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over a year ago
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"we are having enough trouble finding a single male when we need one. 
Yet so many single men grumble they can't get meets!"
i'm also struggling. not many guys float my boat. |
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over a year ago
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"We are wondering the same thing as we are looking but only seem too get the idiots who dont have a clue as too what its all about"
its not the most natural thing having aex with another man's wife partner...probably why people dont know what to do. Plus does the bull have to remain single and be at the couples beck n call? In that respect the dominant party would be the couple....
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"as for finding a bull it depends what you want from the guy. finding fuck and go would be easy."
Would be interesting to hear what couples mean by a bull -maybe means different things to different folk?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It all seems so complicated, this having to play sone kinda role as a single man, like a puppet in a string for some couple
I just couldnt be arsed  "
This is certainly something we would expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as for finding a bull it depends what you want from the guy. finding fuck and go would be easy.
Would be interesting to hear what couples mean by a bull -maybe means different things to different folk?
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yeah some people are happy to just fuck without their guys around and some want the guy to watch or even join in.
i know most guys i've met prefer the guy not to be there because it's weird for them and the guy also can act weird and that is off putting.
others want a dating experience.
there'll be other stuff i've not thought about as well. |
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"as for finding a bull it depends what you want from the guy. finding fuck and go would be easy.
Would be interesting to hear what couples mean by a bull -maybe means different things to different folk?
yeah some people are happy to just fuck without their guys around and some want the guy to watch or even join in.
i know most guys i've met prefer the guy not to be there because it's weird for them and the guy also can act weird and that is off putting.
others want a dating experience.
there'll be other stuff i've not thought about as well."
If the guy in the couple is a real cuckold he would generally prefer to watch but may be "forbidden" from taking part....the self denial being all part of the pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull "
Maibe cos they got more too offer than just one thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull "
Yeah they prob dont tend to BS as much so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull "
they're around. i've fucked a few. that's how i know they aren't keen on the hubby being around. they don't advertise themselves as this either because of their preference for the husband not to be there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull
they're around. i've fucked a few. that's how i know they aren't keen on the hubby being around. they don't advertise themselves as this either because of their preference for the husband not to be there."
Ah I see . I'm bloody glad I fly solo , couldn't be on with all the nonsense lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull
they're around. i've fucked a few. that's how i know they aren't keen on the hubby being around. they don't advertise themselves as this either because of their preference for the husband not to be there.
Ah I see . I'm bloody glad I fly solo , couldn't be on with all the nonsense lol "
yeah. it's definitely easier pleasing yourself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is hard work and you have to be prepared for lots of let downs and times when you just don't click.
It became that difficult to find the right man that we both click with that we simply gave up, granted we did have lots of personal stuff going on so time was limited but the right man would have helped with some of the stress relief. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It all seems so complicated, this having to play sone kinda role as a single man, like a puppet in a string for some couple
I just couldnt be arsed "
I can see why you'd look at it from that point of view but in our experience with the men we have seen regular is that it suits their requirements just as much as it does ours. They may not be looking for a relationship but miss the company and obv the sex it offers so hooking up with us as a threesome allows them to cover that part they're looking for.
We saw someone a few times and felt confortable enough that we could then spend time alone sep, RG went on a couple of 'dates' alone and had a great time. |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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bull & bullshitter normally goes hand in hand.
When the cpls I know & meet occasionally tell me their stories from when seeking a reliable bull/fun friend I'm left puzzled. What could be better than getting on with a cpl online, being invited to meet them with the potential for serious serious fun spoiling a sexy sexy wife.
It's amazing the amount of guys pissing about, wasting cpls time (sometimes ££) to no show or the other games they play.
Obviously some people's fun is everything that aint real. That's their fix, nothing more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the definition of 'Bull'. I used to think it was a man who joined a couple as an MMF trio, where there is a threeway friendship. However it seems to be a word used to describe fit black guys who fuck white women in front of their husbands, but with no meaningful friendship. We would love to find the former, and from time to time we come across a man who understands that threeway relationship. We have found so far that it hasn't been possible to have the regularity and frequency that one of these type of arrangements requires. Unfortunately a lot of men think they are bulls, but don't really understand what this entails - they just want to fuck someone's wife and the hubby doesn't really feature in their thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Spent a couple of years looking. I think the issue is as a couple we didn't really know what we wanted and never met a "bull" who realistically knew what he wanted either! To much living in fantasy land from all sides lol. Easier to give up I'm afraid. And as has been said many a time before if you meet someone who tells you they're "a bull" what they really mean is "a misogynistic twat". |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"Depends on the definition of 'Bull'. I used to think it was a man who joined a couple as an MMF trio, where there is a threeway friendship. However it seems to be a word used to describe fit black guys who fuck white women in front of their husbands, but with no meaningful friendship. We would love to find the former, and from time to time we come across a man who understands that threeway relationship. We have found so far that it hasn't been possible to have the regularity and frequency that one of these type of arrangements requires. Unfortunately a lot of men think they are bulls, but don't really understand what this entails - they just want to fuck someone's wife and the hubby doesn't really feature in their thinking."
