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Please do give your honest opinion..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi to all you lovely swingers. I was browsing the forums & thought id see if any of you lovely folk could take a look at my profile; Please do let me know of any downfalls and/or any general advice. Please do feel free to Pm me (if you don't to put in on the forum page). All opinions welcomed & appreciated..Thank you so much.Mwaahxx |
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over a year ago
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To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required ..xx |
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"To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required..xx"
Read that three times and I'm still baffled.
It is a "look at how successful ive been in such a short time on the site" post as far as I can make out.
Advice therefore seems superfluous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's pretty straightforward - OP's veris result from a visit to a club, not from a 'meet' as such. So he wants his meet'cherry popped.
Profile seems OK to me. Seen much worse.
Just have patience. 3 Weeks is nowt in the World of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's pretty straightforward - OP's veris result from a visit to a club, not from a 'meet' as such. So he wants his meet'cherry popped.
Profile seems OK to me. Seen much worse.
Just have patience. 3 Weeks is nowt in the World of Fab."
Ahhh Thank you for understanding & reply (No changes made then). As for you gordon, i dont know why you're baffled.. Pretty straight forward what i was intending to say above; as in my veri's have nowt to do with my profile (did not meet or arrange to meet from the profile).. Hope that clears things up.. Mwaaaah..xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required..xx
Read that three times and I'm still baffled.
It is a "look at how successful ive been in such a short time on the site" post as far as I can make out.
Advice therefore seems superfluous."
Your inabilty to understand the statement made resulted you in deeming to give advice as "superfluous". I respect your opinion & understand due to your understanding capabilities you came to such conclusion. Im hoping a fourth time read may have cleared issues up a little if not completley. I do appreciate you taking time out to reply on my thread-albeit somewhat inane Thanking you regardless.. Mwahhh!..xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am not looking for advice, but thanks anyways, you must be the umpteenth profile in a few days with the look at me.
also anyone can post what they feel in a thread whether you like or dislike there replies
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required..xx
Read that three times and I'm still baffled.
It is a "look at how successful ive been in such a short time on the site" post as far as I can make out.
Advice therefore seems superfluous.
Your inabilty to understand the statement made resulted you in deeming to give advice as "superfluous". I respect your opinion & understand due to your understanding capabilities you came to such conclusion. Im hoping a fourth time read may have cleared issues up a little if not completley. I do appreciate you taking time out to reply on my thread-albeit somewhat inane Thanking you regardless.. Mwahhh!..xxx"
I do get where he is coming from....
even though the verifications aren't as a result of connections you made through the profile...it hasn't stopped you posting them 
also you asked for advice so therefore you have invited people to comment..that includes good and bad comments... you don't really get to pick and choose so I suggest you accept everything with good grace |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required..xx
Read that three times and I'm still baffled.
It is a "look at how successful ive been in such a short time on the site" post as far as I can make out.
Advice therefore seems superfluous."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest the 2 verifications are from a visit to a club (not related to my profile beforehand). So, i suppose it is a "look at my "profile thread" for advice to see how it fairs on the site (Veri's are not from meets organised from profile -as in not results of my profile) - Hence my question to see if any improvements are required..xx
Read that three times and I'm still baffled.
It is a "look at how successful ive been in such a short time on the site" post as far as I can make out.
Advice therefore seems superfluous.
Your inabilty to understand the statement made resulted you in deeming to give advice as "superfluous". I respect your opinion & understand due to your understanding capabilities you came to such conclusion. Im hoping a fourth time read may have cleared issues up a little if not completley. I do appreciate you taking time out to reply on my thread-albeit somewhat inane Thanking you regardless.. Mwahhh!..xxx
I do get where he is coming from....
even though the verifications aren't as a result of connections you made through the profile...it hasn't stopped you posting them
also you asked for advice so therefore you have invited people to comment..that includes good and bad comments... you don't really get to pick and choose so I suggest you accept everything with good grace "
Ahhhh, for sure i will take the above on board for sure-but honestly good or bad-i do like it. I have ALWAYS been a fan of constructive criticism. Of course, as anybody on the site would do; All veris are definately welcomed & yes, you are correct-i did choose to display them; Nice veris  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i am not looking for advice, but thanks anyways, you must be the umpteenth profile in a few days with the look at me.
also anyone can post what they feel in a thread whether you like or dislike there replies
enjoy
Do not disagree with you at all fella .. Hence i replied with what i felt suitable-Never felt or insinuated one cannot post whatever they want or feel to do so. 'tis is a shame you're having to read such threads upmteenth time & having to feel like you must reply..
You could show some respect and refer to tv/ts people as the gender they present as rather than "fella".
Thank you so much for that lovely piece of advice - duly noted  . Now back to my initial question any constructive feedback on my profile at all? Lets not be diva'ish about "who said what/why".. - Thank you so much..
Diva'ish?
