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over a year ago
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Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
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over a year ago
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What time and hassle is sending one message and having someone reply back not for them? Also, they may be using the age thing as an excuse, they may just not be into you for other reasons. People have age preferences to restrict mail usually, from a woman's point of view anyway. People change periodically what they may be looking for but don't always change their profile accordingly.
As for people deleting your messages without reply, might not be an age thing, they just don't like the look of you/your profile. |
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You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on. |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on. "
Having had a look at your profile we'd have replied then blocked you. It says you can't accom but can travel to me that screams out cheating or living with parents. Just our observation but that would put a lot off. |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on.
Having had a look at your profile we'd have replied then blocked you. It says you can't accom but can travel to me that screams out cheating or living with parents. Just our observation but that would put a lot off. "
It's not that at all because of my job I live in shared accommodation, and a lot of hassle to gain entry for said person etc...
As for the messages if they don't reply or delete I never reply back with anything disrespectful and I do take it as a bop on the chin just a tad annoying. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X "
If it's a single lady, I'd start of with as compliment about there pictures personal, then if there profile doesn't have much information on what there looking for in the guy plus any other questions I may have.
Then ask them if they have any questions asskboubout myself. |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X "
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc... |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc..."
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile. |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc...
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile."
Oh ok thanks for the help. |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc...
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile."
Yea definetly and never expect or ask for a meet/fuck straight away ..... I don't know about anyone else but I find it off putting X |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc...
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile.
Yea definetly and never expect or ask for a meet/fuck straight away ..... I don't know about anyone else but I find it off putting X "
Oh I never do that I'd want to get to know them first and just have a chat to begin with.
Even if it just ended up us just chatting and not meeting I'm happy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quite the contrary, he sounds rather sweet and considerate, shocking you're not into trannies though, you darn racist you lol."
Haha would it not be sexist? 
Yeah sorry just not what I'm looking for. |
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"Quite the contrary, he sounds rather sweet and considerate, shocking you're not into trannies though, you darn racist you lol."
Haha would it not be sexist?
Yeah sorry just not what I'm looking for. |
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"Quite the contrary, he sounds rather sweet and considerate, shocking you're not into trannies though, you darn racist you lol.
Haha would it not be sexist?
Yeah sorry just not what I'm looking for."
So you believe, cue prolonged meglomaniacal madtranny laugh.
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc...
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile.
Yea definetly and never expect or ask for a meet/fuck straight away ..... I don't know about anyone else but I find it off putting X
Oh I never do that I'd want to get to know them first and just have a chat to begin with.
Even if it just ended up us just chatting and not meeting I'm happy with that."
Ahh ok just be patient and keep being your polite self X |
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"I'm not put off by age ........ What kind of messages are you sending? X
If it's a couple I always address them both, not just the female.
I ask what they both are looking for asked what they would like etc...
Asking what people are looking for is a bog standard rather boring question people get sent all the time and often, the answer is in their profile. Try tailoring a message to something mentioned in their profile.
Yea definetly and never expect or ask for a meet/fuck straight away ..... I don't know about anyone else but I find it off putting X
Oh I never do that I'd want to get to know them first and just have a chat to begin with.
Even if it just ended up us just chatting and not meeting I'm happy with that.
Ahh ok just be patient and keep being your polite self X "
That's all I ever am  haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Quite the contrary, he sounds rather sweet and considerate, shocking you're not into trannies though, you darn racist you lol.
Haha would it not be sexist?
Yeah sorry just not what I'm looking for.
So you believe, cue prolonged meglomaniacal madtranny laugh.
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Haha ok then I must be mistaken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're better off just winking or fabbing a pic, then if they return or message, take it as a green light."
Said the man that's just offended half of fab with his steriotyping!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
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Gonna get shot down for this but there are too many young people like yourself trawling the net for sex with older from behind a keyboard.
21 you should be out looking for women your own age.We would never consider you in all honesty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
Gonna get shot down for this but there are too many young people like yourself trawling the net for sex with older from behind a keyboard.
21 you should be out looking for women your own age.We would never consider you in all honesty"
I do go out and do all the things young people do, generally don't like people my own age this generation are all just immature to be honest. |
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
Gonna get shot down for this but there are too many young people like yourself trawling the net for sex with older from behind a keyboard.
21 you should be out looking for women your own age.We would never consider you in all honesty"
 we can't understand this either but maybe it's because when we were that age that's what we did. |
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"You're better off just winking or fabbing a pic, then if they return or message, take it as a green light."
