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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm planning to do surprise my missus
The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself...
Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this....
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me."
Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him.
I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me."
But this is one of our regulars she knows him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A while ago a good friend of mine left me tied up and blind folded in a hotel room, I had no idea what he had planned but I knew everything he did was for my pleasure. He left me there for what seemed like ages but was in fact less than 15 minutes then returned with a good friend of ours. An amazing few hours followed that still makes me smile now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A while ago a good friend of mine left me tied up and blind folded in a hotel room, I had no idea what he had planned but I knew everything he did was for my pleasure. He left me there for what seemed like ages but was in fact less than 15 minutes then returned with a good friend of ours. An amazing few hours followed that still makes me smile now. "
That sounds really good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A while ago a good friend of mine left me tied up and blind folded in a hotel room, I had no idea what he had planned but I knew everything he did was for my pleasure. He left me there for what seemed like ages but was in fact less than 15 minutes then returned with a good friend of ours. An amazing few hours followed that still makes me smile now.
That sounds really good "
It was x |
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus
The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself...
Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this....
Thanks "
I wouldn't personally. Agreeing to sex with someone on one or more occasions doesn't mean he can assume my consent in the future.
If this is something your wife has asked you to do and you know she will enjoy however I hope you all enjoy. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"But this is one of our regulars she knows him "
I still wouldn't accept it being 'assumed' that I would play again, without being asked. Sometimes I'm in the mood for MFM, sometimes I'm in the mood for MF. But you crack on, if you're confident that your lady will find it acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me.
Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him.
I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP"
Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us |
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me.
Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him.
I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP
Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us "
But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise".
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I've been one of the regulars that the hubby invited to entertain his blindfolded wife, along with one other guy she'd met before..
It was superb, but, during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us!
The blindfold came off after that, and we all enjoyed a glass of champagne before round two... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And THIS is why I sometimes wish I was in a couple - that and I'm tired of being the token single female at parties - assuming they're not couples only anyway - meh!!
Love mmf but not had many as I'm a fussy bugger and need to get to know people first as well as fancy them!
Sorry op - I'm waffling! Sure she'll love it!  |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us!"
So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is.
It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario.
-Courtney |
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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago
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".. I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence."
I don't think you quite follow the track of how this works, the unknown is whats so damned horny about this scenario.
OK, its all about trusting your partner ultimately but that's what a relationship is about surely.
Personally , I love it !! |
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".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us!
So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence."
This was the lady's fantasy, and she implicitly trusted her husband to select and invite two men whom she had previously met.
It all worked very well. |
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".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us!
So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's opresence."
I wonder why some people join this site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my fantasy
Hubby knows and would leave the planning to him as to who the people are so there is an element of surprise but I've given him a todo list etc aswell
But would definitely discuss with her first |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
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"So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence."
Well you sound like a fun person  |
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"So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence.
Well you sound like a fun person "
We we're thinking the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me.
Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him.
I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP
Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us
But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise".
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My missus never ask to do this that's why I've called a surprise it wouldn't be surprised if she already knew I was going to do that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is.
It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario.
-Courtney "
Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same  |
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me.
Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him.
I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP
Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us
But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise".
My missus never ask to do this that's why I've called a surprise it wouldn't be surprised if she already knew I was going to do that "
Then I will say for the final time, if a woman (or a man) consents to sex once it does not mean they consent to sex with that person in the future. Roll your eyes at me all you like but I'm not the one thinking its ok for my wife to be fucked when she doesn't know who it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is.
It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario.
-Courtney
Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same "
Yes. Hence my last paragraph. Marc and I have discussed this scenario in the past. If we hadn't, and he tried it, I wouldn't be ok with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps ask her if it's okay a good while before you do it..
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I've been with my missus for the last 11 year's of my life,the point is i know what she likes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is.
It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario.
-Courtney
Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same
Yes. Hence my last paragraph. Marc and I have discussed this scenario in the past. If we hadn't, and he tried it, I wouldn't be ok with that."
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Hubby and I have spoken about this. I love the idea of him choosing from a group of guys we chat to but have not yet met (I'm into the sex with strangers fantasy) and him organising for them to come over without me knowing.
It'll probably stay a fantasy but that's OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've done this the other way round
The women of a couple I knew asked me if I'd help with a surprise for her hubby's birthday
Basically she wanted to tie him up and blind fold him, have somebody come into the room and use him sexually then leave, never say a world so he never knows who it was
I happily obliged 
Was really funny the next time I saw them at a club he was telling me all about his birthday and how she had tied him up and somebody had come in and what they had done to him, he looked happy enough about it sounded like he had a great time, had no idea it was me |
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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago
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We had a similar experience planned for last night. I really would like to be blindfolded then two/three guys can play with me while my partner watches and ensures everything is safe. The guys then leave before my blindfold is removed and I never know who has fucked me.
Unfortunately last night my dominant side took over and I had already invited a guy upstairs x |
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This is the point of no.
It's the ultimate safe word.
If it's something you've discussed in the past then so long as everyone knows that it stops as soon as the word no pops out then no harm done.
Part of being a couple is knowing what the other likes and dislikes.
For example I like the idea of my wife flirting on a night out. But if she texted me to tell me and I was not in the mood she would respect that just as I would visa versa.
