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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's funny a guy local to me asked for help to get verified..I messaged him .
Not my type BUT happily meet for a social and then confirm and verify.
He then said he wouldn't get time and a list of excuses I said that's fine it's just a thought and good luck if he ever got time for a actual meet to get verified.
Then started an essay on his home life etc ,I politely said listen if you've no inclination on a social that's again fine but I've no idea why you are now messaging me as I can not assist nor advise further.
Strange!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi been on here for awhile now and when I join things where good but now its just dead am I doing something wrong or doesn't anyone meet anymore"
its the same on all swingers sites now,it would be easier if everyone on a swingers site was a swinger,lol.most guys on here just want babysitting while wifeys out shopping / at work etc.you can get scores of emails,pic requests and it'll still NOT lead to a physical meet,BEST PLAN IS get out to a swingers club/cinema that's where the genuine peeps are who wana meet up. |
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"Hi been on here for awhile now and when I join things where good but now its just dead am I doing something wrong or doesn't anyone meet anymore
its the same on all swingers sites now,it would be easier if everyone on a swingers site was a swinger,lol.most guys on here just want babysitting while wifeys out shopping / at work etc.you can get scores of emails,pic requests and it'll still NOT lead to a physical meet,BEST PLAN IS get out to a swingers club/cinema that's where the genuine peeps are who wana meet up."
That's why we only play at the club...guaranteed fun with no let downs but so often people moan that we only play there and try to convince us to change how we play rather than them going to the club. |
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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago
mysteryville |
Ive been on here for nearly 10 years now and only had a few meets. Mostly I chat in the forums but that's as far as it ever seems to go. I never get any messages. Except of a friend but it's never anything sexual. I don't bother messaging much anymore either. There are so many men and not anywhere near the same amount of women. It's just the way it is. If your a single male most people are not interested unless your like a mythical god.
I just enjoy the social side of it I might go to a club one day I'd like to meet the friends I made on here. I had come here hoping to meet with like minded people who are chilled out and want lots of fun but I guess that's a dream. Good luck with your profile. Mines a bit of a joke now. I should probably change it but you find most people don't read them. Also if you ain't got many or any verifications your fucked. So it seems if you don't make it work in the first few days your not gonna be desirable to many. There is also a hierarchy to swinging it's seems but you can't generalise as its such a diverse thing with many lifestyle choices. It's basically a mystery  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Hi Stacey.
Can I be really picky regarding your profile ? I think a few tweaks may help.....
Are you Stacey or Stacy ? This varies and seems to me that you ain't bothered on your name which is odd.
Get rid of some of your photos. The dark blurry ones. It's better to have 5 or 6 really good ones, rather than what you have now.
Get chatting on the forums, keep posting meets, read local meets and see if you may be suitable.
I know if you put the effort in, you will be successful. Maybe don't put that you are after a boyfriend. It may put people off. Suggest that is your ideal, but you need to start by having a meet and see how it goes.
All the best Stacey xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're having similiar problems. Can sympathise. We talked at length before deciding to make a profile. That nothing has come of it is a bit of a letdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tip: Don't just rely on one site, instead use few sites. I have noticed that women are up for things differently, depending on what sites you use."
What other sites bro ?? |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"We're having similiar problems. Can sympathise. We talked at length before deciding to make a profile. That nothing has come of it is a bit of a letdown."
From all that's written on here, it takes much longer for a couple to find a single female than a couple.
Understandable really.
I've only been to one, but I'm sure the socials would be a good option for meeting single women.
You do need patience on this site - as an attractive couple you'll do fine in time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're having similiar problems. Can sympathise. We talked at length before deciding to make a profile. That nothing has come of it is a bit of a letdown.
From all that's written on here, it takes much longer for a couple to find a single female than a couple.
Understandable really.
I've only been to one, but I'm sure the socials would be a good option for meeting single women.
You do need patience on this site - as an attractive couple you'll do fine in time.
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Thanks for the compliment. Youre right of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tip: Don't just rely on one site, instead use few sites. I have noticed that women are up for things differently, depending on what sites you use."
this  I always get moaned at by people when I say this to a guy though lol. It's true don't rely on this site, you can waste a lot time on here getting no where |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tip: Don't just rely on one site, instead use few sites. I have noticed that women are up for things differently, depending on what sites you use.
Any ideas on other sites then hun"
We are not allowed to say, but usually them with monthly memberships. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi been on here for awhile now and when I join things where good but now its just dead am I doing something wrong or doesn't anyone meet anymore"
Get a friend to take some decent pics. I can see little of interest in yours they are badly lit and blurry. Also don't put negativeslike how shy you are in profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's funny a guy local to me asked for help to get verified..I messaged him .
Not my type BUT happily meet for a social and then confirm and verify.
He then said he wouldn't get time and a list of excuses I said that's fine it's just a thought and good luck if he ever got time for a actual meet to get verified.
Then started an essay on his home life etc ,I politely said listen if you've no inclination on a social that's again fine but I've no idea why you are now messaging me as I can not assist nor advise further.
Strange!
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Can I do you under the trade descriptions act.You are neither ugly or fat. Xxx |
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