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" Thought i would put my post from another thread in here for Single Males, Hope you digest this..... People do meet and it's the ones that stick at it, regularly get to socials, create a unique profile to them, unique style of pictures, guys that won't shag anything and are genuinely fun, people that are not complaining or causing arguments, want to actually get to know someone before meeting, willing to travel.... That's just in my view summarising it, My own experience, I joined the site as a single male a year ago after 5 years being around the scene on and off as a single male/Cpl , first meet within a week as I went in chat and had banta and tongue in cheek cheekiness, first social not long after that, had a few more meets where I was driving hours up and down the country and expense of hotels and that, got a regular fuckbuddy, went out with her mate, left site, re joined, few more socials, met my misses on here, broke up but kept and still close (Going to swingfields with her) few more socials, and here I am today, all because I'm a gobby twat in the right sense, I'm mad as a hatter and became different from the normal type of guy on here, you want to leave your mark, maybe my youth helped but not by much as I see other guys that just be themselves prosper from this great site. So if your a single male reading this ...... Start the emphatic land of hope and glory music,...... Here's my 11 quick steps on how to fully prosper from this site ......... 1)Don't expect to get it from anyone and anytime, you have to stand out to them. 2) Be unique. 3) Spend atleast an hour on your profile and truely sell yourself. 4) Don't be a twat and whiney. 5) Get to a social and be prepared to travel to one and/or travel to meets. 6) Have banter. 7) Don't ask for a meet straight away in messages. 8) Spend atleast 5-10 mins on a opening message after reading the profile thoroughly and not copy and paste. 9) Don't obsess over a girl and seem needy. 10) Have a variety of pictures on your profile and not just cock ones, or if they are cock ones make them stand out (reference sunglasses one on my profile.) 11) Spend that 5 pound to become a site supporter and get in chat more often and join in with the convo. Now I know that might not appeal to some of you but them 11 steps might make your stay on this site more pleasant, WARNING them 11 steps DO NOT guarantee a definite meet but will increase your chances. Also yes I probably will get some stick saying "that's not how the site works" etc.... But in reality you have to stand out from the masses of single males Thank you for reading Lone_wolf. xxxx" so true !! Great pics too nice cock | |||
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"This is great advise. Anybody wondering why their profile isn't working should take a look at yours." It's a mystery to me.. | |||
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"White knight alert "I can't see any maidens in distress on here. | |||
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"This is just a common sense post. Anyone that can't work that out for themselves probably doesn't deserve to meet anyone. " | |||
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"This is just a common sense post. Anyone that can't work that out for themselves probably doesn't deserve to meet anyone. " And there are plenty that don't!!  | |||
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"This just looks like another condescending thread and states the obvious, it's hardly inspiring. Not all males are looking for the same things on here and that applies to females also. OP are you going to offer help to the unemployed people on fab, how to construct a good CV to get a job next ? "Not at all. There are a high proportion of guys on here with a profile with no pics (or full of cock pics worse still) and a text saying 'fill in later' or 'here for NSA) who whinge and moan that no women meet, that we are timewasters, that the site us a con.... A million things. Most of them would do well to follow the advice given to give them even half a hope in hell of meeting ladies off here. If they aren't here to meet the above then it's not a problem. I think OP was sweet and rather selfless in what he posted. I hope all do well on here and it's sad not all do and that some find the need to get shirty when they don't  | |||
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Those that seek advice can find all of the tips and pointers you 've made, in the countless other threads in the archives.. it's my stock post in the advice threads.