Looking at numerous posts on this subject many people (not all) wouldn't even see a wink or a fab so you would be narrowing chances with this tactic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" we can't understand this either but maybe it's because when we were that age that's what we did."
This generation is just rubbish wish I was born in the 80s haha. |
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"You're better off just winking or fabbing a pic, then if they return or message, take it as a green light.
Looking at numerous posts on this subject many people (not all) wouldn't even see a wink or a fab so you would be narrowing chances with this tactic."
Rather. A lazy-minded approach I'd suggest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're better off just winking or fabbing a pic, then if they return or message, take it as a green light."
i would not rely on just winks, message away, you cannot knock a coconut down everytime
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By (user no longer on site)
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" we can't understand this either but maybe it's because when we were that age that's what we did.
This generation is just rubbish wish I was born in the 80s haha."
I'm an 80's baby xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" we can't understand this either but maybe it's because when we were that age that's what we did.
This generation is just rubbish wish I was born in the 80s haha.
I'm an 80's baby xx "
I so do wish I was haha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're better off just winking or fabbing a pic, then if they return or message, take it as a green light."
I would rather be direct and message them, than than bugging them with a wink, not everybody notices fabs. |
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Yes some people really do restrict there chances, age is just a number and people can vary greatly, its like having a car that has been looked after and a car that has been neglected - can look totally different lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
Gonna get shot down for this but there are too many young people like yourself trawling the net for sex with older from behind a keyboard.
21 you should be out looking for women your own age.We would never consider you in all honesty"
I totally agree with this |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. "
How does he seem like that? |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply.
How does he seem like that?"
He seems quite the opposite!!!
The OP and I have exchanged a few messages with no intention of meeting, not once has he been 'pissy or abusive' X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
Gonna get shot down for this but there are too many young people like yourself trawling the net for sex with older from behind a keyboard.
21 you should be out looking for women your own age.We would never consider you in all honesty"
The age 21 is a no no for me too!! Lots of people lie on here about their age though!! |
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Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I suppose a noticable age difference could be awkward for chat. E.g they may like actors or films you never heard of or viceversa"
That is very true. |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range. "
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx "
How's about splitting race by gender too. |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx
How's about splitting race by gender too."
How do u mean ? I'm confused lol xx |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx
How's about splitting race by gender too.
How do u mean ? I'm confused lol xx "
Black dicks and white chicks.
Or splitting age by sexuality, personally I prefer old straights and young queens. |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx
How's about splitting race by gender too.
How do u mean ? I'm confused lol xx
Black dicks and white chicks.
Or splitting age by sexuality, personally I prefer old straights and young queens."
Ahh yea not a bad idea, I prefer black men but white ladies, so I would definitely benefit xx |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx
How's about splitting race by gender too.
How do u mean ? I'm confused lol xx
Black dicks and white chicks.
Or splitting age by sexuality, personally I prefer old straights and young queens.
Ahh yea not a bad idea, I prefer black men but white ladies, so I would definitely benefit xx "
Like the sound of that ^^  |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on.
Having had a look at your profile we'd have replied then blocked you. It says you can't accom but can travel to me that screams out cheating or living with parents. Just our observation but that would put a lot off.
It's not that at all because of my job I live in shared accommodation, and a lot of hassle to gain entry for said person etc...
As for the messages if they don't reply or delete I never reply back with anything disrespectful and I do take it as a bop on the chin just a tad annoying."
Maybe put on your profile then that you can't accommodate as you live in a house share, easy |
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"Sometimes people put a preference on their profile, but they may like 21 yr old women but only 40+ men but you don't get the option to split your ages by gender... if they are saying you aren't the age they are looking for then just accept it and move on to someone who is looking for your age range.
That is so true! Wouldn't it be much easier for couples and bi people if we could split age by gender xx
How's about splitting race by gender too.
How do u mean ? I'm confused lol xx
Black dicks and white chicks.
Or splitting age by sexuality, personally I prefer old straights and young queens.
Ahh yea not a bad idea, I prefer black men but white ladies, so I would definitely benefit xx
Like the sound of that ^^ "
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. "
Where did you gain that insight into the OP?  |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply.
