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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've met less than a handful of people on here and in general outside of this site. But I always get nervous in approach to the subject of latex. I adore latex and love wearing it and seeing anyone wearing it. How do I ask someone to wear it and is it a total deal breaker if someone doesn't like it and won't ever wear it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What kind of fetish website's would you recommend if I can't find anything here. Or even any fetish clubs or weekend round the uk. I've looked before but never really found much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you shouldn't really ask anyone to do anything for your pleasure, unless you're sure they like the same things you like.
i personally hate people asking me to fulfil their fantasies for them. now say they get off on something i enjoy doing, that's a different story then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm the kind of person that will always give back so if you have any fantasies or anything like that I'm always happy to help for fill them but I also have them fantasies too so I should have as much of a right to have them as you
Also it is kinda advice on latex but more on latex and non latex wearers and anyone who has been in this situation
To everyone else thank you for your advice and help so far X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean like don't randomly ask people to wear latex for you. i got that impression from this;
"How do I ask someone to wear it and is it a total deal breaker if someone doesn't like it and won't ever wear it ?"
Relationships are usually give and take, but with NSA sex people wanna fulfil their own fantasies with people into the same things as themselves.
It's highly unlikely, but not impossible i suppose, that you would find someone who'd be willing to fulfil your fetish with you and not be into it on the surmise that you'd fulfil one of their fantasies.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Look at people's profiles as there are quite a few people who enjoy latex so you might find some of them. Some might even have rubber in the username. I love latex and I often wear it to a club. If anyone was into it obviously they would know immediately I was too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't mean to give the impression that I ask every girl I meet to dress up, what I'm kind of saying is when you get to know someone and it might start getting serious then what can I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't mean to give the impression that I ask every girl I meet to dress up, what I'm kind of saying is when you get to know someone and it might start getting serious then what can I do"
here's what you can do, take the advice of some on here who say look at profiles....do a search and find them for yourself...send a message, if you are what they are looking for and take it from there....as with most things this takes a lot of legwork on your part...
once you find someone into the same as you it shouldn't be too difficult to move on to wearing latex in each others company.... |
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"I didn't mean to give the impression that I ask every girl I meet to dress up, what I'm kind of saying is when you get to know someone and it might start getting serious then what can I do"
it's ok. i didn't get the impression you had, just that you might start doing it so advised you not to. you don't even have to take my advice if you want, i don't know everything.
i think if it's really important to you, which it sounds like it is, then you'd have to ask them about eventually. idk what you're willing to compromise on but sometimes you have to prioritise some things over others, ideally you wouldn't have to though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put it on your profile in a list of things you are interested in.
Only you can decide if it is a deal breaker or not for you if they don't want to wear it. But there are plenty of us out there who love it.. I just got mine out of storage for Eurekas on Saturday! Need to get my shine on now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is allot of rubber fans out there, as others have said fet sites are a good place to start. Otherwise just be honest and talk to people like they are human beings and not a potential outlet for your kink and you should be just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Abfabs have a fetish night on the 2nd Friday of every month....You will find people who wear latex there (us included)
Most clubs now hold a Fetish night at some point in the month. |
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"I didn't mean to give the impression that I ask every girl I meet to dress up, what I'm kind of saying is when you get to know someone and it might start getting serious then what can I do"
Don't make a big deal of it. I feel like you're making it out in your head to be a massive thing which in turn might make the other person uncomfortable. Just ask casually 'have you ever worn latex?' and if not, 'would it be something you'd consider trying?', or something like that. Unless they have a latex allergy then there's a good chance they'd be open to it if you are positive about it but don't make it all about the latex. |
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