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am I too curvy?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest its hard to judge, all of your pictures are you laying flat on the bed.
That being said everyone has their own idea of curvy for some people there is no such thing as too curvy.
I'm sure others will tell you the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well youve had at least 6 meets in person in the last 3 months so don't understand why you think youre "too chubby" If you couldnt get a meet I'd understand the concern... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well youve had at least 6 meets in person in the last 3 months so don't understand why you think youre "too chubby" If you couldnt get a meet I'd understand the concern... "
Think we all know why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well youve had at least 6 meets in person in the last 3 months so don't understand why you think youre "too chubby" If you couldnt get a meet I'd understand the concern...
Think we all know why "
Why? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well youve had at least 6 meets in person in the last 3 months so don't understand why you think youre "too chubby" If you couldnt get a meet I'd understand the concern...
Think we all know why
Why? X"
You tell us
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By *asRedMan
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy 
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome  "
No such thing as too curvy, it's simply if your curves are to a persons taste. Personally I like a womans curves regardless of how curvy they are, it's all about the soft skin for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym "
was just asking for opinions that's all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
No idea as I don't personally know you and can't tell very much from the pics... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
was just asking for opinions that's all "
And you got mine |
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
What makes you think that, OP? I doubt you need to post a look at me thread, as you have a number of meets. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
If you think that you're too curvy or big our opinions won't change that..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that as far as weight is concerned, you can only be too curvey or too slim because of health concerns. Beyond that it is all up to you feeling comfortable and happy with yourself.
-Courtney |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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All that matters is what you think. If you think you're too curvy, do something about it. If you look in the mirror and are happy with what you see then maintain that. Spending your life wondering about what other people may perceive is not going to do you any favours. Self acceptance is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No such thing as too curvy for me
You will be exactly what some are looking for and those who you are not well you cant please everyone
Renember no one is perfect in everyones eyes, but to many you will be ,dont sell yourself short you will find who suits you and who deserves to have you spend some of your limited time with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might seem a bit harsh but if your not happy then change it. You are the only one that can!
If you haven't changed since the last time you were happy then find out what has made you feel like that and change that instead.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
Can't see your pics , so can't comment  |
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!! |
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!! "
Yes, don't take it personally if people say it as they see it .... its best not to be dependent on what other people think on here, need to be thick skinned and if you have doubts, take some time out for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
If you feel that you are then you probably are, you know your own body better than anyone, hopefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!! "
Its not sad.....big girls on fab are so in demand.....you need to embrace your beauty.....or like a previous person said....change it. Please be happy with who you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!! "
Why sad?she asked for opinions, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,"
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,"
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares?? Size is not important, confidence and personality is. If your happy then people will just see u as that.
If your not happy then change it.
But it's more important to be healthy and happy with yourself. Confidence is a turn on!! Love yourself!!
Xx |
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You're only "too curvy" if you let yourself feel that way, get some confidence girl it works wonders and for a lot of guys the thing they find most attractive in a person after physical attributes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter "
The trouble is Knitter if you start a thread, don't interact & then hide, people will draw their own conclusions, it is a public forum, these people commenting are not friends.
Once it's out there you have a choice to run with it or run away from it. Seems she took the latter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter
The trouble is Knitter if you start a thread, don't interact & then hide, people will draw their own conclusions, it is a public forum, these people commenting are not friends.
Once it's out there you have a choice to run with it or run away from it. Seems she took the latter."
I understand that from personal experience  I just don't understand why people need to go for a kill. Surely people can just offer an opinion on the question asked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too big or too curvy for who? Everyone has different types of people they are attracted to...curvy in my eyes is always a winner...big means very different ideas to different people..be happy in yourself...I'm sure you are a lovely lady no matter what status you or anyone else may put on you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter "
 yes indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't tell as your pic are private xx but I can promise whatever u think of yourself xx girls like me would trade bodies in a second xx enjoy your feminine self you are sooooo lucky xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh"
Extreme in what way? I said she looked fine but if she felt tubby go to the gym. That's not extreme  are you one of these people who gets offended on others behalf?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
Well 10 people obviously don't think so x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh"
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter
The trouble is Knitter if you start a thread, don't interact & then hide, people will draw their own conclusions, it is a public forum, these people commenting are not friends.
Once it's out there you have a choice to run with it or run away from it. Seems she took the latter.
I understand that from personal experience I just don't understand why people need to go for a kill. Surely people can just offer an opinion on the question asked "
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
Size is totally up to you. If you are happy then stay as you are. If you're unhappy then do something about it. The opinion you have of yourself is much more important than the opinion of others. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres 2 possible ways of answering the op;
1) for yourself? Only you can answer that
2) for your target audience? I would imagine itll be a 'yes' for the most part. For me, its an overwhelming 'yes', but there will be hundreds of other guys who have no problem with it |
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"Well youve had at least 6 meets in person in the last 3 months so don't understand why you think youre "too chubby" If you couldnt get a meet I'd understand the concern...
