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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being bi myself I wouldn't know but surely as long as it's not in public area and in a private room who would know? And as long as you've discussed it first with prospective playmate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?"
Only acceptable if you're a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own "
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it"
As I said only my opinion lol if in any doubt check with the club in question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it"
As always it's double standards when it comes to females or males playing bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it
As I said only my opinion lol if in any doubt check with the club in question "
And i was only asking your opinion |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I think it should be fine, although the VA is open play, there are areas more secluded than others. A good spot is behind the hot tub, no one can see in unless they deliberately stick their head around the wall. Another is the "couples only" play area, if you are standing at the bar, its round on the left, left of the door to reception, go down a short corridor and there is a whole extra room that no one ever plays in. Or in the main play room (without the hot tub) there is the bed in that alcove where you can draw the curtains for privacy.
If its just a mass pile of bodies, i cant usually figure out which body part goes with which person and who is doing what to whom anyway!
I wouldn't let it make you wait another month, its a swingers club for fucks sake, people should be at least a little bit sexually open minded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it should be fine, although the VA is open play, there are areas more secluded than others. A good spot is behind the hot tub, no one can see in unless they deliberately stick their head around the wall. Another is the "couples only" play area, if you are standing at the bar, its round on the left, left of the door to reception, go down a short corridor and there is a whole extra room that no one ever plays in. Or in the main play room (without the hot tub) there is the bed in that alcove where you can draw the curtains for privacy.
If its just a mass pile of bodies, i cant usually figure out which body part goes with which person and who is doing what to whom anyway!
I wouldn't let it make you wait another month, its a swingers club for fucks sake, people should be at least a little bit sexually open minded. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go to swing clubs and I hardly ever play with the girls. Both me and my wife like the boys way too much.
I don't really care if people don't like to see me play with a guy. The girls don't care what we think about them playing with each other so why should I care? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it
As always it's double standards when it comes to females or males playing bi "
Like the wider society then...
For the record, I'd nosh on a winky anyone that doesn't like it can do one, but I wouldn't engage the tradesman... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Adam got admonished by a couple one night at the VA (on a non bi night) for giving a strap-on a blow job!!! It was a big fucking strap-on mind you.
We did "bump into" a bi guy at abfabs on a non bi night too. We whisked him off to a room before he could escape.
Hate the fact that no one judges me if I'm getting jiggy with a girl and I doubt even the straight girls care that much. But guys ... That's different.
Got to say I don't care for anyone's sensibilities these days. If a situation arises then we are going to have fun. Don't join us if you don't like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Adam got admonished by a couple one night at the VA (on a non bi night) for giving a strap-on a blow job!!! It was a big fucking strap-on mind you.
We did "bump into" a bi guy at abfabs on a non bi night too. We whisked him off to a room before he could escape.
Hate the fact that no one judges me if I'm getting jiggy with a girl and I doubt even the straight girls care that much. But guys ... That's different.
Got to say I don't care for anyone's sensibilities these days. If a situation arises then we are going to have fun. Don't join us if you don't like it.
V x "
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We attend more non bi nights than we do bi nights and no one has ever had a problem with is playing with each other or with another guy.
Never occurred to me for a moment someone might have an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Adam got admonished by a couple one night at the VA (on a non bi night) for giving a strap-on a blow job!!! It was a big fucking strap-on mind you.
We did "bump into" a bi guy at abfabs on a non bi night too. We whisked him off to a room before he could escape.
Hate the fact that no one judges me if I'm getting jiggy with a girl and I doubt even the straight girls care that much. But guys ... That's different.
Got to say I don't care for anyone's sensibilities these days. If a situation arises then we are going to have fun. Don't join us if you don't like it.
V x "
Hope Adam told them to go suck a fuck... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I pity the guy who walks up to me and says 'I don't like you sucking that cock' unless he was management or something. "
Just hit him straight back with a 'your momma' joke I say. See if he wants to throw down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
Only acceptable if you're a woman "
If its acceptable for women it should also be acceptable for men works both ways |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im guessing its going to be a "play it by ear" visit then to see how things go, though it probably wont matter when anyone sees me, probably run a mile lol |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?"