A proper bull/fun friend for a cpl wont struggle with other males/bf's/hubs in threeway social stuff or mfm situations.
Part of the buzz is the other guy trusting you with his partner as is her wanting her bull claim her regular. Sometimes hubs are actively involved on all fronts, sometimes just socially and sometimes after an initial meet her partner will arrange for you to meet her alone. The situations cpls go for vary as does what they consider a bull.
As for the blk guys thing mentioned. That's a fallacy people pick up from the crap some people type out or blow out. Black, white, other, there's all sorts of genuine cpls discreetly meeting all sorts of regular guys via Fab or elsewhere.
When the right couple finds/meets the right guy it's quite something. Sadly the clowns who fake/pretend here to get to many cpls before the real guys do. By that time couple's almost given up or paranoid on who to trust that's contacted them. |
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There is so much BS talked about cuckold couples and 'Bulls', by both couples and guys; its hard to sort the real people from the time wasters.
I can only speak from my own experiences of this type of relationship; tried it twice and probably wont be trying again.
Try 1 was a couple who basically wanted me at their beck and call 24/7 for when 'they' wanted to play. I have a life outside fab (hard to believe i know) and that didn't go well with them so that ended.
Try 2 started well me as their 'regular man' he wouldn't use the word cuck - but he was , but then he started imposing rules and barriers that had never been agreed or discussed, about when and where we met and stopped her doing things she enjoyed. A lot of acrimony ended that
so like i say; not going there again ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are wondering the same thing as we are looking but only seem too get the idiots who dont have a clue as too what its all about"
yes, we know that feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are having enough trouble finding a single male when we need one.
Yet so many single men grumble they can't get meets!"
Are you saying couples should drop their standards just so single males can get more meets?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are having enough trouble finding a single male when we need one.
Yet so many single men grumble they can't get meets!
Are you saying couples should drop their standards just so single males can get more meets? "
Em, no i dont think he was saying that at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull Maibe cos they got more too offer than just one thing."
I hope you not saying black guys have only one thing to offer!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull "
Ask Tommy Steele! He knows where to find a little white bull |
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I've fulfilled the bull role for a few couples over time and it can be fun. It is a hard line to balance though, become too friendly and the fantasy of a stranger coming in to 'have' the female won't work anymore.
And all couples are after something different and sometimes figuring out what they want is a challenge in itself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull
Ask Tommy Steele! He knows where to find a little white bull "
you've tainted my childhood.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull Maibe cos they got more too offer than just one thing.
I hope you not saying black guys have only one thing to offer!!"
I don't think it's fair to say that white guys have more to offer than just one thing. I had a black lover for a long time, but I've also had white lovers. All have been good friends who gave me more than just sex. But the term 'Bull' does seem to have been adopted by the interracial swing scene, and is used much less these days to describe the lover of a married woman. |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"And all couples are after something different and sometimes figuring out what they want is a challenge in itself! "
Too true at times with some. Usually a gen cpl wanting good meets with a gen single usually know exactly what situation they want and what kind've guy they want for it.
If someone doesn't know what they want beyond 'seeking a reg M meet' and it's undiscoverable in basic convo (if any convo) it's not a good ingredient. Personally I'd leave it there. Discovery yes but guesswork no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It seems there are quite a few descriptions of those who wish invite another into the intimate part of their lives.
I had a two year relationship with a (MF) couple in so far as we were bets friends as well as sexual partners. In this particular liaison I went round to their house and they to mine. We attended gigs and theatre nights together. In some cases I took the lady out on a "date" and we even went on holiday together as a threesum. His pleasure was to see his wife pleasured in a safe and secure way.
There was never a need to use the words "Bull" or "Cuck" nor was there any hint of humiliation or degrading another just three people have fun in a straight sexual and social setting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems there are quite a few descriptions of those who wish invite another into the intimate part of their lives.
