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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If you've hit a rough patch on here and your self confidence has gone, what do you do to get it back? My is shot to buggery at the moment.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

easier said than done but I will never allow my confidence to be impacted by the site, the second I thought it maybe... I would take a break and come back refreshed.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If fab is removing or improving confidence, then I'd suggest you take a reality check but it depends on why your confidence is shot? Can you elaborate on why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me, ive altered my filters and my profile.

I've said I'm not meeting but happy to chat, I spend my time smiling at the weirdness of the forums and chatting bollocks to anyone who cares to listen

Take it slowly, take a break if you need to or stay like I do, and your mojo and confidence will return, I'm not there yet but certainly better than I have been

And if you want a chat, feel free to pm me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sent u a pm xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Snap. I find the gym helps or another meet. Or failing that take a break off fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Take a break off fab...come back once you confidence is where you think it should be...

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By *iscean MaleMan  over a year ago

Darlaston

Why has it gone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

have you tried a dildo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hey you just need a few of the nice women on here to pull you back in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you've hit a rough patch on here and your self confidence has gone, what do you do to get it back? My is shot to buggery at the moment."

Buy new shoes.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please help hahahahahahaha, I've tried everything from to the point profiles and was told it's rude, polite profiles and was told I'm to soft, genuine profiles and never get a reply. What is a guy to do?!!!!!!

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By *yldstyleWoman  over a year ago

A world of my own

Mine doesn't really exist full stop. Though on here I can paint a picture of a fantasy quite easily. And sometimes that helps.

I've had my share of nasty comments and messages over the years I've been here. Only once I took them to heart. Fab for me is am outlet and a bit of an escape from the reality. I think because I keep then separate it helps.

I'm afraid of no real words of wisdom other than... you can be the ripest and juiciest peach but there will still be someone who doesn't like peaches. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine doesn't really exist full stop. Though on here I can paint a picture of a fantasy quite easily. And sometimes that helps.

I've had my share of nasty comments and messages over the years I've been here. Only once I took them to heart. Fab for me is am outlet and a bit of an escape from the reality. I think because I keep then separate it helps.

I'm afraid of no real words of wisdom other than... you can be the ripest and juiciest peach but there will still be someone who doesn't like peaches. X"

How right you are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mine also but I'm gonna try n get over the crap feeling of constant rejection & get out there and enjoy myself again. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very true, oh well I shall soldier on and wait for that one who likes peaches xxx thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is the last place that the vast majority of single men should be looking to boost their confidence

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My confidence is always high and will never allow anyone to make me feel low. One has to remember that we are all beautiful in all shapes and forms. The ones that try to hurt you are the unhappiest. I love you all peeps x

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple  over a year ago

Surrey


"This is the last place that the vast majority of single men should be looking to boost their confidence"

This! For anyone though not just single lads. If confidence is down, do not look for this place to build it. Spend time with people that know, care for you... Real people. And do 'stuff'! Cinema, walking in the countryside, nice pub garden etc. Just fill your time with things that make you feel good. It will creep back... It usually does

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

I normally pop down to gym if feeling shitty and take a few days of from site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please do not let a Web site determine your confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My confidence is always high and will never allow anyone to make me feel low. One has to remember that we are all beautiful in all shapes and forms. The ones that try to hurt you are the unhappiest. I love you all peeps x"

Guess u might hve a point there. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go to a greedy girls night in a club

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey you just need a few of the nice women on here to pull you back in "

I'm guessing.. And it's a long shot mind... That that is why his confidence is shot in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Like people have said don't rely on here to get your confidence. It's a site where people don't really give a shit about you (NSA) and aren't looking for much more than something shallow.

Treat this place like it's somewhere to take time off from being you, not that this site is you or reflects you, if you aren't shallow that is.

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