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" Thought i would put my post from another thread in here for Single Males, Hope you digest this..... People do meet and it's the ones that stick at it, regularly get to socials, create a unique profile to them, unique style of pictures, guys that won't shag anything and are genuinely fun, people that are not complaining or causing arguments, want to actually get to know someone before meeting, willing to travel.... That's just in my view summarising it, My own experience, I joined the site as a single male a year ago after 5 years being around the scene on and off as a single male/Cpl , first meet within a week as I went in chat and had banta and tongue in cheek cheekiness, first social not long after that, had a few more meets where I was driving hours up and down the country and expense of hotels and that, got a regular fuckbuddy, went out with her mate, left site, re joined, few more socials, met my misses on here, broke up but kept and still close (Going to swingfields with her) few more socials, and here I am today, all because I'm a gobby twat in the right sense, I'm mad as a hatter and became different from the normal type of guy on here, you want to leave your mark, maybe my youth helped but not by much as I see other guys that just be themselves prosper from this great site. So if your a single male reading this ...... Start the emphatic land of hope and glory music,...... Here's my 11 quick steps on how to fully prosper from this site ......... 1)Don't expect to get it from anyone and anytime, you have to stand out to them. 2) Be unique. 3) Spend atleast an hour on your profile and truely sell yourself. 4) Don't be a twat and whiney. 5) Get to a social and be prepared to travel to one and/or travel to meets. 6) Have banter. 7) Don't ask for a meet straight away in messages. 8) Spend atleast 5-10 mins on a opening message after reading the profile thoroughly and not copy and paste. 9) Don't obsess over a girl and seem needy. 10) Have a variety of pictures on your profile and not just cock ones, or if they are cock ones make them stand out (reference sunglasses one on my profile.) 11) Spend that 5 pound to become a site supporter and get in chat more often and join in with the convo. Now I know that might not appeal to some of you but them 11 steps might make your stay on this site more pleasant, WARNING them 11 steps DO NOT guarantee a definite meet but will increase your chances. Also yes I probably will get some stick saying "that's not how the site works" etc.... But in reality you have to stand out from the masses of single males Thank you for reading Lone_wolf. xxxx"
Whilst I can't say I attribute all of those points to my Fab life, all excellent and very valid nonetheless. I've found just being genuine, not being an arsehole, and treating people like people - not sex objects is the best way to go about things.
It's a sorry state of affairs when you've really got to educate some people in not being d#cks. | |||
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"Load of tosh Just spam cock pics and fancy a fuck messages "leave me out of this | |||
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" Thought i would put my post from another thread in here for Single Males, Hope you digest this..... People do meet and it's the ones that stick at it, regularly get to socials, create a unique profile to them, unique style of pictures, guys that won't shag anything and are genuinely fun, people that are not complaining or causing arguments, want to actually get to know someone before meeting, willing to travel.... That's just in my view summarising it, My own experience, I joined the site as a single male a year ago after 5 years being around the scene on and off as a single male/Cpl , first meet within a week as I went in chat and had banta and tongue in cheek cheekiness, first social not long after that, had a few more meets where I was driving hours up and down the country and expense of hotels and that, got a regular fuckbuddy, went out with her mate, left site, re joined, few more socials, met my misses on here, broke up but kept and still close (Going to swingfields with her) few more socials, and here I am today, all because I'm a gobby twat in the right sense, I'm mad as a hatter and became different from the normal type of guy on here, you want to leave your mark, maybe my youth helped but not by much as I see other guys that just be themselves prosper from this great site. So if your a single male reading this ...... Start the emphatic land of hope and glory music,...... Here's my 11 quick steps on how to fully prosper from this site ......... 1)Don't expect to get it from anyone and anytime, you have to stand out to them. 2) Be unique. 3) Spend atleast an hour on your profile and truely sell yourself. 4) Don't be a twat and whiney. 5) Get to a social and be prepared to travel to one and/or travel to meets. 6) Have banter. 7) Don't ask for a meet straight away in messages. 8) Spend atleast 5-10 mins on a opening message after reading the profile thoroughly and not copy and paste. 9) Don't obsess over a girl and seem needy. 10) Have a variety of pictures on your profile and not just cock ones, or if they are cock ones make them stand out (reference sunglasses one on my profile.) 11) Spend that 5 pound to become a site supporter and get in chat more often and join in with the convo. Now I know that might not appeal to some of you but them 11 steps might make your stay on this site more pleasant, WARNING them 11 steps DO NOT guarantee a definite meet but will increase your chances. Also yes I probably will get some stick saying "that's not how the site works" etc.... But in reality you have to stand out from the masses of single males Thank you for reading Lone_wolf. xxxx" Well said babe xxx | |||