I had a two year relationship with a (MF) couple in so far as we were bets friends as well as sexual partners. In this particular liaison I went round to their house and they to mine. We attended gigs and theatre nights together. In some cases I took the lady out on a "date" and we even went on holiday together as a threesum. His pleasure was to see his wife pleasured in a safe and secure way.
There was never a need to use the words "Bull" or "Cuck" nor was there any hint of humiliation or degrading another just three people have fun in a straight sexual and social setting!"
Sounds like a dream come true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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definition of Bull varies really.
I have played with the wife of the couple while hubby has just watched, took pics/videos.
I have also played where we all actively take part and enjoy a full threesome.
Adversely I have played with couples where hubby was playing the sissy role and was humiliated by the wife and then performed clean up duties !!!.
I currently have a great threesome relationship with a couple on here and we sometimes all play together and other times hubby just watches.
However you must obviously all talk and find out what everyone wants to get out of the play time.
well that's my take on it anyway.
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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago
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"definition of Bull varies really.
I have played with the wife of the couple while hubby has just watched, took pics/videos.
I have also played where we all actively take part and enjoy a full threesome.
Adversely I have played with couples where hubby was playing the sissy role and was humiliated by the wife and then performed clean up duties !!!.
I currently have a great threesome relationship with a couple on here and we sometimes all play together and other times hubby just watches.
However you must obviously all talk and find out what everyone wants to get out of the play time.
well that's my take on it anyway.
Andy "
Well said this is a post that has been put by someone who actually gets whats it is all about, just hope we can find someone in our age range who gets it as well as you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"definition of Bull varies really.
I have played with the wife of the couple while hubby has just watched, took pics/videos.
I have also played where we all actively take part and enjoy a full threesome.
Adversely I have played with couples where hubby was playing the sissy role and was humiliated by the wife and then performed clean up duties !!!.
I currently have a great threesome relationship with a couple on here and we sometimes all play together and other times hubby just watches.
However you must obviously all talk and find out what everyone wants to get out of the play time.
well that's my take on it anyway.
Andy
Well said this is a post that has been put by someone who actually gets whats it is all about, just hope we can find someone in our age range who gets it as well as you"
Thank you and really hope you find your perfect bull xx |
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why bull, why not alph male, after all what are couples looking for in a guy to join them, we know what we are looking for and we know its very hard for single guys to get a foot hold on in here, yet some of the messages we get, its like these guys expect us to drop everything for them, its just as hard to find the right guy to join us and become a part of us for many meets, there are many ways to have lots of fun, and regualr is so much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I cuckold couples, I always wanted the husband there, it's more fun cuckolding him in front of his wife, and also he can lick and cleanup afterwards. |
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"When I cuckold couples, I always wanted the husband there, it's more fun cuckolding him in front of his wife, and also he can lick and cleanup afterwards. "
There we have it!!
The overriding reason we do not welcome single males!
We accept the plain simple fat that some guys like to be humiliated by some limp-dick fucking their wife... However that is not for us.
That being accepted, there seems to be a great majority of single guys who are of the clear opinion that they are better than any woman's choice of partner?
Or are we wrong?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry you got it all wrong, some hubbys liked to be cuckold, that's what cuckolding is all about, and the hubby enjoys being cuckolded. If you just want a threesome than that's fine, the couple asked how do they meet a bull . |
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"When I cuckold couples, I always wanted the husband there, it's more fun cuckolding him in front of his wife, and also he can lick and cleanup afterwards.
There we have it!!
The overriding reason we do not welcome single males!
We accept the plain simple fat that some guys like to be humiliated by some limp-dick fucking their wife... However that is not for us.
That being accepted, there seems to be a great majority of single guys who are of the clear opinion that they are better than any woman's choice of partner?
Or are we wrong?
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I don't believe anyone is going to be humiliated by a guy with a "limp dick". |
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"When I cuckold couples, I always wanted the husband there, it's more fun cuckolding him in front of his wife, and also he can lick and cleanup afterwards.
There we have it!!
The overriding reason we do not welcome single males!
We accept the plain simple fat that some guys like to be humiliated by some limp-dick fucking their wife... However that is not for us.
That being accepted, there seems to be a great majority of single guys who are of the clear opinion that they are better than any woman's choice of partner?
Or are we wrong?
I don't believe anyone is going to be humiliated by a guy with a "limp dick"."
