Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?
I don't see the point in it,
So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested?  |
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"Just dont reply to those you arnt intrested in. In the rules it sayes a no reply means a no thank you xxx "
I have on my profile that I don't respond to messages from people I'm not interested in. |
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"Just dont reply to those you arnt intrested in. In the rules it sayes a no reply means a no thank you xxx
I have on my profile that I don't respond to messages from people I'm not interested in. "
I had that n got more abuse lol so now I just delete. If they message again it's a block. Xxx |
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"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?
I don't see the point in it,
So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "
Its not down to you to change your approach because they're rude. We rarely have an abusive response to a refusal but if we do we block without a second thought, we also have on our profile that no reply means a polite no thank you. |
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 we just ignore people who message us who aren't our cup of tea, people who send us friend invites without a message just get a blocked as well.
Not had any nasty replies yet. Fingers crossed.
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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Only MF couples and single ladies can message me. Makes it more manageable. I still delete messages from couples and women if I'm not interested and don't usually get any problems.
I've blocked single men from messaging me.
I only message those I'm interested in then forget it after.
No point wasting time and energy on the little things. Otherwise you don't have any fun at all x
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"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?
I don't see the point in it,
So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "
you could reply and say no thanks so they know you aren't interested....then block them, as this sort of response occurs all too often |
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"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?
I don't see the point in it,
So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "
You can always say thanks but no thanks and then block. I never understand why people are reluctant to block. It is not rude. It is a site tool and very useful. |
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"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?
I don't see the point in it,
So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "
Think of that as a lucky escape OP. We have had this a few times of late. That's why sometimes, the old, delete without replying is easier as harsh as that sounds. It doesn't open up the avenue for further conversation/abuse. Report & block. |
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