I personally think that if women can do it then men should be able to, people don't have to watch, they could easily move elsewhere. Personally, I love watching men play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
I personally think that if women can do it then men should be able to, people don't have to watch, they could easily move elsewhere. Personally, I love watching men play "
This! I wish there was more playing going on openly between men on non bi nights to be honest. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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I've never seen bi men playing on a non bi night. However it never entered my head that it would be frowned upon. I like to think the clubs I attend would welcome it too. I hate it that bi women are encouraged and celebrated but bi men should be encouraged to go behind closed doors. If straight people don't want to watch, then they don't have to. I'm sure there are all sorts of play going on at a club that some people don't want to watch or could even be offended by. There is surely enough space at a club to avoid what you want to avoid. |
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"Would think but don't quote us ,as VA is a open play area as such maybe frowned upon ,as I mr playtime is not bi not something I would want to see myself personally but each to there own
So would you say bi women shouldnt play in the open area in case straight women dont want ro see it
As always it's double standards when it comes to females or males playing bi "
Yep, so much for the open mind that are supposed to inhabit the swingers world.  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"it's ussally a no no for bi men to play on a normal night. bi woman can just play any where, any way, any time at clubs usally"
Or at bus stops, in Tesco, in a swimming pool... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (female) would like to see male bi play in a club. Not sure if Michael would, but if he didn't, then he wouldn't need to watch.
I wouldn't be comfortable with clubs that imposed rules to limit play in this way, it doesn't personally affect us but I'm a liberal hippy. Free love and all that!
I would hope you could find a club that suits your needs rather than you suiting a clubs wants. It is after all your experience, money and time. It saddens me there are comments on here about it needing to take place in private areas, countered nicely by some more positive anecdotes  |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
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We stopped going to clubs some time ago and this is partly why .
Sabrina loves to see bi guys together and tv's too , but unless it was a bi night therewas little or no chance of seeing it .
Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
A recent tv admirers night in Swindon swingers seemed ideal , but guess what ? No women allowed !
So we happily do our own thing in our own way without the narrow minded constraints of clubs |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
We stopped going to clubs some time ago and this is partly why .
Sabrina loves to see bi guys together and tv's too , but unless it was a bi night therewas little or no chance of seeing it .
Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
A recent tv admirers night in Swindon swingers seemed ideal , but guess what ? No women allowed !
So we happily do our own thing in our own way without the narrow minded constraints of clubs "
Thats crazy . No women allowed? Such a shame as I agree .. I love seeing men together and my ultimate fantasy is a bi mmf. It just seems impossible to find.
Good for you doing your own thing. It seems to be the best way to be on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
We stopped going to clubs some time ago and this is partly why .
Sabrina loves to see bi guys together and tv's too , but unless it was a bi night therewas little or no chance of seeing it .
Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
A recent tv admirers night in Swindon swingers seemed ideal , but guess what ? No women allowed !
So we happily do our own thing in our own way without the narrow minded constraints of clubs "
You know women can go to the Angels events for TVs and admirers? Plus remix is good too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
We stopped going to clubs some time ago and this is partly why .
Sabrina loves to see bi guys together and tv's too , but unless it was a bi night therewas little or no chance of seeing it .
Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
A recent tv admirers night in Swindon swingers seemed ideal , but guess what ? No women allowed !
So we happily do our own thing in our own way without the narrow minded constraints of clubs
Thats crazy . No women allowed? Such a shame as I agree .. I love seeing men together and my ultimate fantasy is a bi mmf. It just seems impossible to find.
Good for you doing your own thing. It seems to be the best way to be on here."
I've asked the guys to let women in a few times. I think they think we'll all be standing around and lurking and stalking the pretty boys and girls around the corridors and perhaps touching without asking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont go to clubs but have seen posts wich imply some clubs accept women play together any time but not men. If i did go to clubs i would avoid those clubs out of principle. Why is it acceptable for me to play with another female but two males are not acceptable. Discrimination to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Adam got admonished by a couple one night at the VA (on a non bi night) for giving a strap-on a blow job!!! It was a big fucking strap-on mind you.
We did "bump into" a bi guy at abfabs on a non bi night too. We whisked him off to a room before he could escape.
Hate the fact that no one judges me if I'm getting jiggy with a girl and I doubt even the straight girls care that much. But guys ... That's different.
