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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago
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So, what should a guy wear for an evening at a Kink Club - a night at Angels, so not a full on Kink night we're assuming!? Beth is well sorted, but really struggling with what a guy should wear! Anybody got any good ideas or photo's?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was my fallback position is that a reasonable approach? I can't find anything else that Beth won't laugh at! She will be in latex looking hot!"
Wear latex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That looks like plan B at the moment, maybe after we've been once I can see what works!  "
Joking aside - I'm pretty bored with men who just wear suits to fetish clubs while their partners wear skimpy sexy clothes. I'd love to see far more body confident men at fetish clubs.
FWIW, as often as possible my partner goes naked - or as naked as we can get aware with. One of our kinks is CD/ns so we do it where we can.
We're working on getting him some latex for the latex theme nights though, which I'll expect him to wear on normal nights too.
But you know, think about what fabrics you find sensuous. For instance - I find dominant guys in leather *really* really sexy. Take a leaf out of the gay kink scene and try a bit of dressing up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A visit to the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar or LAM will sort any man out.
I have my steampunk outfit, military outfit,and latex and leather outfit. At the end of the day it is not the outfit it is the attitude and action that makes you a dom.
The man in black is old hat, have seen CDs being dom. Wear a dress, dommes do. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your right, even in most swingers clubs guys outfits are a bit tame, but my experience of the gay kink scene is less than minimal!  "
Really? Most swingers clubs I've been to have just had people in suits, boxers, high street party dresses or lingerie.
My gay bear friends usually go out clubbing head to toe in leather (some of them with more skin on show than others...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is worth a call to the club to get a flavour of the event if you haven't been before .
If it is very much a fetish-led event that just happens to be in a swingers club then make an effort in whatever 'costume of kink' you feel/look good in.
If it is primarily a swingers event with fetish overtones then however 'dressed' you are it tends to go unappreciated in the rush to get 'kit off' and 'do'
Have fun ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Black trousers and black shirt. "
That is (very) boring.
Why don't you google all the better known kink/BDSM clubs that have websites (TG, Submission, Club Pedestal, etc etc) and look at their galleries to give yourself some ideas and then spend a bit of time thinking about it/feeling into it, and then a bit more time shopping. Get yourself spent thing that looks good, feels good and will be the start of a new wardrobe  |
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