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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men join this site thinking they can just stick up a profile saying nothing much more than they want NSA fun, and are surprised when they discover website is actually not a catalogue of women available for free sex. I think the reality is that it's very hard work for a single guy to get respected on the swing scene. But getting the profile right is a very good start. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
As above.
If you intend to play with your girlfriend, have a couple profile - not a single one, as it spells hidden agenda. You could always mention that you can play as a single, too.
Fab is a swinging site and not a 'meat market'. It takes time to engage with the people on here by building up a rapport by being active on here, getting yourself known - send out non generic messages, posting on the forum and possibly attend clubs.
The profile is your shop window. The key is to make it appealing as possible!
Yes, there are some fake profiles on here. You need to be vigilant and what appears to be too good to be true, usually isn't. Do a forum search on 'spotting fakes' may help. |
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