Got to say I don't care for anyone's sensibilities these days. If a situation arises then we are going to have fun. Don't join us if you don't like it.
V x "
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The female can males can't is massive hypocrisy and it makes my blood boil and btw we always use the dark room and Had plenty of bi play no matter what the night and I would play openly if I wanted it is a sex club bi play is still sex play so if you don't like what you watching STOP watching simplies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I (female) would like to see male bi play in a club. Not sure if Michael would, but if he didn't, then he wouldn't need to watch.
I wouldn't be comfortable with clubs that imposed rules to limit play in this way, it doesn't personally affect us but I'm a liberal hippy. Free love and all that!
I would hope you could find a club that suits your needs rather than you suiting a clubs wants. It is after all your experience, money and time. It saddens me there are comments on here about it needing to take place in private areas, countered nicely by some more positive anecdotes "
For the record Michael would not be bothered. Bash on gent's. I won't be joining in but I certainly wouldn't try to stop you either.
Having sex in a club. Who's have thought it eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
We stopped going to clubs some time ago and this is partly why .
Sabrina loves to see bi guys together and tv's too , but unless it was a bi night therewas little or no chance of seeing it .
Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
A recent tv admirers night in Swindon swingers seemed ideal , but guess what ? No women allowed !
So we happily do our own thing in our own way without the narrow minded constraints of clubs
You know women can go to the Angels events for TVs and admirers? Plus remix is good too "
I go to the Angels parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason ."
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people. |
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people."
We've found this. They use the bi nights to get around membership and number restrictions. |
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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago
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"I hate the double standard of it being okay for women but not for men. It's so sad.
I've seen plenty things in clubs between 'straight' people I would rather not have but I'd be shot down in flames if I dared complain about it.
So long as everyone involved in the play is happy that should be all that matters.
Surely a swinger's club should be the one place you can be open about what you want?
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Agree 100% I can't believe anyone would have an issue with it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people.
We've found this. They use the bi nights to get around membership and number restrictions."
I've been asked to test if guys are bi before to catch them doing this. Mind you if I'm there as Rachael the test isn't that valid |
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?"
We do it in public on any night. Fuck those who are so homophobic that they'd complain about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people.
We've found this. They use the bi nights to get around membership and number restrictions."
I can them out with the deadly strap on |
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people.
We've found this. They use the bi nights to get around membership and number restrictions.
I can them out with the deadly strap on "
Some bi men prefer the real thing rather than a strap on. I know mine does. Similarly I don't like anything synthetic .... doesn't mean anything about my sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just what we were thinking, women can play on a non bi night, but guys can't :/ that's not right! Non bi nights should be just that! And bi nights should be bi nights we can go either way lol we like sex in general x |
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"I've never seen bi men playing on a non bi night. However it never entered my head that it would be frowned upon. I like to think the clubs I attend would welcome it too. I hate it that bi women are encouraged and celebrated but bi men should be encouraged to go behind closed doors. If straight people don't want to watch, then they don't have to. I'm sure there are all sorts of play going on at a club that some people don't want to watch or could even be offended by. There is surely enough space at a club to avoid what you want to avoid. "
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"We do it in public on any night. Fuck those who are so homophobic that they'd complain about it."
I (male) had a crafty mutual handjob with the male half of a couple in the corridor at Cupids on a non bi night. Nobody complained. |
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"We do it in public on any night. Fuck those who are so homophobic that they'd complain about it.
I (male) had a crafty mutual handjob with the male half of a couple in the corridor at Cupids on a non bi night. Nobody complained. "
Mr has played bi on a non bi night at a number of clubs .... but expecting bi play on a bi night? Does that mean play is expected? Too much pressure and too many restrictions ... personally I think as long as the people involved are consenting, bi play should be 'allowed' any evening ... surely? |
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Since there seems to be a prerequisite for guys attending bi nights to be bi , we stopped going on bi nights for this reason .
The bi nights I've attended all seem to accept any guys, bi or not, as long as they are bi friendly.
Nah v the real thing would them out.
However bi guys do get a bit fed up if there are too many men who just don't want to play with other men. It is after all a night for bi people.
We've found this. They use the bi nights to get around membership and number restrictions.
