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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social? "
her not anti
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social? "
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you. |
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social? "
just a big fat goodbye snog! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social?
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you."
yea got contact details. Just needed a female perspective mindset.. I responded socially and she went cold and seemed to ignore me.. Possibly out of thinking i wasn't interested |
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social?
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you. yea got contact details. Just needed a female perspective mindset.. I responded socially and she went cold and seemed to ignore me.. Possibly out of thinking i wasn't interested"
Who knows? The mistake men and women make about each other is that each gender has only one mindset. My take on this is that she isn't interested but another woman will interpret it differently, the only person who can tell you what she meant by it is her. My suggestion is that you contact her and ask her out for a drink, you will know for sure by her answer.
Good luck I hope it all works out for the best. |
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I wouldn't approach someone in that way unless I was interested. However, other people would see no problem in kissing friends like that. Ask her out for a drink, it's the only way you are going to find out |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social?
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you. yea got contact details. Just needed a female perspective mindset.. I responded socially and she went cold and seemed to ignore me.. Possibly out of thinking i wasn't interested
Who knows? The mistake men and women make about each other is that each gender has only one mindset. My take on this is that she isn't interested but another woman will interpret it differently, the only person who can tell you what she meant by it is her. My suggestion is that you contact her and ask her out for a drink, you will know for sure by her answer.
Good luck I hope it all works out for the best."
Absolutely
I wouldn't ever kiss a colleague full on in public no matter how interested I was in him. Therefore, I can't even begin to understand her motive |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Personally, I wouldn't kiss someone full on the lips (sober) unless I was interested in them. However, I have sometimes turned my head expecting a right-cheek kiss, and they turned their head expecting their left-cheek kiss, and lips accidentally met.  The only way to find out if it was deliberate or accidental is to get in touch with her, and ask her out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well. Thanks for the advice everyone.. I realise all women are different in persona, attitudes.. Etc.. Just thought i'd put it out there to see what others thought. I'll take things easy and see how things go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social?
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you."
no problem. . It,s not vital lol.. I know each person has disperate idiosynchratic qualities. I can't expect a definitive answer from yous chaps. Just thought i'd put it out there and see what yous made of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to gauge an incident, where a colleague who i flirted with a bit, had a leaving party. She got hold of my collar with anti hands and kissed me full on the lips. What are the odds that shes interested? Or was she being social?
Do you have any means of contacting her? If not she definitely wasn't interested if you do, ask her because we honestly can't tell you. yea got contact details. Just needed a female perspective mindset.. I responded socially and she went cold and seemed to ignore me.. Possibly out of thinking i wasn't interested
Who knows? The mistake men and women make about each other is that each gender has only one mindset. My take on this is that she isn't interested but another woman will interpret it differently, the only person who can tell you what she meant by it is her. My suggestion is that you contact her and ask her out for a drink, you will know for sure by her answer.
Good luck I hope it all works out for the best.
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I wouldn't ever kiss a colleague full on in public no matter how interested I was in him. Therefore, I can't even begin to understand her motive"
Same here.
I fancied a guy I work with for a year and always been to scared to even mention drinks.
We flirt and sometimes I think he might fancy me but then I don't want him to know I do so avoid him for a couple weeks.....
Wouldn't dream of planting a kiss on him.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Made a big mistake gave a guy i worked with in the bank a Christmas kiss at a part would not leave it alone.He changed his dinner hour the same as mine had to be cruel to be kind in the end "
ouch!.. yea things can be misinterpreted.. I dont base things on one single incident.. Plus i take things easy and will leave issues without pushing them
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