A limped dick bull would definitely alter the bull-cuckold dynamic! |
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"Sorry you got it all wrong, some hubbys liked to be cuckold, that's what cuckolding is all about, and the hubby enjoys being cuckolded. If you just want a threesome than that's fine, the couple asked how do they meet a bull ."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't realise it would be difficult ? There seems to be lots of male profiles using the title "bull" , although most of them are black males I don't often see or notice a white bull
Ask Tommy Steele! He knows where to find a little white bull "
Ha ha ha I just burst out laughing, I absolutely love tommy steele I think he is funny |
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"It seems there are quite a few descriptions of those who wish invite another into the intimate part of their lives.
I had a two year relationship with a (MF) couple in so far as we were bets friends as well as sexual partners. In this particular liaison I went round to their house and they to mine. We attended gigs and theatre nights together. In some cases I took the lady out on a "date" and we even went on holiday together as a threesum. His pleasure was to see his wife pleasured in a safe and secure way.
There was never a need to use the words "Bull" or "Cuck" nor was there any hint of humiliation or degrading another just three people have fun in a straight sexual and social setting!
Sounds like a dream come true "
It was pretty awesome they moved to the US with work but it was a nice part of life!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are having enough trouble finding a single male when we need one.
Yet so many single men grumble they can't get meets!"
Most single men don't make good bulls!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been a bull for a two couples. It doesn't bother me if the guy is watching or not. The longer you are a bull for a couple, things do start to change. I have gone on dates with the women by ourselves, and the husband has joined in. I'm comfortable with what ever the couple wants due to I feel very lucky to be able to fuck another mans wife.
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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"We are wondering the same thing as we are looking but only seem too get the idiots who dont have a clue as too what its all about"
The "idiot" bit cuts both ways. There are loads of couple profiles that say they're seeking a cuckold arrangement but end up turning out to be clueless or fantasists.
With the endless labels available in swinging anyone can claim to be anything and tag themselves as such. I've found the key to finding the right person for what you need, is to only subtly hint at it in your profile and messages. If people you engage with, say the right things without you leading them to it, then it is more likely that they're not just saying things they know you want to hear.
Also, if you have to shout about it on your profile and tell people you're a bull, then chances are you aren't! |
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"We are wondering the same thing as we are looking but only seem too get the idiots who dont have a clue as too what its all about
The "idiot" bit cuts both ways. There are loads of couple profiles that say they're seeking a cuckold arrangement but end up turning out to be clueless or fantasists.
With the endless labels available in swinging anyone can claim to be anything and tag themselves as such. I've found the key to finding the right person for what you need, is to only subtly hint at it in your profile and messages. If people you engage with, say the right things without you leading them to it, then it is more likely that they're not just saying things they know you want to hear.
Also, if you have to shout about it on your profile and tell people you're a bull, then chances are you aren't!"
You're preaching to the choir! That's just what i said! |
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By *oinMan
over a year ago
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"A bull is a dominant guy who fucks d ladies hard n fast.
Well if thats what you think its about i just hope no cpl bothers asking you too be one for them as you havent a clue"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those couples who have a regular bull how did you go about finding them."
Lucky enough  to be a regular for this Asian couple in my pics.
Looking forward to meet other couples though 
Get in touch guys |
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"Depends on the definition of 'Bull'. I used to think it was a man who joined a couple as an MMF trio, where there is a threeway friendship. However it seems to be a word used to describe fit black guys who fuck white women in front of their husbands, but with no meaningful friendship. We would love to find the former, and from time to time we come across a man who understands that threeway relationship. We have found so far that it hasn't been possible to have the regularity and frequency that one of these type of arrangements requires. Unfortunately a lot of men think they are bulls, but don't really understand what this entails - they just want to fuck someone's wife and the hubby doesn't really feature in their thinking."
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That's my understanding of a bull. I think a bull should form a bond with the couple because that's how you established trust and get to know a couple. If you're going to let a bull into your lives then he needs to be more than a regular shag, which could be anyone. He may wine, dine a wife, maybe go on holiday with you. The couple must be totally comfortable with their bull. There should be some exclusivity to the couple depending on how involved he gets in and out the bedroom. ...just my thoughts but then again others may have different ideas. |
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"I've been a bull for a two couples. It doesn't bother me if the guy is watching or not. The longer you are a bull for a couple, things do start to change. I have gone on dates with the women by ourselves, and the husband has joined in. I'm comfortable with what ever the couple wants due to I feel very lucky to be able to fuck another mans wife.
Have fun"
Totally agree, the longer you do it the better it becomes for all parties |
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"It seems there are quite a few descriptions of those who wish invite another into the intimate part of their lives.