I can them out with the deadly strap on "
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"I think it should be fine, although the VA is open play, there are areas more secluded than others. A good spot is behind the hot tub, no one can see in unless they deliberately stick their head around the wall. Another is the "couples only" play area, if you are standing at the bar, its round on the left, left of the door to reception, go down a short corridor and there is a whole extra room that no one ever plays in. Or in the main play room (without the hot tub) there is the bed in that alcove where you can draw the curtains for privacy.
If its just a mass pile of bodies, i cant usually figure out which body part goes with which person and who is doing what to whom anyway!
I wouldn't let it make you wait another month, its a swingers club for fucks sake, people should be at least a little bit sexually open minded. "
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?"
Why don't you ring the club?
It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
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over a year ago
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"It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights "
You are incorrect. Most nights are not 'non-bi' nights. Just because there is a bi night on one night, doesn't make it so that it's 'non bi' night every other night.
Just like because they have 'couples' night on a Saturday night, it's not 'non couples' night every other night.
"Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night! "
I hate to tell you this - but lots of bisexual men are in relationships, either with other men or with women. Bisexual men aren't all single, you know. |
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
Why don't you ring the club?
It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
Best to stick to the club rules "
The OP is a couple.
Does that 'non-bi' apply to women too then? |
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over a year ago
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"It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
You are incorrect. Most nights are not 'non-bi' nights. Just because there is a bi night on one night, doesn't make it so that it's 'non bi' night every other night.
Just like because they have 'couples' night on a Saturday night, it's not 'non couples' night every other night.
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
I hate to tell you this - but lots of bisexual men are in relationships, either with other men or with women. Bisexual men aren't all single, you know."
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
Why don't you ring the club?
It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
Best to stick to the club rules
The OP is a couple.
Does that 'non-bi' apply to women too then? "
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Flames here,
As a Bi guy, I've seen / experienced the Bi guy phobia.
And it's pretty sharp.
Women are especially judgemental for some reason.
Guys just say "thanks but no thanks".
But indeed, in clubs - Bi women is almost *expected*.
So, granted, you can always go in a private room and close the door and no one would ever be the wiser, I don't know how you'd find a play partner, unless you met one there from on Fab.
Just the way it is.
(And lol, even on Bi night's, guy on guy Bi fun can be hard to find too...)
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over a year ago
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
Why don't you ring the club?
It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
Best to stick to the club rules
The OP is a couple.
Does that 'non-bi' apply to women too then?
But he is going as a single! "
No, they were planning on the bi night, but due to her being away they are looking for an alternative date. Otherwise he'd just go to bi night as a single and no question would be needing answered. |
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Lots saying it's OK for women but not for men, but is that true?
Is it a case of the women are braver than the men and if the bi men played nobody else would take any notice anyway? or have bi men actually been told to stop? |
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"Lots saying it's OK for women but not for men, but is that true?
Is it a case of the women are braver than the men and if the bi men played nobody else would take any notice anyway? or have bi men actually been told to stop?"
My partner and the guy he was blowing were asked to stop once by another person in attendance. Homophobia is pretty common at swing clubs in my experience. |
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"Lots saying it's OK for women but not for men, but is that true?
Is it a case of the women are braver than the men and if the bi men played nobody else would take any notice anyway? or have bi men actually been told to stop?"
I think the open and some times verbal sneers of distaste can be show stoppers, or indeed, enough of a message.
Just one of those unfortunate things. |
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over a year ago
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I have never heard of "non bi night" at the club we go to.
We don't go on bi night as we prefer day time plus we have never found it much fun.
We only go to meet bi guys for hubby to play with. We have seen m bi play in the daytime and never seen or heard any complaints. Hubby has played with other guys and never had any problems. |
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over a year ago
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"Hi gang, as title says, what are the rules regarding bi play on a normal night at a swingers place. We were planning on going to VA on the next bi night, 6th Nay, but wifey is away that night. Now, whilst we can go another night, is it a no no to engage in bi activities? I am very partial to sucking a wiener or 2, but if its frowned upon then I'd rather not?
Why don't you ring the club?
It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
Best to stick to the club rules
The OP is a couple.
Does that 'non-bi' apply to women too then?
