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Seriously though, it's a combination of good photos, good messaging and good profile. You have to work on all three.
So.....a variety of pics is needed. You need to make sure your messages are interesting and polite and target your audience, don't cut n paste. Individualise them to something in someone's profile.
Profile - what can you offer? Why should a lady choose you and not me? What's your USP? |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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You dont like anal? You have never tryed it? Get a big pot of lube find the biggest bull on fab pull your pant down bend over for him and take that 10 inchs. Then give us the info of what you think of anal  |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
My personal opinion would be... make 2 quick changes:-
1) change your username (I hate user-names relating to dick size)
2) switch your avatar. The one you have now makes you look like Che Guevara (Cuban revolutionary of the 1960s) - it's the hat and headphones. Use your 6th picture as your avatar instead.
Small points, but so many people will evaluate you based just on name and avatar, so it's best to get the basics right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like that you have a list of dislikes, and I like even less that it comes before the things you like. And I dunno why the first thing you mention is football. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I can't stand bathroom photos, a major turn off, make sure you relate to something you've read in profile, so they know you've taken time, and as in your profile, keep to good use of grammar, and away from text talk.
If we were replying, we'd probably say, nice profile and pics, but too young for us, but good luck in your venture, always try and be positive if possible lol |
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"Well football is me and I thought it would show that I'm active at least, the dislike will go then. Thanks  "
You're taking the advice of one person? Keep the football in - it makes you look active. Now what are you gonna do? |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
Banging on about Color Me Badd in your status is not a good idea.
They were dreadful in 1991 or whenever it was. Seriously - I was there. They were dreadful.
You're a 29 year old dude living in London, not a 47 year old estate agent/Alan Partridge clone/Tory councillor from Bromsgrove. What the hell were you thinking?  .
Other than that - not too bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you look like an attractive sexy guy but the name would have put me off before I got to the pictures.
Glad there's no cock shots. There's always time for that later.
Oh, there's a typo, you put you like liking pussy not licking pussy. Small things can be a huge deal on here so change it when you get chance.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, I missed that typo lol bloody auto correct on my phone! I can't change my username now damn  "
That's a shame.
Saying that, it's better than some I've seen on here. The ones that make you say 'ew!' as you read them lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well football is me and I thought it would show that I'm active at least, the dislike will go then. Thanks
You're taking the advice of one person? Keep the football in - it makes you look active. Now what are you gonna do? "
I didn't actually say it should go, I just found it a weird opener. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"Wait! "I wanna sex you up" was not a great song? Other then that they were shit but that song, come on!"
In the interests of fairness, I listened to it for the first time in years. It's diabolical - even worse than I remember.
There's loads of great songs out there for bedroom filth is on the cards.
I'm convinced most women would storm out in terror if you played that (possibly having a dump on your sofa as revenge - one atrocity deserves another)  .
Think the name change idea might help you out a bit btw. |
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