I had a two year relationship with a (MF) couple in so far as we were bets friends as well as sexual partners. In this particular liaison I went round to their house and they to mine. We attended gigs and theatre nights together. In some cases I took the lady out on a "date" and we even went on holiday together as a threesum. His pleasure was to see his wife pleasured in a safe and secure way.
There was never a need to use the words "Bull" or "Cuck" nor was there any hint of humiliation or degrading another just three people have fun in a straight sexual and social setting!"
Perfect!!!!
Why are you so far away? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as for finding a bull it depends what you want from the guy. finding fuck and go would be easy.
Woukd I float your boat ??"
i don't even have a cuck yet. and i don't enjoy fuck and go for 1 on 1 meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a bull is about having clear boundaries that the married couple have mutually agreed on.
The next stage is agreeing as a couple on a bull who fits those boundaries agrees with them and that there is mutual chemistry for all three persons involved.
Social meets help initially to ensure chemistry and then a longer term cuckold journey can begin. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I think what we can take from his thread is that everyone has a different view as to what cuckolding actually is, which is understandable as cuckolding has so many different facets to it.
As mentioned already, some want a regular lover, others a lover who will meet occasionally, some look for humiliation to be a part of it, while others would run a mile if a "bull" suggested the hubby submit.
Which in my opinion is why it is so hard for genuine couples to find their perfect bull.
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My son's mother and I did have a regular bull for a couple of years.The words bull,cuckold or hotwife were never mentioned but they probably could have been used to describe our situation.The guy was an old friend of mine and my partner told me how much she wanted to fuck him.We approached him together and asked him if he was interested and he was!We all had a lot of fun and things only ended when he moved away.
Several years later I had separated from my partner and I made contact with a local couple who were seeking a "boyfriend" for the wife.The three of us discussed in detail what we expected and agreed that I was to have a relationship with the lady and that the husband could occasionally watch us having sex.There were a few hiccups along the way but this relationship lasted for several years.
Both of these situations were a turn on for me but being a cuck was a far more intense experience than being a bull.It's not easy to find people who want the same as you but it can be done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had thresomes with a number of couples and I'm always ok with the hubby watching or joining in if he wants. I'm after all fucking his wife so if he wants to see what goes on I'm not going to stop him. Some guys want to go further with the whole cuckolding thing and I will play the part if that's what they want. I think there are many guys who just want to fuck a woman and don't want another guy to get in the way, but if you're a 'bull' then you should expect hubby to be involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's all about the connection the three of you have with each other which is usually built up over time.. It's like meeting up with friends but taking it to another level in the bedroom. I always enjoy the dynamics. Would love to pick up a wife from a cuck and take her to dinner before coming back to her house for the hubby to watch and join in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are wondering the same thing as we are looking but only seem too get the idiots who dont have a clue as too what its all about"
Just looking in the wrong places! Should be looking in Worcester! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had thresomes with a number of couples and I'm always ok with the hubby watching or joining in if he wants. I'm after all fucking his wife so if he wants to see what goes on I'm not going to stop him. Some guys want to go further with the whole cuckolding thing and I will play the part if that's what they want. I think there are many guys who just want to fuck a woman and don't want another guy to get in the way, but if you're a 'bull' then you should expect hubby to be involved."
That would be a "hot wife and voyeur" if just watching....or simply mmf if joining in. Cuckolding is an entirely different thing....mostly about denial and humiliation. Certainly not joining in! |
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
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I guess I was a Bull for a couple about 10 years ago. It started as a normal meet, then the wife invited me around again a few days later, and again, and again. Hubby was involved at the start then would retire to the kitchen while the two of us carried on.
We got quite friendly over the weeks, but she got more and more demanding on my time, and I just felt like the husband was starting to miss out a bit.
First time I turned her down, I never got invited back.
I guess I'd enter into that kind of thing again, but to answer the original question. Invite a nice local guy over for a one off meet. Then text them and invite them over again. Repeat.
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The problem most couples don't understand is that bulls are not single forever.
For A bull it's hard to date in the vanilla world plus find time for your cucks and cuckoldress.
I find the dynamics of cuckolding to be unfair.
The couples have each other for holidays and birthdays. But the bull must drop everything and be at the couples beck and call when they need him.
I would only do this is again if the couples wanted to meet once a month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For those couples who have a regular bull how did you go about finding them."
I don't know about finding one, but one just found me!
I'm not interested but I can give you a name if you are? |
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