So much for all opinions welcomed & appreciated. "
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Always welcomed .. Never did i say i dont welcome it; but 'tis advice on my profile that was requested, but for sure all advice is welcomed.. Thank you so much.. Muwaaah..xx |
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"i am not looking for advice, but thanks anyways, you must be the umpteenth profile in a few days with the look at me.
also anyone can post what they feel in a thread whether you like or dislike there replies
enjoy
Do not disagree with you at all fella .. Hence i replied with what i felt suitable-Never felt or insinuated one cannot post whatever they want or feel to do so. 'tis is a shame you're having to read such threads upmteenth time & having to feel like you must reply..
You could show some respect and refer to tv/ts people as the gender they present as rather than "fella".
Thank you so much for that lovely piece of advice - duly noted . Now back to my initial question any constructive feedback on my profile at all? Lets not be diva'ish about "who said what/why".. - Thank you so much..
Diva'ish?
So much for all opinions welcomed & appreciated. ...
Always welcomed .. Never did i say i dont welcome it; but 'tis advice on my profile that was requested, but for sure all advice is welcomed.. Thank you so much.. Muwaaah..xx"
The point she was trying to make is you can say all advice is welcomed and appreciated then use a term like divaish which can have negative connotations
As for your profile personally your username doesn't provoke me to look further as although some would say you were going for the confidence approach in calling yourself mister ace I just read it as egotistical |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally having read your profile, I wouldn't change it. It's lighthearted and gives enough detail to allow a more free and in depth conversation xx"
I was honestly going for that kind of approach, as in enough to get a feel but definately ALOT more that can be expanded on.. Cheeky, a little confident & not too serious but a nice flowing undertone.
Thank you so much for taking time out to reply..Muwaaah!..xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i am not looking for advice, but thanks anyways, you must be the umpteenth profile in a few days with the look at me.
also anyone can post what they feel in a thread whether you like or dislike there replies
enjoy
Do not disagree with you at all fella .. Hence i replied with what i felt suitable-Never felt or insinuated one cannot post whatever they want or feel to do so. 'tis is a shame you're having to read such threads upmteenth time & having to feel like you must reply..
You could show some respect and refer to tv/ts people as the gender they present as rather than "fella".
Thank you so much for that lovely piece of advice - duly noted . Now back to my initial question any constructive feedback on my profile at all? Lets not be diva'ish about "who said what/why".. - Thank you so much..
Diva'ish?
So much for all opinions welcomed & appreciated. ...
Always welcomed .. Never did i say i dont welcome it; but 'tis advice on my profile that was requested, but for sure all advice is welcomed.. Thank you so much.. Muwaaah..xx
The point she was trying to make is you can say all advice is welcomed and appreciated then use a term like divaish which can have negative connotations
As for your profile personally your username doesn't provoke me to look further as although some would say you were going for the confidence approach in calling yourself mister ace I just read it as egotistical
I do appreciate the time you taken to reply & advise me.. Thank you . As for negative connotations; i appreciate the clear up you have just made and im sure several others will be glad of you chipping in. What can i say? "Political correctness" will always be prevalent. My intentions were not to cause any sort of connotations, let alone negative ones, thus it is a shame it has been perceived as such (if it has). As for my username; Thank you for your advise.. .. Again, Love to you ALL..Muwaaah..xxx "
I wasn't trying to advise you on political correctness. just suggesting you respect others. Dismissing me as diva'ish For pointing that out doesn't do you any favours.
You can write what you like in your profile. Like a cv, it's just there to get you through the initial ing process.
Your first message is more important, as is how you respond to everyone around you. Yes; even people like me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i am not looking for advice, but thanks anyways, you must be the umpteenth profile in a few days with the look at me.
also anyone can post what they feel in a thread whether you like or dislike there replies
enjoy
Do not disagree with you at all fella .. Hence i replied with what i felt suitable-Never felt or insinuated one cannot post whatever they want or feel to do so. 'tis is a shame you're having to read such threads upmteenth time & having to feel like you must reply..
You could show some respect and refer to tv/ts people as the gender they present as rather than "fella".
Thank you so much for that lovely piece of advice - duly noted . Now back to my initial question any constructive feedback on my profile at all? Lets not be diva'ish about "who said what/why".. - Thank you so much..
Diva'ish?
So much for all opinions welcomed & appreciated. ...
Always welcomed .. Never did i say i dont welcome it; but 'tis advice on my profile that was requested, but for sure all advice is welcomed.. Thank you so much.. Muwaaah..xx
The point she was trying to make is you can say all advice is welcomed and appreciated then use a term like divaish which can have negative connotations
As for your profile personally your username doesn't provoke me to look further as although some would say you were going for the confidence approach in calling yourself mister ace I just read it as egotistical
I do appreciate the time you taken to reply & advise me.. Thank you . As for negative connotations; i appreciate the clear up you have just made and im sure several others will be glad of you chipping in. What can i say? "Political correctness" will always be prevalent. My intentions were not to cause any sort of connotations, let alone negative ones, thus it is a shame it has been perceived as such (if it has). As for my username; Thank you for your advise.. .. Again, Love to you ALL..Muwaaah..xxx
I wasn't trying to advise you on political correctness. just suggesting you respect others. Dismissing me as diva'ish For pointing that out doesn't do you any favours.