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"Seriously though. Every single guy on here could follow what you say . But we would not all meet the same ladies. We all have our own ways. Some work some don't. If the lady does not fancy you it does not matter if you have the . Best profile. The best pics. The best messages. It's not gonna happen " this I always say this then get people jump down my throat for it lol | |||
"* Have decent pics. * Don't act like a twat. * Be respectful and polite. * Try to be as fun and friendly as possible. * Be truthful and honest. Totally obvious stuff. Applicable not just to single males but to everybody who uses the site. Not guaranteed to get you meets of course, far from it...I can testify to that. If the other person doesn't fancy you then none of this will matter one jot. But at least it'll give you a fighting chance. " Isn't this what we should probably apply to life and not just Fab? | |||
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Also Courtney, I love your pictures aswell and Fabd some but I now can't get bloodhound gang out of my head as its my type of music haha | |||
"* Have decent pics. * Don't act like a twat. * Be respectful and polite. * Try to be as fun and friendly as possible. * Be truthful and honest. Totally obvious stuff. Applicable not just to single males but to everybody who uses the site. Not guaranteed to get you meets of course, far from it...I can testify to that. If the other person doesn't fancy you then none of this will matter one jot. But at least it'll give you a fighting chance. Isn't this what we should probably apply to life and not just Fab?" I was thinking this too...apart from the bit about having decent pics of course. The OP offers some good advice here. Advice more people should probably follow. I think threads like this are always a good idea. Nothing wrong with a few pointers from people who have done well on Fab. Always welcomed by me anyway. | |||
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"This is just a common sense post. Anyone that can't work that out for themselves probably doesn't deserve to meet anyone. "
Don't give them profile advice. Let them fester in their spunky y-fronts. | |||
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"Load of tosh Just spam cock pics and fancy a fuck messages "Deffo play the numbers | |||
"This just looks like another condescending thread and states the obvious, it's hardly inspiring. Not all males are looking for the same things on here and that applies to females also. OP are you going to offer help to the unemployed people on fab, how to construct a good CV to get a job next ?
Not at all. There are a high proportion of guys on here with a profile with no pics (or full of cock pics worse still) and a text saying 'fill in later' or 'here for NSA) who whinge and moan that no women meet, that we are timewasters, that the site us a con.... A million things. Most of them would do well to follow the advice given to give them even half a hope in hell of meeting ladies off here.
If they aren't here to meet the above then it's not a problem.
I think OP was sweet and rather selfless in what he posted.
I hope all do well on here and it's sad not all do and that some find the need to get shirty when they don't " | |||
"Id rather meet a man who could work all that out for himself. The best filter on here is the first message "fancy a fuck" is easily translated as "i have a room temperature IQ"." bingo...... this.... those who have worked it for themselves don't need to crow about it... they will just get on and do... this, although well intentioned, almost actually feels patronising and condescending.... sorry... it does... you teach in action...... teach a man to fish rather than just giving...... if you give them all the answers... thats not learning.... | |||
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"This just looks like another condescending thread and states the obvious, it's hardly inspiring. Not all males are looking for the same things on here and that applies to females also. OP are you going to offer help to the unemployed people on fab, how to construct a good CV to get a job next ?
Not at all. There are a high proportion of guys on here with a profile with no pics (or full of cock pics worse still) and a text saying 'fill in later' or 'here for NSA) who whinge and moan that no women meet, that we are timewasters, that the site us a con.... A million things. Most of them would do well to follow the advice given to give them even half a hope in hell of meeting ladies off here.
If they aren't here to meet the above then it's not a problem.
I think OP was sweet and rather selfless in what he posted.
I hope all do well on here and it's sad not all do and that some find the need to get shirty when they don't " applause applause xxx | |||
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