Where did you gain that insight into the OP? "
I've been trying to work that out! He really is so polite and hasn't made any rude comments on his post. He has took people's questions and comments really well X
Who wrote that pissy comment because I can't see original post anymore ? |
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
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Much harder to find a younger person or someone of the same age on this site so always aim higher, I'm 38 and meeting 45-50 year olds but cant complain tbh, they are far more experienced and make lovely peeps to meet. |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply.
Where did you gain that insight into the OP?
I've been trying to work that out! He really is so polite and hasn't made any rude comments on his post. He has took people's questions and comments really well X
Who wrote that pissy comment because I can't see original post anymore ? "
Fourth one from the top |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply.
Where did you gain that insight into the OP?
I've been trying to work that out! He really is so polite and hasn't made any rude comments on his post. He has took people's questions and comments really well X
Who wrote that pissy comment because I can't see original post anymore ?
Fourth one from the top"
Ahh yeah found it! Thanks
They're deluded he had barely even written anything when they commented X  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just like to say thank you for all the advise you have given I really appreciate it!
And thank you to all that have defended me against the pissy comment.
Your all amazing! |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on.
Having had a look at your profile we'd have replied then blocked you. It says you can't accom but can travel to me that screams out cheating or living with parents. Just our observation but that would put a lot off.
It's not that at all because of my job I live in shared accommodation, and a lot of hassle to gain entry for said person etc...
As for the messages if they don't reply or delete I never reply back with anything disrespectful and I do take it as a bop on the chin just a tad annoying.
Maybe put on your profile then that you can't accommodate as you live in a house share, easy"
Yeah never thought of that, thank you. |
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"Guessing you're Military if you're in Pernham Down and have shared accommodation? Not a bad thing but arranging meets might be an issue if you arrange one and get collared for a last minute stag.......
You sound ok but re-read your profile and sort out the Cougar bit that doesn't quite make sense. And don't put that you're willing to meet women of any age, seems desperate, try something like "Would like to meet ladies around my age, but have a passion for an older woman........" "
Absolutely brilliant thank you for the help, yeah that's why I can't accom either just a lot of hassle. |
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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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Guessing you're Military if you're in Pernham Down and have shared accommodation? Not a bad thing but arranging meets might be an issue if you arrange one and get collared for a last minute stag.......
You sound ok but re-read your profile and sort out the Cougar bit that doesn't quite make sense. And don't put that you're willing to meet women of any age, seems desperate, try something like "Would like to meet ladies around my age, but have a passion for an older woman........" |
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"Mr C was based in Tidworth in the 90's, thats how we know. Also how we met, so there's always hope!! Lol"
Haha yeah engineer, do sometimes like to keep it quite... just a personal preference also I hope you don't mind but I did steal that quoted text about what I'm looking for as it's better than what I could of come up with haha.
Oh and don't tell me about last minute stags had one today!! Haha |
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over a year ago
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on. "
We've chatted to this guy for over an hour, he's very polite and down to earth. Not rude at all. Why you thought he 'seems' like that, we have no idea tbh. |
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over a year ago
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on.
Having had a look at your profile we'd have replied then blocked you. It says you can't accom but can travel to me that screams out cheating or living with parents. Just our observation but that would put a lot off.
It's not that at all because of my job I live in shared accommodation, and a lot of hassle to gain entry for said person etc...
As for the messages if they don't reply or delete I never reply back with anything disrespectful and I do take it as a bop on the chin just a tad annoying.
Maybe put on your profile then that you can't accommodate as you live in a house share, easy
Yeah never thought of that, thank you."
Doesn't need to be in capitals either |
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"You seem like the kind of guy who would get a bit pissy and abusive in reply messages or go on and on with email after said no thanks reply. Whoever you're emailing may not be attracted to you, they may have the age lowered for couples/ladies but looking for men a bit older. You'll never know. Just take it as a bop on the chin and move on. "
How you come to that conclusion from a well written question I'll never know!! |
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"Well basically I'm having trouble arranging meets, I will search and find someone I like the look of and message them.
The annoying thing is they will reply but saying sorry not looking for someone your age, just gets me thinking why have your preferences set to that age if you not looking, just saves everyone a lot of time and hassle.
Furthermore there are certain people again who have the same preferences who just delete the message or read it and not reply is it my pics or profile?
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Personally you are too young for me to meet alone. The only downside to you is that you aren't bi 
You'd be perfect for a fantasy of mine
Saying that though, you come across as polite & mature. You have taken advise, good or bad on board. Good luck.
PS If ever you fancy sucking a cock let me know |
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