But he is going as a single! "
Just to add, i wasn't going as a single, i meant that when we went on a non bi night. I maybe didn't explain myself well. We went on saturday night and i managed to control myself. I didnt mince about shouting "I want cock" so its all good. We just enjoyed each other with other like minded people. |
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"It's a non bi night for a reason
If you want to suck cock go on a bi night or another club that do bi nights
You are incorrect. Most nights are not 'non-bi' nights. Just because there is a bi night on one night, doesn't make it so that it's 'non bi' night every other night.
Just like because they have 'couples' night on a Saturday night, it's not 'non couples' night every other night.
Doubt if they let a single guys in if it's a only couples night!
I hate to tell you this - but lots of bisexual men are in relationships, either with other men or with women. Bisexual men aren't all single, you know."
I'm married.
I'm bi.
And if I have a mutual attraction with a guy in a swinging club I'm not going to let the homophobes stop me enjoying him. |
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Surely if youre not sucking someones wiener that doesnt want it sucked whats the problem? Being offended by bi activity is like wanting black people thrown off of the bus ffs, or putting bi/gay people in the catagory of a pedo. Were not ever going to force ourselves on anyone. If you dont like what you see, dont look or have a word with yourself. If someone asked me not to suck someone off in a club because it offended their wye....id pluck out their eye |
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"I agree with you totally"
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion |
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"I agree with you totally
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion "
Which club advertises as having 'non-bi' nights? |
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Entitled to your opinion, just like a racist is entitled to their opinion you're entitled to your homophobic opinion...NOT! Go back to the 50s where you belong, try stopping me sucking a cock in a club and see where that gets you |
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Private members' clubs and associations with more than 25 members are not allowed to discriminate against you because of your sexual orientation, therefore i'm guessing they are not allowed to have a specific "non bi nights"
Bi nights are advertised so members know there are most likely more other bi people there but you are still able to play straight, and i'd take that to mean that on a normal night there may be possibly be more straight members, but you should still be able to indulge in bi play. |
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"Private members' clubs and associations with more than 25 members are not allowed to discriminate against you because of your sexual orientation, therefore i'm guessing they are not allowed to have a specific "non bi nights"
Bi nights are advertised so members know there are most likely more other bi people there but you are still able to play straight, and i'd take that to mean that on a normal night there may be possibly be more straight members, but you should still be able to indulge in bi play. "
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"Its a none bi night for a reason! Why? Because the bigots are in? So what about a none black or mixed race night because the racists are in? Pathetic!"
So I'm a bigot for having a choice that differs from you?
No I'm not homophobic before you start going down that same old route
No not into black or Asians again my choice, not into pedos either again my choice |
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"Entitled to your opinion, just like a racist is entitled to their opinion you're entitled to your homophobic opinion...NOT! Go back to the 50s where you belong, try stopping me sucking a cock in a club and see where that gets you"
Again your choice if you want to suck cock on a non bi night
I wont be in that club as I don't attend clubs anymore lol |
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"I agree with you totally
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion "
As already pointed out these nights are not straight nights. They are just ordinary swing nights for liberated adults to enjoy each other.
Bi nights are run to encourage more male bi play. They're not the only nights when bi people can engage in same sex fun.
Report to the management if you like and they'll probably suggest a swing club isn't for people like you.
The rules don't prohibit bi play, unless it's "our place for fun" in London. They suck the fun out of swinging. You might like it there. |
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I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused  |
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused "
It's all good fun. No need to apologise |
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused "
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I have just picked up on this
As a Bisexual male its sad to read some of the responses
Some seem to make out that us Bi men are dirty old men in mac lurking down dark alleyways .....being bisexual is an acknowledgment that I enjoy the sexual contact of another mans nakedness - whatever that entails does not mean we go pulling men pants down fucking their bums ....... well not all the time lol .....seriously, as a Bi man who as been on swinging scene with and without my first wife and then a Fem FB for well over 10 years, you sort of canont help notice another man touching occasionally and in my case I thought "hey Jon , that feels ok" ......the rest is history
The OP was asking for advice on his first Club Bi meeting, not a lecture on male morality
J ....steps off his soap box  |
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"I have just picked up on this
As a Bisexual male its sad to read some of the responses
Some seem to make out that us Bi men are dirty old men in mac lurking down dark alleyways .....being bisexual is an acknowledgment that I enjoy the sexual contact of another mans nakedness - whatever that entails does not mean we go pulling men pants down fucking their bums ....... well not all the time lol .....seriously, as a Bi man who as been on swinging scene with and without my first wife and then a Fem FB for well over 10 years, you sort of canont help notice another man touching occasionally and in my case I thought "hey Jon , that feels ok" ......the rest is history
The OP was asking for advice on his first Club Bi meeting, not a lecture on male morality
J ....steps off his soap box "
100% agreed on those points.