You can write what you like in your profile. Like a cv, it's just there to get you through the initial ing process.
Your first message is more important, as is how you respond to everyone around you. Yes; even people like me. "
Now, id like to Thank you for taking time to message & grateful for the advice and your opinions (advice on profile, opinions on the possibilty of lack of respect), You clearly interpreted my reply as "lack of respect" for simply having a opinion (diva). As stated above there was no intentional negative connotations to be taken from my thread (esp of lack of respect) & as iv stated MANY times & will state again; Nothing but love is for ALL and everyone, irrelevant of size,gender,race, or any other labels that may used as to catergorise an individual . Stay happy & Stay smiling.. Life is short |
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Oh man this is so funny.
1st off your profile is a very good one. But your response to the muppets here is a better advert than any profile and I think that's the best part. I really think some people have shown themselves up. Bravo for your responses it has made me chuckle. It shows you are a smart guy who is in control of his faculties and might therefore be able to handle himself in sexual situations. Realistically. Your profile weakness is a lack of a couple of veris saying how you rocked a couple of woman's worlds. but I imagine that will come with time. |
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"Oh man this is so funny.
1st off your profile is a very good one. But your response to the muppets here is a better advert than any profile and I think that's the best part. I really think some people have shown themselves up. Bravo for your responses it has made me chuckle. It shows you are a smart guy who is in control of his faculties and might therefore be able to handle himself in sexual situations. Realistically. Your profile weakness is a lack of a couple of veris saying how you rocked a couple of woman's worlds. but I imagine that will come with time. "
Id hardly say calling someone taking an opposing view a Diva or you calling the same people muppets is the best way to deal with a a post you disagree with, but other than terms like that being used I do agree the OP is conducting himself well |
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"Hi to all you lovely swingers. I was browsing the forums & thought id see if any of you lovely folk could take a look at my profile; Please do let me know of any downfalls and/or any general advice. Please do feel free to Pm me (if you don't to put in on the forum page). All opinions welcomed & appreciated..Thank you so much.Mwaahxx"
. A good well written profile with good pictures . The only weakness is that you do not mention any hobbies and interests .
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Hi OP,
Overall a good profile and (judging by your replies) you clearly don't get easily annoyed or frustrated. Very useful for Fab.
The only thing I really don't like is your frequent use of "Muaawaah". It's just a bit
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi OP,
Overall a good profile and (judging by your replies) you clearly don't get easily annoyed or frustrated. Very useful for Fab.
The only thing I really don't like is your frequent use of "Muaawaah". It's just a bit
Nita"
Hi Nita, Thank you for the response/reply - fully appreciate time taken to message and helpful advice. Life is short & you're correct (im not easily annoyed / offended). . Thank you so much..xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi to all you lovely swingers. I was browsing the forums & thought id see if any of you lovely folk could take a look at my profile; Please do let me know of any downfalls and/or any general advice. Please do feel free to Pm me (if you don't to put in on the forum page). All opinions welcomed & appreciated..Thank you so much.Mwaahxx. A good well written profile with good pictures . The only weakness is that you do not mention any hobbies and interests . "
Mr Pat, That is a great observation indeed (Thank you). To be honest, im going to squeeze a few hobbies/interests in on my profile (sounds like a plan).. Thank you..xx
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"Oh man this is so funny.
1st off your profile is a very good one. But your response to the muppets here is a better advert than any profile and I think that's the best part. I really think some people have shown themselves up. Bravo for your responses it has made me chuckle. It shows you are a smart guy who is in control of his faculties and might therefore be able to handle himself in sexual situations. Realistically. Your profile weakness is a lack of a couple of veris saying how you rocked a couple of woman's worlds. but I imagine that will come with time.
Id hardly say calling someone taking an opposing view a Diva or you calling the same people muppets is the best way to deal with a a post you disagree with, but other than terms like that being used I do agree the OP is conducting himself well "
Thank you so much for taking time out to reply - I do appreciate it and as mentioned multiple times all views are welcomed. Your compliments are kind & warming xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe he just thought they were acting like a diva rather than just having an opinion?
OP - why do you make a strange noise at the end of your posts? "
Lol, That did make me laugh. I promise not to make any involuntary noises on the post. Serves me right for starting to make an horrendous sound (even if it was to blow a kiss or 2)..  |
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"Maybe he just thought they were acting like a diva rather than just having an opinion?
OP - why do you make a strange noise at the end of your posts?
Lol, That did make me laugh. I promise not to make any involuntary noises on the post. Serves me right for starting to make an horrendous sound (even if it was to blow a kiss or 2).. "
Those 'muaaarrh's sounded like cushion absorbed sneaky farts. |
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