someone rejected them on looks alone, and blame others for being shallow! Human nature is what it is.
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Exactly, human beings are naturally aesthetic creatures, therefore sexually appealing photos are important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No fem wants to see a close up of a cock shot
A classy pic like shot in black an white, clothed
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I'm definitely a bloke then.
I don't like black and white pics. Cock pics can be hot as fuck. I don't like men in suits either. Too stuffy for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hot torso shot gets me every time, but if you've got a pretty face too then show it off, or even attach it.
I don't mind seeing cock pictures on profiles, but if it's taken close up at every angle going with nothing else, I do tend to worry what's wrong with the rest of their body that they're not showing it.
Getting a friend to help is great, or a timer on your phone, selfie angles aren't always the most flattering.
OP - you should tell your friend to Google "dudedoir", there's loads of ideas that are fun and sexy at the same time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A hot torso shot gets me every time, but if you've got a pretty face too then show it off, or even attach it.
I don't mind seeing cock pictures on profiles, but if it's taken close up at every angle going with nothing else, I do tend to worry what's wrong with the rest of their body that they're not showing it.
Getting a friend to help is great, or a timer on your phone, selfie angles aren't always the most flattering.
OP - you should tell your friend to Google "dudedoir", there's loads of ideas that are fun and sexy at the same time x"
Noted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, this didn't quite go to plan - Hopefully some lurkers may have seen and taken some notes
just tell your friend to be natural do what he feels he is comfortable with xx what makes him feel good etc and experiment "
And tell him to step away from OXO cubes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely detest knobshots
The only time i want to see a knob is if i can touch it lol
Come on guys wee bit of imagination or if not a plain trousers shirt combo
No toilet or sky remotes in sight
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, for one appreciate this thread and will take a few suggestions away next time I'm motivated to take a few new pics, which are probably long over due.
Thanks all. |
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By *oxy_minx OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I, for one appreciate this thread and will take a few suggestions away next time I'm motivated to take a few new pics, which are probably long over due.
Thanks all."
Well, I am glad if it has helped at least one person, so thank you |
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