For us being bisexual is a part of who we are not all of what we are.
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark."
FWIW, I actually don't generally find the sight of male/female couplings at swing clubs very attractive. I'm much more interested in male/male or female/female.
So because it doesn't turn me on, should all male/female couplings only play in the dark?
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Didn't think so... |
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"I think it should be fine, although the VA is open play, there are areas more secluded than others. A good spot is behind the hot tub, no one can see in unless they deliberately stick their head around the wall. Another is the "couples only" play area, if you are standing at the bar, its round on the left, left of the door to reception, go down a short corridor and there is a whole extra room that no one ever plays in. Or in the main play room (without the hot tub) there is the bed in that alcove where you can draw the curtains for privacy.
If its just a mass pile of bodies, i cant usually figure out which body part goes with which person and who is doing what to whom anyway!
I wouldn't let it make you wait another month, its a swingers club for fucks sake, people should be at least a little bit sexually open minded. "
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"I have just picked up on this
As a Bisexual male its sad to read some of the responses
Some seem to make out that us Bi men are dirty old men in mac lurking down dark alleyways .....being bisexual is an acknowledgment that I enjoy the sexual contact of another mans nakedness - whatever that entails does not mean we go pulling men pants down fucking their bums ....... well not all the time lol .....seriously, as a Bi man who as been on swinging scene with and without my first wife and then a Fem FB for well over 10 years, you sort of canont help notice another man touching occasionally and in my case I thought "hey Jon , that feels ok" ......the rest is history
The OP was asking for advice on his first Club Bi meeting, not a lecture on male morality
J ....steps off his soap box "
Only you have made out that bi men are dirty old men in macs in dark alleys. Also only you making out bi men go around pulling other men's pants down.
I haven't read the above on any other posts
Get on your soap box and start again |
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused "
Why should you go in a dark room. Swinging and going to clubs is for people to expeience and play out deifferant sexual fantasies. Two guys playing together is no different from two women playing together and to be honest anyone who thinks its acceptable for women but not men clearly has no idea what swinging is about been able to experience things and not be judge by others
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused
Why should you go in a dark room. Swinging and going to clubs is for people to expeience and play out deifferant sexual fantasies. Two guys playing together is no different from two women playing together and to be honest anyone who thinks its acceptable for women but not men clearly has no idea what swinging is about been able to experience things and not be judge by others
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark.
FWIW, I actually don't generally find the sight of male/female couplings at swing clubs very attractive. I'm much more interested in male/male or female/female.
So because it doesn't turn me on, should all male/female couplings only play in the dark?
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Didn't think so..."
I agree in that I don't find seeing a male/female coupling in the least bit attractive ... so, if we go to a club or party, I avoid such things .... but they do crop up in lots of places |
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There's so many things that I could jump on within how this post has turned. Instead I will ignore and restate how we would feel.
Bi play is not offensive and to those who it doesn't make excited are welcome to move their eyes/person away. Personally I think it would be exciting to watch however only if the participants enjoyed exhibition.
Hiding bis away makes me sad and I judge those who believe it's necessary (due to their views on the subject) as homophobic regardless of their declarations.
Those bis that have encountered nastiness I wish say "f*** you" and carry on regardless but I understand that reality is different from ideology.
I feel strongly on this, not because it affects me personally (bi fem so kinda but really not at all) but because I dislike discrimination dressed up as preference.
My soap box is now available for others who may want it. I would ask those who believe it should be hidden away, what harm does it do to them? I'll leave the thread with no more to add. Happy sucking xxx |
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"I agree with you totally
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion "
...and everyone is entitled to ridicule that 'opinion'. |
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"I agree with you totally
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion
...and everyone is entitled to ridicule that 'opinion'."
