"I've been with my partner for over a year now. She knows nothin about this profile. But wat is the best way about sayin to her about swinging"
Ask if she has ever fancied a 3some you,ll know by her reaction if she is interested. |
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"I maybe wouldn't as ur last veri is 8 months ago so u have obviously cheated on her. I wouldn't be impressed"
Tell her "darling, think of it as market research" - im sure she'll understand |
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"I maybe wouldn't as ur last veri is 8 months ago so u have obviously cheated on her. I wouldn't be impressed
Tell her "darling, think of it as market research" - im sure she'll understand "
I bet she would too |
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Swinging takes honesty , openess and trust . This is seemingly lacking from your relationship so can't you both on a cpls profile anytime soon .
You may not tell her about your single profile but if you do come on here as a couple it's a real small world and one comment to out you . The truth will out as they say . |
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Ultimately the truth always comes out in the end no matter how you try & bury it !
Without honesty & trust you have nothing that will last.
Whilst seeking advice / answers from others may feel like the way forward I believe that you'll only find your true answer of what to do next from within yourself.What you decide very much depends on how much you value your relationship & the person that you are with ?
If you're meant to be together (on whatever level that is) you will be.
I think it pays to bring up the whole swinging thing from the offset but a little late for that one now ! X |
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