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As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're stuck between a rock and a hard place here... I think whichever way you decide should be fine as long as it's addressed in your profile as is now.
I think you're a gorgeous couple and have perved your pics many times lol.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "
My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.
Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really do think that admin should put tv as an option in couple's profiles.
If Fab allows you to have a m/f profile go with it,and make sure anyone messaging you is aware. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments.
My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.
Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button"
I would agree..put mf, but explain in ur profile. Anyone who doesn't read profile is ignored/blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think you and your profile are fairly obvious as to who you are.
I wouldn't say that you are misleading whichever way you identify, but those that don't read your profile and just perve over photos.
I've seen your postings on the forums and I have looked at your profile and although of no interest to me as I one of those men that is actually straight and means it, I can't see where the confusion comes. |
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I can understand your quandary over this. As long as your profile explains things - what more can you do?
I guess in some respects I see things simplistically - if you have a cock then you are a bloke... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile name says it all to be honest. You have to be some sort of dumb ass to get upset over it.
But this is Fab after all and who reads profiles after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that you should identify with what you're comfortable with. I think like attracts like, therefore if you portray how you feel, you'll attract what you're after. Good luck. Xx |
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" if you portray how you feel, you'll attract what you're after. Good luck. Xx"
Thanks for the responses people's, much appreciated.
Love the quote above. Could be the simplest summary of what to put in a profile ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "
I just wish I was nearer |
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "
We think you are both gorgeous and should run your profile the way that you want to...bob odd else matters and if they don't like it ignore them x |
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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago
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First of I think your profile is very honest and very hot to be honest.
You shouldn't take too much notice of the idiots on here, most people are decent and if it's not there thing they don't don't have to chat but the small minority can get you down whatever your profile says.
To the question.
I would say keep it as mm profile myself but must admit its difficult to know where to place a couple in your circumstances.
Anyway hope you have fun and love the profile as you have it right now very sexy of you both
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"If one of you presents as female, then you should have a MF profile."
FWIW - my partner and I would look for a couple with a trans partner as the gender that they presented as. We wouldn't think to look for a couple with a transwoman under the MM category, and we wouldn't look for a transman under the FF category. |
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant
messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "
100% MF as she classes herself a women who cares what anyone else thinks but it in your profile if they don't read it they should lose out anyway |
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"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.
There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.
We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.
We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!
Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.
So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.
So here's the dilemma.
People searching for MF are not looking for us.
People searching for MM are not looking for us.
People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.
So your opinions please? MM or MF?
Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.
If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments.
My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.
Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button"
This. If they don't read your profile, which clears it all up, then that's on them. |
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Go for MF in my opinion and first line of profile explain it. You will probably need to use short words as in my experience many don't seem to be able to read very well and often have a very short attention span.
Those that have a go just delete and block.
Best of luck.
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