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By *andrem OP Man over a year ago

knutsford

Just wondering if people prefer winks first or message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if people prefer winks first or message?"

I find people don't take much notice of winks so have to be a message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never look at winks so. Message first for me

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By *lighty1Woman over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I never look at my winks. In face, I wish we could turn this feature off, and have a bounce-back saying "this profile doesn't accept winks". People think that they're breaking the ice by sending a wink, but in fact, they're not even on my radar.

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By *irty130Couple over a year ago

Bristol Area

We like winks. It's like a little test of the water without having to have the uncomfortable waiting for a message reply. Works well for us as a couple. (I suppose it's similar to the swipe left/right matching on Tinder).

I do understand how some single girls would want to turn them off though!

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"I never look at my winks. In face, I wish we could turn this feature off, and have a bounce-back saying "this profile doesn't accept winks". People think that they're breaking the ice by sending a wink, but in fact, they're not even on my radar."

Having read your profile you don't use the inbox system so messaging or winking would,nt get a response from anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I asked this of someone the other day and was surprised that they saw nothing wrong with a wink as a 'hello'. Different strokes...

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

I,v had few good meets that started with a wink had more from messages but if I,m on the border line of what they are looking for then a wink is not wasting any ones time.