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Id just like to pass on my gratitude to those with the right attitude. How can people consider themselves open minded and have homophobic views. Nobody is asking anyone straight to do anything bent. Nobodys asking you to watch. You can watch a man and a woman writhing in a dark corner but cant wslk past two guys and leave them to enjoy themselves without getting on your high horse and judgmental about it? Youre nowhere near as open minded as you thought and are guilty of being as hurtful as the people who would judge you for being a swinger |
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"Its amazing how many women are homophobic towards men...could it be that they see it as a threat to their feminin powers?"
I sometimes wonder this. It seems I only get grief from unattractive women.
I've walked through a club with every eye following and lots of compliments as I pass.
The women with a problem have been the ones no one looks at. |
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A straight man is entitled to be straight as is a straight woman. That is preference. My preference is for bisexual sex.. I don't have a problem with anyone having straight sex.
Preferences do not have to be discriminatory. Saying you would "report" bi sex to the club on a "non-bi night" (whatever the fuck that is) isn't necessarily discriminatory it's just fucking narrow minded and judgemental, but we have come to know how judgemental our community can be and often is. If the club has "rules" well then I'd like to see the one that says bi and gay people are not welcome.
For those that judge mine and A's sexuality I give not one fuck.... Or the fuck I did give left a long time ago. I just hope that other people starting out on a journey of sexual discovery don't ever come across the kind of swinger that thinks they hold the book of laws for all swingers..... and consequently feel like they need to hide away and feel ashamed.
Did someone need this soapbox back 
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused "
Dont appologise, be proud of who you are, youre amazing...dont appologise for raising the subject either, these things need addressing and if you look at the replies you'll see that there are more people in support of you than not....so no more hiding in dark corners...unless you get a kick outa that xxx |
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I am shocked at the narrow-mindedness here!! 'Bi' and 'non bi nights'???
Are you seriously trying to say that bi people should only be allowed in a club for maybe one night of the month if that?? and shouldn't be allowed in otherwise??
WOW!!! 
As a club host I have been asked if bi-play is allowed and my response has always been 'well why wouldn't it?'
I don't give a flying wotsit what consenting adults choose to do in a club as long as no one is getting hurt and everyone is having fun, and maybe if whoever it is saying that bi play should be reported shouldn't be in this lifestyle, or maybe just avoid clubs altogether. Gosh they might even see people having s.e.x |
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We're St living in the dark ages in this respect. You can imagine two men just kissing would raise a storm in some places. Despite it being legal on the streets. Clubs and members need to change, potentially growing their customer base and less segregations. |
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"A straight man is entitled to be straight as is a straight woman. That is preference. My preference is for bisexual sex.. I don't have a problem with anyone having straight sex.
Preferences do not have to be discriminatory. Saying you would "report" bi sex to the club on a "non-bi night" (whatever the fuck that is) isn't necessarily discriminatory it's just fucking narrow minded and judgemental, but we have come to know how judgemental our community can be and often is. If the club has "rules" well then I'd like to see the one that says bi and gay people are not welcome.
For those that judge mine and A's sexuality I give not one fuck.... Or the fuck I did give left a long time ago. I just hope that other people starting out on a journey of sexual discovery don't ever come across the kind of swinger that thinks they hold the book of laws for all swingers..... and consequently feel like they need to hide away and feel ashamed.
Did someone need this soapbox back
And breath ....
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V xxxx "
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"I agree with you totally
If I was going to a club on a non bi night I don't expect to see men sucking cock in front of me or women munching on Eachother.
It's a non bi night for a reason and yes I would report anyone not sticking to the club rules.
Just saying and I'm entitled to my opinion "
Have you ever been to a club ? |
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"I didn't want to cause an argument here, just wanted an idea regarding rules. I didnt intend diving onto the first cock i saw, as i realise there are many that find mm together as a turn off, so would of only played in the dark. We did see a couple of couples togethet where the ladies were entwined, but that didnt bother us at all.
I am so sorry for creating this thread and the arguments it has caused "
No appology nessasary. This is a great thread. Threads like this always draw out the bigots and homophobes which is useful because we can then see who not to meet! |
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