Think we all know why "
Took me all of a nanosecond |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive changed my picture so can see me sort of stood up "
I'm much bigger than you, yet still been turned down at bbw bash for being to slim....
Too curvy is subjective.... There are times I feel about as sexy as a hippo, other times I feel like a sex goddess... Although my body doesn't catch up with my mind .just enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion there is no such thing as too big or too curvy on FAB or in life in general. It's down to how you feel about yourself. How you feel you look and how your health is or isn't affected. If you are comfortable, then stuff anyone else. From what I can see of you, I think you look very sexy and I would consider myself lucky to be in your company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
So sad this has led to you blocking your profile!!
Why sad?she asked for opinions,
The OP asked for opinions on how she looked. I didn't see her post mention anything about it being a "look at me thread" perhaps some of the comments made didn't need to be.
Obviously the OP is feeling a little insecure right now, perhaps a little empathy on some of these type of threads wouldn't be a bad thing.
That is however just my opinion.
Knitter
The trouble is Knitter if you start a thread, don't interact & then hide, people will draw their own conclusions, it is a public forum, these people commenting are not friends.
Once it's out there you have a choice to run with it or run away from it. Seems she took the latter.
I understand that from personal experience I just don't understand why people need to go for a kill. Surely people can just offer an opinion on the question asked "
Because some people are under the misguided belief that belittling others edifies themselves.
Sometimes it's subconscious and they're not aware of acting like like this.
Sometimes........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just looked at your pics as they were private when I last posted. You aren't too curvy you look average body shape and size to me. Go on cams and have a look at the people on there and you will get an idea of the difference between everyone on here.
There is someone for everyone and when you realise that I'm sure you'll feel better about your self. If you don't then do something about it lose weight/ tone up, become the person that you want people to see. But I don't think you need to do that! You have a nice body and if you have the personality to match it then why change. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just looked at your pics as they were private when I last posted. You aren't too curvy you look average body shape and size to me. Go on cams and have a look at the people on there and you will get an idea of the difference between everyone on here.
There is someone for everyone and when you realise that I'm sure you'll feel better about your self. If you don't then do something about it lose weight/ tone up, become the person that you want people to see. But I don't think you need to do that! You have a nice body and if you have the personality to match it then why change. "
Im taking all of this in and gonna start back at the gym |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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What has triggered your doubt
How important do you consider that trigger to be
If it is you, change for you
If it is the words of others and you value them, change for you
If it's the words of others and they hold no place in your life, either change for you and/or FUCK THEM
Not literally |
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Now I can see you pics all I can say is your slimmer than me and I do fine on here and in the "real world". If you are truely that insecure in yourself chose to change it and perhaps take a break from this site the "confidence" you'll get from here is often fake. Learn to love yourself and others will love you for it as always been my motto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What has triggered your doubt
How important do you consider that trigger to be
If it is you, change for you
If it is the words of others and you value them, change for you
If it's the words of others and they hold no place in your life, either change for you and/or FUCK THEM
Not literally "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, now I can see your photos I wouldn't say you appear too large, what is too large anyway?
Like I said earlier if you look around there are women of all sizes on Fabs, all getting out there & having fun.
If the doubt has crept in from comments made via messages then you will need to develop a hard skin as it can be brutal on here at times & confidences can take a bashing.
However, if you are feeling that way from what you see in the mirror then maybe look to change that through diet & exercise. |
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"Now I can see you pics all I can say is your slimmer than me and I do fine on here and in the "real world". If you are truely that insecure in yourself chose to change it and perhaps take a break from this site the "confidence" you'll get from here is often fake. Learn to love yourself and others will love you for it as always been my motto "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Extreme in what way? I said she looked fine but if she felt tubby go to the gym. That's not extreme are you one of these people who gets offended on others behalf? "
No u said get off the sofa implying shes a sloth who does nothing all day but sit down thats how u were extreme of course saying go to the gym if shes not happy but u couldv left out the sofa part dont u think as thats kinda insulting And no im not nessisarily but just had to say something is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
what's up with overweight anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it. "
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it.
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano"
Let's get it right before you go accusing people of being extreme!! I said "IF she FEELS tubby go to the gym" same advice as I'd give to anyone including myself. So go and get offended elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it.
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano
Let's get it right before you go accusing people of being extreme!! I said "IF she FEELS tubby go to the gym" same advice as I'd give to anyone including myself. So go and get offended elsewhere "
I never got offended at all... im going back to the gym |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it.
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano
Let's get it right before you go accusing people of being extreme!! I said "IF she FEELS tubby go to the gym" same advice as I'd give to anyone including myself. So go and get offended elsewhere
I never got offended at all... im going back to the gym"
as I said I think you look fine. I know what you mean about sometimes feeling chubby I have days like that. Only I can change it. Good luck at the gym, hardest part is actually going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it.
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano
Let's get it right before you go accusing people of being extreme!! I said "IF she FEELS tubby go to the gym" same advice as I'd give to anyone including myself. So go and get offended elsewhere
I never got offended at all... im going back to the gym
as I said I think you look fine. I know what you mean about sometimes feeling chubby I have days like that. Only I can change it. Good luck at the gym, hardest part is actually going "
I aint been since june last year so really need to get back into it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look at me thread perchance?