I get that it's not a surprise if planned. But the timing can still be unknown. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"I've done this the other way round
The women of a couple I knew asked me if I'd help with a surprise for her hubby's birthday
Basically she wanted to tie him up and blind fold him, have somebody come into the room and use him sexually then leave, never say a world so he never knows who it was
I happily obliged
Was really funny the next time I saw them at a club he was telling me all about his birthday and how she had tied him up and somebody had come in and what they had done to him, he looked happy enough about it sounded like he had a great time, had no idea it was me "
Lime this idea too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is, for me, one of the things which seem good as a fantasy, but not sure it would be that good in reality.
I think to make it work the "suprise person" would have to be someone the lady already knew and trusted, and the suprise would be that they turned up without the lady knowing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do u know what all u couples ur lucky to have a good sexy partner who look after each other. Give u nice surprises n have great fun together . "
I know |
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I have done this with a couple I know really well. She was bound up and on the bed, she had no idea who her hubby had arranged (he arranged women/couple or me). It was such a turn on to unzip and open her mouth! Yum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have done this with a couple I know really well. She was bound up and on the bed, she had no idea who her hubby had arranged (he arranged women/couple or me). It was such a turn on to unzip and open her mouth! Yum"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have done this with a couple I know really well. She was bound up and on the bed, she had no idea who her hubby had arranged (he arranged women/couple or me). It was such a turn on to unzip and open her mouth! Yum"
That sounds really good |
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I'd suggest working out what you'll do if it goes wrong... a foolproof plan would include telling the other guy "I am totally sure she'll love this, but if she doesn't, I expect you to take it in good grace" and making sure you don't react crossly if it doesn't go to plan.
It's a risk taken lovingly ... so like an 'embarrassing' public proposal etc, you can put a lot of thought in, but you can't know the reaction... and she has the right to say no obv. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd suggest working out what you'll do if it goes wrong... a foolproof plan would include telling the other guy "I am totally sure she'll love this, but if she doesn't, I expect you to take it in good grace" and making sure you don't react crossly if it doesn't go to plan.
It's a risk taken lovingly ... so like an 'embarrassing' public proposal etc, you can put a lot of thought in, but you can't know the reaction... and she has the right to say no obv."
I'm sure that even if she's not blindfold she would enjoy anyway because we've meet this guy before many times,but thanks 4 the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Scarlett would enjoy this scenario as long as she knew the guy.
She wouldn't know it was him during the scene of course but would be relieved to see a familiar face once the blindfold was removed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Scarlett would enjoy this scenario as long as she knew the guy.
She wouldn't know it was him during the scene of course but would be relieved to see a familiar face once the blindfold was removed.
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That's the plan,to make sure everyone is satisfied |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is on my fantasy list - I would need the guys to be people I have met before... But the idea of being blindfolded and not knowing who is taking you is a real turn on for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is on my fantasy list - I would need the guys to be people I have met before... But the idea of being blindfolded and not knowing who is taking you is a real turn on for me"
I'm doing it on Saturday,can't wait to tell you guy's how it was  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my fantasies too
And I fully trust my cheeky to choose wisely !
Me too...
Whether it would ever happen is another matter.
A girl can dream
Today is the day and tomorrow I will let you all know how it was
Nita"
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We have been planning to have fun like this at our local club , wife wants to point out the guys she wants to play with her as she would like a couple . And a few already know only problem so far is all being at the club on the same night . We bring the blind fold every week . It will happen soon ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did something similar, I knew a guy was coming but had no idea who he was, I was tied and blindfolded for the whole meet and once he left I watched the video to see who it was!! One of my best experiences x |
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"I did something similar, I knew a guy was coming but had no idea who he was, I was tied and blindfolded for the whole meet and once he left I watched the video to see who it was!! One of my best experiences x"
I did this too although I took blindfold off after the first round so could see who it was for round 2 and 3..was so hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's even better with headphones so that you can't hear or see what's going on. We have done it a few times. I never know if we playing or if I'm gonna get a surprise. I love his surprises because he knows who I would and like. So it's never a bad surprise xx |
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus
The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself...
Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this....
Thanks "
Put some earphones in her ears and play music so she can't hear anything else. Then everyone can tease her body with different smooth, rough, tickly, cold etc etc. Ropes to restrain her if that's your thing. Different tongues licking/ probing...
The results can be amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I thinks it's a great idea, but I think you need to discuss it first and find out if it's something she would like to try, I think it's most woman's fantasy to be tied up blindfolded, and I did say fantasy, to lie there to be kissed, touched, anonymous hands running all over her body and touch her most intermate parts, I myself would love to take part in something like that. |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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Iv read all the posts and it's apparent that a lot of people are assuming the other 'side' is wrong in the 'argument'
Personally speaking I would not make this fantasy a reality unless I knew it was something my partner and I had discussed more than once and probably not unless a shortlist of preferred guests had been agreed upon ..
From past discussions and actions may I suggest you do discuss this which addresses the concerns of many ie there is a 'piece if meat' mentality coming through in your posts ..but an underlying conviction that you know your long term partner well enough ..so..why not discuss shortlist and then drop the 'guests' in a hat etc your partner picks at random but she is A agreeing to the fantasy side and B has some.control over who she would be happy to engage in the acts with ...personally I'd find it funny if she chose two others and your name.was.t on the list so you couldn't come in ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus
The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself...
Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this....
Thanks "
yes this is one of my fantasies. |
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