Nothing wrong with you OP but if you feel tubby get off the sofa and to the gym
Bit extreme that tbh
Really? Why?
Said she looked fine but if she wasn't happy to do something about it.
There's loads of guys who like the big girls. Most big girls remain big girls for life so you may as well embrace it if you aren't going to do anything about it.
Yes I agree but im only simply saying u cant start off saying theres nothing wrong with u than jumping to "get off the sofa" its implying shes lazy who does nothing but sit on the sofa all day long yano
Let's get it right before you go accusing people of being extreme!! I said "IF she FEELS tubby go to the gym" same advice as I'd give to anyone including myself. So go and get offended elsewhere
I never got offended at all... im going back to the gym"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with you. It's how you feel about yourself as one point of _iew against how others perceive you. That's down to personal choice.
I think your pics on show look nice.
Just remember I could ask the same as you in saying what's wrong with me? As your age preference does not include me! Again down to personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
No you're fine, I would lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome
No you're fine, I would lol"
Just sent you a wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
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is this you feeling more uncomfortable if you are gaining weight? or feeling too chubby for people to like - if its the latter youre getting meets so not the issue - the former - well up to you to do soemthing |
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I agree.... Love who you are... put yourself out there in an honest and sexy way, and enjoy the attention . You will find the people who like what you have going on, embrace them. And dont worry about those who dont. Not everyone likes it, just like we dont like everyone else.
Good Luck!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I agree.... Love who you are... put yourself out there in an honest and sexy way, and enjoy the attention . You will find the people who like what you have going on, embrace them. And dont worry about those who dont. Not everyone likes it, just like we dont like everyone else.
Good Luck!!!"
Thanks xx |
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By *ampara2Woman
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"is this you feeling more uncomfortable if you are gaining weight? or feeling too chubby for people to like - if its the latter youre getting meets so not the issue - the former - well up to you to do soemthing"
i think most women get days when they feel "too fat" or "ugly" i know i do,and i'm neither fat or ugly it's just some times when my confidence is low but other times i feel grrrreat |
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You have had meets so why post a look at me thread. Fab has given me tons of confidence and tbh I don't give a monkeys about the folk who don't fancy me cos there's plenty who do. I suggest op if you ain't got the confidence you shouldn't be here...... |
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"Nothing wrong with 'curvy'. I love my curves
From your profile pic, I have to say I think your your curves are looking smoking hot too   "
Same to you |
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
My honest answer to this, and this is without looking at your pictures, is if you feel to big you are to big, people will tell you you look great and there is somebody for everybody on here but its not about what other people like its about how you feel, and if you don't feel good that's what matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
I love your curves!! Really nice xx |
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It depends too big/curvy for what. Too big/curvy for some people to find you sexually attractive, or for this site? No, absolutely not.
If you feel too big/curvy to be happy with yourself and your body then that's a different thing...I think lots of us can relate to that. If you want to, pop over to the fit and healthy threads, there are quite a few people losing weight and getting healthier on there. |
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"It depends too big/curvy for what. Too big/curvy for some people to find you sexually attractive, or for this site? No, absolutely not.
If you feel too big/curvy to be happy with yourself and your body then that's a different thing...I think lots of us can relate to that. If you want to, pop over to the fit and healthy threads, there are quite a few people losing weight and getting healthier on there. "
Thanks il go take a look |
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Your body!
I'm big and don't give a toss what other people think!
My friends and family love me
I like me.
Unless someone invents a magic pill so i can lose 10 stone overnight and still have my cake and eat it, and wine, I'm always going to be a wobbly, lovely tipsy lady who smells like cadbruys dairy milk chocolate and rose, i like rose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
I was married to a much bigger and curvy girl than you and lots of men wanted her when we swung together. You are gorgeous xxx |
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"Im starting to feel like im too big/curvy
Never used to be like it but now im starting to think I am.... am I being daft?
All opinions welcome "
Too curvy for what? Everyone has different tastes, I (hubby) adore curvy women so id be all over you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fuck no. You're not too curvy. A few natural curves make the drive more fun. Just right by what I can see.
It is difficult to answer your question without sounding like I'm objectifying your curves. No matter which words I select there will be a connotation that you may not like.
The question here is NOT what we think. People make it more complicated than it needs to be.... The question here is this: How do you feel about your curves?
If YOU are not happy about what you see...set a goal to lose a few lbs... But only do it if you feal doing so will make YOU feel more comfortable in your own skin. There are plenty of guys (myself included) who love natural curves.
Understand please...I am NOT SAYING OR IMPLYING in any way that I think you should. We all have our own body image issues. Some we can change and some we cannot. Id like to have a bigger package, but that's something that can't change. But your curves (sadly) will change if you lost a few lbs |
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Everyone has different tastes as previously said but if you feel 'too curvy' do so thing about it! But I won't feed you what you want to hear!
Excersise and eat healthy your only young so no time like the present! If you don't you will just get more curvy!
No insult intended |
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